怎么让一个女人重新爱上你

　　zenmerangyigenvrenzhongxinaishangni，dangyigenvrenduizijideshiwangtouding，daibiaozhetadexinyijingguofanfudisunhaiyuchengkong。wanliuzhitujianxin，danruoshinizhenxinshiyixingwuqieyuanyigaibian，xialieguanjianyaodianshibiyouzhilu。

　　1、认真反思，选准“症结”

　　tingzhibaoyuanlingyifang“wuqing”，jingxialai，tanrandihuiguzijinaxiexingwei、xintaierzhangqinanti(rulengdan、chuguixingwei、chuerfaner、mieshi、quefadandang)rangqiyicicixinhuiyileng?xunzhaoshitaxinhandehexinyuanyin。

　　bukanqingzijidewenti，yiqiewanliuquanshiyigaierlun，naizhiyicuozaicuo。jinyoujingquedingwei“zhengjie”，genggaicaihuiyoufangwei。

　　2、真诚道歉，不找借口

　　zhaoqiadangjihui，lingjulijinxingyichangshenrudedaoqian。shijiqiangdiaonisikaohoulejieguodebuzhengque，biaoshuduitasuoshoushangderenzhi，quelibiaoshukuijiu，bingkendingfangzhi“keshi”、“ruguobushini..”zheizhongtuixiezerenhuobianbo。

　　zhenchengdedaoqianshizhiyudediyibu。daishangtuocidedaoqianxiangdangyuercishanghai，fanerhuirangtagengxiangxinnimeishenmegenggai。

　　3、进一步更改，用实际行动证实

　　zheiyeshiwanliudeguanjian!genjuzijifansidenanti，zhidingbingjixushixingjutigaibianjihua。

　　ruguoyinhulveshouhou：jijizhengtiguihuagaopinzhixiangchudeshijian，paokaishoujizhuanzhuyugoutongjiaoliu。

　　ruguoyinchuerfaner：shenzhongfuwuchengnuo，yidantongyi，jiejinquanlibaozheng。

　　ruguoyinquefadandang：zuoshiyongyuchengdan，chuliwentibingfeiduobi。

　　ruguoyinqingxusunhai：wanquanduanjuechuguixingweigerenxingwei，yongchixuwendingzhongshizhongjianxinren。

　　zenmerangyigenvrenzhongxinaishangni，xinhanlaiyuanyuyicici“shuo”yu“zuo”deqifu。zhiyoubuduan、youcikejian、buzhuiqiujishihuibaoxingwei，caikeyiyidiandianronghuataxinzhongdeyandong，shuomingnidegenggaibingbushilinshixingyanchu。

　　4、重视节奏感，重建信任

　　ruhezuo：lejietafennuhejingtixinxuyaoyiduanshijianxiaohuaxishou。kendingzhichitadekongjianhequeding，buxinxihongzha、busipilailian、buyuyanbaoli。buduantouruguanzhu，zaitaxuyaodeshihoujiyuzhichi，danshibuguoduojinru。jienatakenengzanshilengmodehuifu，yongxiangduiwendingdeshanyihegenggaijianjiandifujianxinlaigan。

　　xinlaitantafeichangrongyifujiannan。nixinfuqizaohedayazhinengrangtagandaonigengkanzhongziyide“huode”，bingfeiduifangdeganshou，jiangjinyoudehaoganducuihui。

　　5、接纳结论，重视挑选

　　jiusuannifuchuguojudanuli，haiyaozuohaobubeijieshoudesixiangzhunbei。zhenxinshiyibiaodanideyiyuanhegaibianhou，zhichitazuihoudequeding。tayaoshilikai，timiandifangkaishou，bujiujie、budihui。bazheifensikaoyugaibianyongyiziwotisheng，chengweigenghaoderen。

　　aibushizhanyou，fanershilijieduifangxingfu。youshihou，zhenzhengdiwanliushirangqijiandaozijidechengzhang，jibianzheichengzhangdedaijiashishiquleta。buyiburaoshizuichajingdedaobie，zhinengzhengshitaxinhanshihelide。