yongshenmefangfawanhuisixindenvren,youxierenshuonvrenxinhaidizhen,dangyigenvrenainishi,nvshenghuizhenxinfuchudixintengni,naizhizongxiangbamantianxingxingyueliangdouzhaixiarangni;kedangyigenvrenduizijidesilexinshi,taduinifeichanglengdan,nideyiqiegerenxingweihebiaodadounanyichudongta,nvshenghuiyuelaiyuerangnijuedejiweishengshu。shijishangwanliuyigeyijingduizijidesilexinderen,jiuhaobishiyichangzhanyi,nixuyaodeshizhanlvehezhanshu,erfeiluanchongluancuan,zhipingjiezhezijideyiqiangrexuequchengneng。xiamianjiujiaodajia5gejueji,shiniqudechenggongwanliuneiyigeduizijidezaoyisixindenvren。
一、认清分手真相

henduorenbeifenshouzhihou,yinweixintaishangjieshoubule,yincitamenhuixuanzebuyiburao,danzheizhongxingweizhihuirangduifangyufadichu,gengjiandinglikainidexinxin。zhumingqingganzixunshikangnacengjingshuoguo:“dangyigerenhenifenshoushi,taduiyuniyeshichedifoudingde。”huanjuhuashuotaduinizaoyixinhuiyilengle,nideyiqiezaitayanzhongdoubudui,nisuozuodeyuedacuojiuhuiyueduo。suoyizheishihouzuimingzhidezuofabianshirenqingfenshouzhenxiang,buxiangjiuchanbuqinglingyifang,jiduifangyigeqingxingdeshijianyukongjian,rangshijianlaixiaochudajiajiandemaodun,tongshihaikeyiliyongzheiduanshijianqufansizishenwenti,weizhihoudewanliuzuoyigechongzudezhunbei。
henduorenhuiwen:“meiqulianxita,tabawowanglezenmeban?”“zheiyiduanshijiantazhaoxinhuangaizenmeban?”youzheimesixiangderenneijiushuomingjiushitaiqueshaozixinle,niduizijimeiyouzixin,duitabingmeiyouzixinxin,nilaojuedetafangqinishiyouyuwaimianyourenle,huozheshuotaconglaimeiyouaiguoni,qishibingbushizheiyangde,tajirangennizaiyiqiguo,tabianyidingshiaiguonide,duizijidexinhuiyilengleyeyidingyeshiyouyuanyinde,erzheixieyuanyinjuebushiyouyuwaimianyourenle,yidingshinibenshencunzaidewenti,zhishizijiyizhibuyuanqurenqingeryi。
二、提高自身价值,重构诱惑力
wanhuiganqingdehexinzaiyuercixiyin,shenmeshiercixiyinzhuni?shirangnizaicidadongtayici,danshizheiyicidexiyinzhugendiyicixiyinzhushibuyiyangde,diyicisuoxiyinqingkuangxiadajiachuzaixianghuzhijianbulijiedehuanjie,suoyineishihounishenshangdeyoudianheliangdiannengqingyixiyinta,dandiercixiyinzhushizaitazaoyifeichanglejienideqingkuangxia,nixuyaozuodaodeshizhongxinsuzaozishendeyingxiangli,rangzijichengweiyigegengyouxiuderen,yigehezhiqianwanquanbutongni,jinyouzhiyouzheiyangcainengzaicixiyinta。neijutiyinggaizenmezuoni?
1. waizaimeijiazhidetisheng
waizaimeijiushiwomenjirendediyiyinxiang,yinciwaizaigaibianshizuizhijieyeshihenzhongyaode,nikeyigenjuzijideshejifenggechangshibutongdezaoxing,zhaodaozuishihezijideneiyizhong,tongshiyeyaozhuyitigaozijichuanyipinwei,rangzijikanqilaigengjiashishang,gengweiqizhiyouya。ciwai,henzhongyaodeyidianjiushiyaoguanlihaozijideshenxing,jianchiduanlian,rangzijiyongyouyigeqiangjiandetipo,wulunduiyuzijideshentijiankanglaishuoshizhenduiwanhuiganqingeryandoushijiqiyouyide。
2. benzhijiazhidetisheng
yongshenmefangfawanhuisixindenvren,jiarushuowaizaigenggaishinibibeipin,neiyangneizaigenggaicaishinengbunengwanliuchenggongdejishi。birushuoniyiqianshiyigepiqijizao,bumingbaikongzhizijiqingxuderen,neimejiuxuyaoxuehuikongzhihaozijideqingxu,rangzijihuodepingjingxiaqu;jiaruniyiqianshiyigemeiyouyiqiegerenaihao,guodehenfaweideren,neimenijiuxuyaoqusuzaoyilianggegerenaihao,chongshizijirichangshenghuo;jiaruniyiqianshiyigeqingshanghendi,bumingbainvhaixiaoxinsiren,neinijiuyaotigaozijideqingshangzhishang,dongdehuanweisikao,lejienvshengdeneixinxuqiudeng。ruguonitongguoyiduanshijiandejinliangrangzijibiandegengyouxiu,gengweiyouqizhideqingkuangxia,nibenshenbianhuisanfachuyizhongqiangjingdeyingxiangli,danzheizhongyouhuolishisuoyounvhaizibukekangjude,baohantayiduizijidesilexindenvpengyou。
三、创建舒适度,清除防备心理

ruguonigenjuzijidenuliyouleyidingdegenggaiyihou,xiamiannengzuodejiushihetajianlilianxi,danzailianluodeguochengdangzhongniyingzhuyifangfahecuoshi,bubibaoluzijiqingganxuqiu,gengbietijiaiqing,keyizhaoyigeheshideyuanyinhetajianlilianxi,liruzhishiyipengyoushenfenquguanzhuta,rangtaganshoudaonizhuanbian,tongshiyeyaozhuyiziyideyanyu,bubijitazaochengfudan,rangqijianjiandiduizijidexiexiafangbeixinlizhuangtai,zhiyouzaitaduinibiandebuzaipaichideqingkuangxia,niwanliutacaihuihaiyouxiwang。
zaihetaliaotiandeguochengzhong,nikeyiduoliaoyixiezishenjinqidediaozhenghefazhan,rangqijiandaonidejinbu,haikeyiliaoyixietaganxingqudeshi,rangtaganshoudaonideyongxin,danqianwanbuyaoguoduozhanxianziji,gengbuyaojigongjinli,nixuyaodeshijianjiandituidongnimenzhijiandeguanxi,erfeiyixiazijiuyaohetafuhexing,niyaozhidao,zhejishichibuleredoufude。dangnimenzhijiandeguanxituidongdaoyidingchengdushi,keyizhaoyigeheshidetupokouyuetapengmian,danzaipengmiandeguochengdangzhongyebiejitataidayali,ninengdaitadajiayiqianquguodechengshi,gouqitaxinzhongzuimeihaodehuiyi,rangtaduinizaicichanshengqingsu。
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