jiaoniwanhuihunyindenvren,hunyinshenghuo,neigecengjingbeichengzuorenshengdaoluhaigangdeci,xianzaiquechenglexuduorenxinzhongdetong。dangaiqingdezhongzimanmanmiediao,dangshenghuozhongdesuoshimopinglecongqiandereqing,danglaopodeneixinzhujianqushi,hunyinshenghuobianzoudaoyaoyaoyuzhuibianyuan。danbiezheji,zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wojintianjiulaibangnizhizhizhao,shoubashoujiaoniwanliuneiyigezaoyisilexinta,rangnimenzhijiandeganqingzhongyuan!
一、看清现况:婚姻问题,并不是绝地

zuixian,niyaogaoqingchu,hunyinshenghuoxianruweiji,bingbudengyubianshijuedi。haoduorenyiyudaoxifusilexin,jiuganjuetiantaxialaile,zhujianziganduoluo,huoshimangmudewanhui,dedaodejieguodebuchangshi。shijishang,hunyinjiuxiangyichangmalasongbisai,youshiqueshinengpengdaopoluhejianxin,danzhiyaonixiangjianchibuxie,xiangyaoqinfen,dounengzhaodaofanpandejihui。
niyaozhongshizheizhongqingkuang,renkehunyinlichulewenti,erfeiduobihuoshizhegai。zhiyouxianmianduikunnan,cainengfaxianjiejuewentidebanfa。bieyiweidimaiyuanzijihuozheduifang,hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing,fashengwentiyeshibicidezhize。niyaopingjingxialai,haohaodifenxiyixia,jiujingshichuleshenmewenti,shigoutongbudaowei,huoshishenghuosuosuiguoduo,huoshibicizhijianshiquyouhuoli?
二、自我反思:找出原因,改变现状
xiamian,bianshiziwofansideshike。niyaoxiangqingchu,zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongbanyanzheshenmeyangderenwu,shifouyounaxiewentizuodebugouhao,shifouyounaxiexiguanhuoshigerenxingweirangtajuedebumanyihuoshixinhan。qianwanbuyaojuedezheidoushitadecuo,hunyinjiushixuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendoude,nideyijuyidongdouhuiyingxiangduifangdeganshou。
liru,nishifoutiantianjiabanyebuguisu,hushileduifangdeganshou?nishifouyizhikanshouji,buyuangentagoutongjiaoliu?nishifouyizhidananrenzhuyi,buyuantingtadejianyi?zheidoushikenengzaochengtasilexindezhuyaoyuanyin。niyaozhaodaogezhongwenti,suihouqinfengaibianxianzhuang。qianwanbuyaojuedegaibianhennan,shijishangzhiyaonixiang,yiqiedouyoukeneng。
genggaibushiyichaoyixideshiqing,niyaoyounaixinheyili。ninengcongwozuoqi,birumeitianzaodianhuilai,peizhetashuoshuohua,tingyitingtazhixinhua;lirupaokaishouji,hetayiqikangedianying,shoushijiawu;liruqingting,zhongshitajianyihekanfa。zhengshizheixieweibuzudaodexiaoshi,douhuirangtakanjiannidediaozhenghechengxin。
三、合作是桥:调整情绪,重建信任
dangnikaishigaibianzijiqingkuangxia,jiezhejiushishangliangle。hezuoshihunyinshenghuodechuangkou,doushiwanhuitadeguanjiansuozai。niyaozhaoyigeheshideshijian,gentazuoxialiaoyiliao。bieyishanglaijiuzhiqianhuoshiaiqiu,neiyangzhihuirangtagandaoniyehenxuqingjiayi。niyaozhenxinchengyibiaodanideganshouhekanfa,gentashuoniyishidaonanti,haishiyuanyinuligaibian。
jiaoniwanhuihunyindenvren,zaigoutongdeguochengzhong,niyaoqingting。buyaozongshiqieduantadehua,huoshijiqiebiaodazijideguandian。niyaorangtabaxinlideweiquhebumanshuochulai,neiyangtacainengkanjiannidezunzhongyulijie。dangtashuowanzhihou,ninengjitayigexiangyong,gentashuonilijieduifangdeganshou,haishiyuanyihetayiqimianduikunnan。

zhongjianxinrendoushigoutongjiaoliudezhongyaozuchengbufen。jiarunicengzuoguoyixierangqixinhanhuoshishangxindeshiqing,niyaorencuo,bingbiaoshiniyaoweicifuchuqinfen。qianwanbuyaojuederencuomeiyoumianzi,shijishangweiyouniyongyumianduizijidewenti,cainenghuodetarentonghezhongshi。
四、制造浪漫:拾起烂漫,点燃梦想
chukaigoutongyugenggaiyiwai,haidedongdezhizaolangman。hunyinlixuyaolangmanyujiqing,zheiyeshiweichihunyinshenghuoshenmigandezhongyaofabao。womenkeyizaitashengrishi,jitamaishangyishuxianhuaheyifentiexindeliwu;womenkeyizaitananshoudeshihou,jitatiqianzhunbeiyidunmeiweidewancanheyichangwenxindedianying;womenkeyizaitabukaixindeshihou,daitayigetayizhixiangqubingmeiquguodechengshi。
zheizhongyiwaijingxiyebuyongtaijiageangguihuoshitaifuzale,zuizhongyaodeshizijidexinyihechengxin。dangtakanjianniderenzhenheguanhuaishi,tadexinjiuhuimanmanronghua。qianwanbuyaojuedezhizaolangmantaimafanlehuozhehenxiaohaoshijian,shijishangzhiyaonixiangjitatouruyidiandianxiangfayunuli,jiukerangtaganshoudaozheifenaiyuwennuan。
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