nanrenxinlimeiyoulaopodebiaoxian,zaiaiqingdeshijieli,youshi,qingkongwanlixiahenyoukenengyunzangzheanchaoyongdong。nvxing,zheiyineixinxinierfuzadeweishengwu,dangtamendexinkaishiqiaoqiaodebikai,yibanbuhuizhijieshuochu“woxianglikai”,ershiyonggezhonggeyangnairenxunweidezhuyaobiaoxianlaichuandazheiyixinxi。zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wojintianjiuyaopeinijieminvrenxiangyaoliquyigenanrendeshizhongzhuyaobiaoxian,shoubashoujiaonilejietaxiangfa,yexu,haikeyizaiaidebianyanlatayiba。
一、沟通交流越来越敷衍了事,间距悄悄地调远
zhuyaobiaoxianyi:huixinxibijiaoman,shenzhijingchang“yidubuhui”
yiqian,taxinxineirongyizhimiaohui,napazhiyouyigexiaobiaoqing,yechongmanleduinizaihu。danshixianzai,tahuiyingyuelaiyuebijiaoman,shenzhijingchangkanjiannidexinxihoubaochichenmo。xingxingba,zheibushizijimang,fanershitazaiyongshijixingdongduinishuo:“wohaizaishuyuanni。”
zhuyaobiaoxianer:liaotianxinxiyuelaiyueqianbo,buhuizaigongxiangshencengciniantou
dajiacongqiandexianliao,nengshiyitiandaowandelingsui,haikeyishiyeshenrenjingdexinlingjiaoliu。danshixianzai,tagenniliaotianneirongyulaiyuqianbo,jinjinxierichangdewenhou,wozaiyebuyuanfenxiangtadeshencengcixiangfaheganshou。zheijiuyiweizhe,tadexinmenzaoyiduizijideguandiaoleyibufen。
二、肢体语言透露出的疏远,比言辞更准确
zhuyaobiaoxiansan:fangzhizhitijiechu,napazhiyoubujingyijiandejiechu
yiqian,tayuanyigennishouqianshou、xiangyong,naizhixiangyizainidehuaili。danshixianzai,tajiukaishifangzhirenhefangshidezhitijiechu,napazhiyounibujingyijiandejiechu,tayehuixiayishidebikai。zhitiyuyan,yuanbiyancigengzhenshidifanyingletadexinli。
zhuyaobiaoxiansi:duishijiangdi,buhuizairouqingwanzhong
nanrenxinlimeiyoulaopodebiaoxian,yanjingshixinlingdechuanghu。yiqian,tadeyanshenliyizhirouqingwanzhong,chongmanzheduinideaiyi。danshixianzai,nihuifaxiantayuniduishideshijianyeyuelaiyuedi,naizhiruguonikanzhetadeqingkuangxia,nvshenghuikuaisuyizoushiye。zhei,shitazaiduobinideqinggan。
三、生活方式的变化,是内心变动的投射
zhuyaobiaoxianwu:buhuizaizaihuniderichang,duinideshibuwenbuwen
yiqian,taduinideshieryoushineimefangzaixinshang,bulunshinigongzuohaishishenghuo,tadouxiangyaocanyujinlai。danshixianzai,taduiniderichangyuelaiyuebuwenbuwen,jiusuannijijigentashuo,tayezhishifuyanleshidiyinggaiheyiliangju。zhei,shitazaizhujiantuichuniderensheng。
zhuyaobiaoxianliu:kaishizhongshisirenkongjian,buhuizaiyuanyigenninizaiyiqi
yiqian,tazongyuanyigenninizaiyiqi,bulunshikandianyinghaishiguangjiegouwu,douxiwangnengyounidepeiban。danshixianzai,takaishizhongshisirenkongjian,changchangyigezhongliyouhuijuenidepeiban,ningyuanyigerendaizaijialiyebuyuanyihenizaiyiqi。zhei,shitazaixunzhaodulidekongjian,weiliqudaxiajichu。
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