nvrenzaidengniwanhuidebiaoxianyounaxieni,yibuxiaoxin,jiuyoukenengrangneigeyiqianhenishengsiqikuodezhenbianren,xinrusihui,naizhilikaini。biezheji,biezheji,jinrinideqinggangaoshoulaijiu,bianshiyaojinizhijidazhao,jiaodajiaruhewanhuilaopozheikeshangtoudexin,fujiandajiazhijiandexinrengongluqiaoliang!
kaichangci:hunyinzhongde“yulunyali”

hunyinshenghuo,yuanshiliangrenxieshoutongxinglvcheng,danshiyoushihou,yinweiyixiebujingyijiandecuxindayi、wuhuihuozhemaodun,jiukenenghuishizheiduanlvchengjingjibianbu。youqishidangxifudeneixinbeishangguoshi,neileixinlaigandetanta,jiuxiangyizuoyongxindajiandeshabao,beishiliaoweijiderechaochongdeqilingbaluo。cike,yaozenmeban?shitingzhirenzhi,huoshijijizhudongwanliu?ziran,ruguohaiaixizheiduanganqing,haixianggentaxieshougongduyusheng,neiyang,wanliubianshibiyouzhilu。
第一招:真诚道歉,认错
zuixian,womendeqingchu,danglaopodeneixinbeishangguoshi,tagengxuyaodeshinaxie?shilijie,shirenke,shikanjiannizhenzhenzhengzhengyishidaozijidecuowu。yinci,diyibu,jiushiweilechengkendizhiqian,chengrenzijiguocuo。
致歉实例:
“xifu,wozhidaozijijinqi(jutixingwei)zuodebudui,shinishangxinyujue。woshizhenderenshidaozijidewenti,neihuier(biaoshuneishihoudetaiduhuoyuangu,danshijianjiemingle,buyaozhaojiekou),jiushiwomeiyoukaolvdaonideqingxu。woxiangnidaoqian,xiwangninenggouqingyuanliangwo。”
情感大师讲解:
rencuodeqingkuangxia,jilaoyaozhenxinshiyi,bubifuyanleshi。buyaozhishishuo“zhendeduibuqi”,ershiyinggaishijishuochunicuozaina,weishenmecuo,cainenggourangxifukanjiannidechengxin。
第二招:聆听她心里话,了解对方的感受
zhiqianyihou,jiezhejiushilingting。xifuxinhuiyileng,tayidingyouhenduohuaxiangshuo,xuduoxintaibixuxuanxie。cike,womenyaozuode,shidangyigehaodelingtingzhe,bubiqieduanta,bubibianbo,jinjinrenzhendeting。

聆听方法:
weichiduishi,rangtaganshoudaonidexihuan。
qiadangdidiandiantouhuodechujianduanhuifu,liru“ng”、“wodongdele”。
buyaojizhebianbohuofanbo,dengtajiangwanzaijiang。
情感大师讲解:
lingting,shizhongjianxinrendezhongyaoyibu。genjulingting,nikeyilejietadezhenzhengxiangfaheganshou,yekeyirangtaganshoudaobeizunzhongyulijie。
第三招:展现更改,用实际行动证实
nvrenzaidengniwanhuidebiaoxianyounaxieni,guangshuozhiqianhelingtingbugou,zhenzhengdegaibiancaishizhongdian。nixuyaoyishijixingdonglaiyanzheng,niyijingyishidaolezijidewenti,erqieyizhizainulijiuzheng。

更改实例:
dangnizhiqianjingchanghushiduifangdeganshou,neixianzaikeyiduoguanxinta,duowen“nijintianzenmeyang”、“younaxiebuyukuaideshiqing?”。
dangnizhiqianyizhigongzuomangliu,hushijiazhong,neiyangxianzaikaishijinkenengdiaozhengshizhang,duopeibantayuxiaohai。
jiarunizhiqianyounaxiehuaixiguan,liruxiyan、hejiutaiduo,neixianzaijiuyaonulijiechuhekongzhi。
情感大师讲解:
genggai,bushikongxuelaifeng,ershiyinggaiyishijixingdonglaiyanzheng。dangnizhenzhengzhenzhenzhengzhengyingxiangle,xifucainengkanqingnidejuexinhechengxin,cainengzhongxingoujianqiduinidexinren。
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