什么情况永远离不了婚

　　shenmeqingkuangyongyuanlibulehun，zenmecainengtaohuiyigeduizijidexinhandenvhaizi?yibuxiaoxinrangxihuandenvhaiduizijidexinhan，neixinquanshihouhuimoji?buyaohuang!xiangyaozaihuodetadexin，bingbushimeiyoujihui!bawozhei 5 geshiyongfangshi，yongzhenchengyuxingweijianjiandixiubutaxinhan，rangqizaicikanjini!

　　一、理智思考，选准让其伤心的缘故

　　(yi)zhuiyifenqixiaoxijie

　　zixihuixiangjinqigongchudediandiandidi，shifoutongyitashimeiyouzuodao?liruyouhuizongwandao、yuedingdebangzhuzuihoumeiyouduifu;huoshijianghuataishangren，hushileduifangdeganshou?jiangzheixiechongtudiandoushulichulai。

　　(二)了解共同好友

　　ruguonishizaixiangbutong，nengzhaoniliangdoushuxidepengyouwenyiwen。danbiechuxinjilv，qiaoqiaodetanting：“nilejietaweishenmeduiyuwoneimexinhanma?wozhenxianggai。”congpengyouneilicebianzhangwoyuangu，xinlihaoyougedi。

　　二、真诚道歉，别找理由躲避

　　(yi)dangzhongchengzhichengrencuowu

　　zhaoyigeheshideshijian，dangzhonggentazhiqian。bieshanshuoqici，dangmianshuo：“cicishiwobudui，shinineimexinhan，zhendechaojihouhuimoji。”yanshenjiandingdikanzheta，rangtaganshoudaonidechengyi。

　　(er)biaomingwentidegenyuan

　　zhiqianshi，biaodazijifancuowuyuangu，danbiezhaoliyou。liru：“wozongshiwandao，shiyouyushijianguanhencha，laojuedewanshufenzhongmeishier，quemeiyoukaolvdaonizaidengwodeqingxu。”rangtazhidaoniqingxicuozaina。

　　三、用实际行动证实更改，别光说不做

　　(yi)jiuzhengtakanzhongdewenti

　　shenmeqingkuangyongyuanlibulehun，ruguoyinweibuzukekaorangqixinhan，congneizhihoutongyideshiqingyidingyaozuodao。jitanakuaidi、chaziliao，yaneryouxin;yaoshiyouyupiqicha，ruxuezhediaojieqingxu，zuoshiduolengjingfenxi。

　　(二)主动提供协助

　　tamianduicuozheshi，jijishenchuyuanzhuzhishou。birutagongzuozhongmangdejiaotoulane，zhudongbangtazhenglicailiao;banjiashierhuabushuoguolaibangmang。yishijixingdonggentashuo，nizhendebianle。

　　四、多一点耐心，别急功近利

　　(一)给他缓冲期

　　biezhiqianwanjiujizherangqikuanrong，tadexinlidexinhanbingbushiyishibanhuierkeyixiaochude。jita 1 - 2 zhoulizhishizhang，qijiankeyiyoushihoufajuguanxindehuayu：“jinqijiangwenle，duochuandian，bieganmaole。”

　　(二)由浅入深触碰

　　dengtaxintailveweihuanjie，zaimanmanzengjiachupeng。yuetajianyichangtaxihuankandedianying，huoshiqutazuixihuandedifangkafeitingzuoyizuo。jiaowangshibiezongtiguoqudeshiqing，qingqingsongsongxianliao，zaicisuzaohaogandu。