wanhuiganqingjiqiaoduanlian,xiaohuobanmen,hunyinshenghuozheitangchea,kaijiulenanmianhuichuxiandianhuangdong。ruguofaxianlaopoduizijidejuewang、xinhuiyilengwanfen,neiganjuejiuxiangshihandonglayuediaojinbingku,youlengyouhuang。danzankebiejiuzheiyangyanbabakanzhe、chiyabakui,deganjinxingdongqilai,zhenxinzhenqingyuxingweibalaopozheikelengtoudeneixinjiwurelou。jinrizanmenjiudakaileliaoyiliao,jiujingzazuocaikeyiwanliuzheiduanganqing。
一、深挖根源:选准婚姻生活“疾病”

fupanzongjiewangri,zhuachufenqi“zuikuihuoshou”
zandejingxialai,haohaodihuiguyixialianaidaojiehun,zheiyiluzoulaiheqizizhongjianshenghuodediandi。xiangyixiangshiyishenmeshihouzhujian,xifukannideyanshenlimeiyouleguang,jianjianbiandelengmo、yanfan。shizhiqianyinweigongzuomang,hushileduifangdeganshou?huoshiyiqiantongyitashiqing,yiciyouyicidimeiyouzuodao,rangtagandaonishuohuabusuanshu?yihuozheshinideyixiehuaixiguan,xiangxihuanhejiu、xihuandayouxi,rangqiyulaiyuchengshoubuzhu?
woyouyigehaogemen,yiqiantaqiziduitayouqitiexin,danhoulaihuranjiuduitaailibulile。zhihoutaxixinyichuaimo,caizhidaoshiyinweitagongzuoyimangliuqilai,jiuchangchangwangdiaoxifudeshengri、jiehunjinianririzheizhongjiweizhongyaoderizi,yizhidoushixifutixing,zheicaihuandehuanshidibugelipin,kecikexifuneixinzaoyibushuangle。zheibianshimeiyoubaxifudeshiqingjizaixinshang,rangtagandaozishenzainixinzhongbingbuzhongyao,jianjiandijiuchedishiwang。suoyiya,zanyaobazheixiemaodundegenbenyuanyindouzhaochuqu,rutongyiyuankanbingdexuanzhunfabingyuanyinyiyang,jinyoulejiewentichuzainali,cainengshibangongbei。
qingtingxinsheng,lejiexifubiequ
xunzhaojihuiheqizixinpingqihedezuoxia,haohaoliaoyiliao。cikeqianwanbieyishanglaijiujiyubianbo,shuotayouduoburongyi,xianyaorangtabaxinlideweiquhebumandoudaojinqu。niyejiujingjingditingdao,gesanchawujitadiyibeishui,muguangzhuanzhuyudikanzheta,rangtazhidaoniyizhizaiyongxinting。dengtajiangwanle,zaichengkendihetashuoshengbaoqian,tanyanzijiyiqianzuodebugouhao,rangqishoudaoweiqu。
wogebilinjufuqiliang,yiqianzongshichaojia,xifuganjuelaogongbudongta,laogongyouganjuexifutaixutao。houlaiyouyici,zhangfujijiyuexifuqugongyuansanbu,zaisanbudeshihou,laogongjiuwenroudishuo:“xifu,womingbaiwomenliangzuijinlaoshinaomaodun,wodexinliyenanshou。nikeyijiwoshuoshuo,nidexinlijiujingzenmexiangdebu?”xifuyikaishihaiyoudianerchiyi,zhihoukandaolaogongzhenchengdeyanshen,bianbaxinlideweiquyigunaoerdoushuoguochuqu,shenmelaogongcongbuganjiawuhuo,zishengongzuoyitianhuijiahaiyaozhaoguyijialaoxiao;naxielaogongzongshihushiduifangdeqingxu,taxinfandeshihou,zhangfulianjuanweidehuayuyemeiyou。zhangfutinghou,caifaxianxifuyuanxianjileineimeduobiequ,dangshijiushileyankuang,genxifuquebaoyihouyidinghuigai。congneishiqi,fuqiliangzhijiandeguanximanmandejiuhuanhele。
二、真心实意改过自新:用实际行动重构信赖
