挽回以后怎么相处

　　wanhuiyihouzenmexiangchu，xifuduiyuwoxinhuiyilengleyoushenmehaobanfawanhuita?nvrensixinbingbushiyishibankedeshihuoshijinjinshiyinweimoujianshi，ershijingguorijiyueleidexinhan，zainisuobuzhidaodeshijianyudiqu，tunyanletaiduobiequ，chuanguoleshubuqingdeleishui，caicujinbenlaihenixudingyishengdelaopoduizijidechedishiwang。neiyang，ruhewanhuilaopoyisilexindehunyinshenghuo，qudechenggongwanhuihunyinni?

　　zenmewanhuiyigesilexindexifuwanhuiqizishangtoudexin

　　第一招：冷暴力

　　nanrendexinsizhongjiumeiyounvrenneiyangbijiaomingan，dengnifaxianxifuyisilexinshi，kenengfashenglehenyanzhongdehunlianwenti，zaizheiyangyigejieguyanshi，nanshengxianbuyaozhejizhequwanliuyisilexindexifu，tebieshichanshenghunyinshenghuowentishi，nanshengbulizhi、aishengqidegexinghenrongyidaozhiwufawanjiudedaijia。

　　nixuyaozuodejiushijideshijianrangfuqiliangrenpingjingxialai，ranglaopozaiqingxuwendingdezhuangtaixiaxiangqidajiahunyinshenghuodemeimiaodiandiandidi，danglianggerendoupingjingxialaiyihou，xunzhaojihuichengkendigenxifubiaoshizijiqianjiu，zheiyangcaihuigengyouzhuyuwanhuiqiziyisilexindehunyinshenghuo。

　　第二招：注视自己的问题

　　bingdongsanrifeiyirizhihan。keyiranglaopoduizijidesilexin，shiyinweinizishenwentixuduo，dafangdianchengrenba，zheishibushiniguangguzhepinshiyemangzhegongzuo，ranglaopochangchangziranyishen?huozheshinijiuyizhinan，budongzengjiahunyinshenghuoshenghuolequ，lianqixijiedoubusongxianhua?huozheshuonijiuhuiyouwaiyuhunhouchugui，shenzhijiatingbaolidenanti?……

　　buguanyuanyinyounaxie，yunyonggenlaopolengbaolidezheiduanshijian，shensishulvyixiabenshendewentisuozai，zhaodaoyizhicunyoudehunlianwenti，bingzhenduinantihaohaodigenlaopozhiqian，yucitongshizhenduixingdijiuzhengzijidewenti，ranglaopoduizijidezhongxinzhenzuo。

　　第三招：用亲人的温情触动老婆

　　ruguonvrenyizhiduizijidelengbaoli，bufangguaiwanmojiao，xunqiubangzhuniangjialaixiezhuwanhuiqizi，yekeyiliyongyitongdexiaohai，duihaizihaoyidian，ranglaopokanjiannidezerengan，huoxu，nvshenghuikanzaihaizimianzishang，zaijiniyicijihui。

　　nvxingzhongjiurongyixinruan，zhiyaonixiangqingqisuoyouquwanhuiqizi，zaijueqingdenvrenyeshihuiyouhuiguotoudeniantou，danzheiyangzuoqiantitiaojianshi，nanshengxiangyaohuiguozixin，bubizaiquzuohuirangnvrenshangxindeshier。

　　zhongjiuhuirangnvrenyierzaidixinhan，zhidaonvxingwanquanzuiwuzhudeshihou，zaiquxiangruhewanhuilaopoyisilexindehunyinjiuqueshichile，bururujinxiadingjuexinyao，duotilianglaopoyidian，duojixifuyidianyiwaijingxi，nijiuhuifaxian，shijishangxifuxiangyaodedongxibingbushihenduo，zhishizijihushiletashijixuqiubale。

　　zhidaoxifusilexinyihoucaihuandehuanshi，fajueshengminglibunengbuyaozheinvren，dannvrendexinsihuizhiwanyi，xifusilexinruhewanliuhunyinni?

　　第四招：剖析女人为什么会对自己的死了心

　　yiduanganqing，benlaitongchangshinanrenzhuiqiunvrende，yinernvrensixinzaochengfuqiganqingpoliedehua，nanrenyoubukeyituiweidezhize。

　　dangganqingchuxianliehenshenzhihunyinpoliedeqingxingxia，zuoweiyigenanrenzuiliyingzuochulaidejiushifanshengziji。

　　shishenmeyuanyinzaochengde，daozhilingyibanduizishenwanquanshangtoulexin，buchiyouyiqiexiwang。jiujingshinibaopiqi?shiniguoyuziwo?

　　huoshibutailejielingyibanzhenshidexuqiushisha……zhaodaolingyibansilexindezhuyaoyuanyin，cainenggoujiejuewenti，cainengyoujihuiwanliusilexinxifu。

　　1、迁移分别的视野

　　ruguonishizijidenvrensixinshi，yidingshiyinweijinvxingzaochengshanghai。

　　wanhuiyihouzenmexiangchu，xiangrangnvhaizisuibiankuanshuzijifeichangkunnan，yiner，nijiuyinggaimingzhidichakaihuati，bunengrangdajiayizhidanxincongqiandebuzhengque。

　　yiner，fuqigoutongcishiyinggaiduotaobitandaoyiqiandezhengyi，dangxinbubiqianshedaoyiqiandehunlianwenti。

　　duoliaoyiliaohaizideshi，genairengongxiangxiaohaiderichang，duotanyitanduihaizidezhengtiguihuadeng，neiyangyiliao，silexindexifuyibanjujuebule。

　　2、jiandingbuyiwanliuzixinxinzhidingqieheshijidewanliujihuafangan

　　muqianzaiwangshangdewanliugonglvedaquanshifenduo，xuduorenxihuankangonglvedaquanlaizhixingfangan。

　　danshigonglvedaquangenbenwufaguinasuoyoudeqingkuang，doubushimeiyigerenyongtongyizhonggonglvedaquanjiukeyihuodetongyangdexiaoguo。

　　nanxingzaizhidingwanliufanganzhong，bixugenjuzishendeqingkuangfuheshijiqingkuang，bingqiezaishijidewanliuguochengzhongyeyaogenjulingyibandetixiansuishidiaojie。