gaizhengexi,zuokekaoairen
zhaochuyuanyinhou,jiuyaoshentilixingxiaqu,jiangneixieranglaopoxinhuiyilengdexiaomaobingdougaizheng。ruguonizhiqianxihuanhejiu,zhangqihedelanzuirunidihuilai,haishuajiufeng,neizhihoujiushaohedian,caibuheyejiubuhe。ruguoqueshituiweibule,yetiqiangenxifushuoyisheng,rangqibuyaodanxin,bingqiequebaozijibuhuiheduo。ruguonizhiqianxihuandayouxi,yidabianshibanyesangeng,hushilexifu,neizhihoujiushaodali,duohuashijianpeibanta。

woyougetongshi,zhiqianfeichangxihuanaoyedayouxi,xifuyincihetachaolehenduoci,danshitabianshiwufagaibian。houlaiyouyici,xifubingzhongle,tayigerenzaiyiyuanlimanglimangwai,yeshizhaoliaoxifu,yeshipaoshangpaoxiabanlishouxu,leidegouqiang。ciketacaifaxian,yuanxianxifuduitaeryanneimezhongyao,tawufazaiyouyuwanyouxierhushitale。congneishiqi,tabianjiangyouxijiediaole,meitianhuijiahenzaohuijiale,peilaopoyiqizuofan、kandianshiju、xianliao,xifukanzaiyanzhong,nuanzaixinzhong,duitayeyuelaiyuehaole。
fuzeren,bianchengjiatingzhizhu
zaijiatingli,nidexiangxiaonanzihanyiyang,bayaochengdandefengxiandoutiaoqilai。jijibanglaopofendanjiawu,bielaojuedejiawushinvrenshiqing。nixiabanlezaodehua,bianbajiazhongshoushixingli,zuofanchi,denglaopohuilai,jitayigewenxinshushidejia。ruguojialiyoushenmedaxiaoshi,niyedechongzaiqianmian,xiangyigejingshenzhizhuyiyang,ranglaopoganjueyoujiezhu。
wobiaogeyuanlaishigewoxingwosu,jiazhongdeshiqingshenmedouwulun,tongtongdiujitangsao。tangsaoyouyaoqushangbanle,haidepeihulaorenxiaohai,haixuyaozuojiawuhuo,leidaobuhao。houlaiyouyici,tangsaodemuqinshengbingle,tangsaoyigerentaimang,jidezhiku。tanggejiandaotangsaozheimelei,caiyishidaozijizhiqiantaitaobizerenle。congneishiqi,tabianbianleyigerenyiyang,zhudongchengdanqizhaogulaorendeyiwu,haibangtangsaofendanjiawu,tangsaoyaliyixiazijiuhuanjielexuduo,duibiaogedexintaiyezhujiangaibianle。
三、情绪提温:重新点燃婚姻生活热情
langmanjingxi,huanqitianmihuiyi
wanhuiganqingjiqiaoduanlian,hunhoushenghuobunengzongshipingdanrushui,oueryehuihuodedianxiaojingxi,jixifushengchanzhizaodianyiwaijingxi。womenkeyizailaoposhengrihuoshijiehunjinianririshi,jingxinanpaiyifenliwu,buxuyaotaizhengui,danyidingyaoyouqingyi。birutayizhixiangyaodeyibenshu,huoshiyitiaotaxihuandeweibo。haikeyidaitadajiadiyiciyuehuidedifang,zhongwenyixiacengjingdexingfushiguang。
woyouyigepengyou,taqiziyouqixihuanhua。youyinianqixijie,tatizaoqiaoqiaodingleyidashumeigui,haidongshouzuoleyizhangkapian,shangbianmanmandoushiduilaopodeaiheganxie。ranhoutajiubahuazangdaobeihou,dengxifuxiabanhuilai,huranchuxiantamianqian,bahuadijita,shuo:“xifu,qingrenjiekuaile!woxihuanni!”xifujidongdeleishuidouliuchulaile,jinjinjinbaota。congneishiqi,tamenlianggedeganqingyuelaiyueshen,rutongganglianaideshihouyiyangtianmei。
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