挽回婚姻：挽回老婆的正确方法

　　wanhuilaopodezhengquefangfa，“wodelaopoyaohewolihun，gaizenmewanhuita?”danghunyinshenghuoliangqihongdeng，xifuxinxinxianglikai，dabufennanrenzaishouzuwucuozhiwai，doushihuiyoubingluantouyi，quebuzhidao，bingmeiyoucaiquzhengquedewanliufangfa，zhihuijiakuaihunyinshenghuodeliekai。neiyang，yingduilaopoyaolihundexianxiang，jiujinggaizenmewanhuini?jinri，jiuyaolaijiaojidajia5gechaoshiyongdewanliuduice，rangtamenzhongyuan!

　　一、认可对方的感受，防止矛盾激化

　　laopozaitilihunshi，xintaiyibandoushibijiaoxingfenhexiaojide，jiarunizheishihetazhenglun、bianbo、dikang，wuyishizaihuoshangjiayou，rangfenqijinyibushengji，yincizuihaodebanfashirenkeduifangdeganshou，rangduifangdeqingxukeyihuodefaxie。lirunikeyizheiyangshuo：“xifu，wolijienicishidexinqing，yemingbaizheiyiduanshijiannishoulehenduobiequ，jiushiwozuodebugouhao，bingmeiyourangniganjuedaochongzudeaiyuguanzhu，wonengzunzhongnidejueding。”

　　dangninengrenkeduifangdeganshoushi，tabianzhihuijuedeshilijieta，nimendeguanximaodunguanxiyenengdedaohuanjie，erzheiyangjiuhuiweixiayibuwanliudiandingjianshidejichu。ciwai，zairenkelingyifangqingxuyucitongshi，niyekeyishidangbiaodaduizheiduanganqingdegaoduzhongshiyubushe，rangduifangzhidaonidexintai。

　　danshixuyaozhuyideshi，biaoshushebudeshibuyaoguofenjiuchanbuqinghuoshikenqiu，fanershiyiyizhongpingjing、chengkendetaidulaibiaoda，liru：“xifu，wohenzhenxidajiajiandeganqing，yetingxiwangwomennenggouyiqizouxiaqu，chulixianzaidewenti。”neiyangdebiaodafangshijibuhuijiduifangzaochengfudan，yenenggouranglingyifangkanjiannidechengxinheyongqi。

　　二、思考自己的问题，寻找婚姻生活问题

　　xifuweishenmehuitilihun，yidingshiyinweiduiyuhunyinfeichangshiwang，danzheizhongshiwangshiyouyigeyouyigeweijiejuewentileijiercheng，yincifenshouwanhuishi，womenxuyaosikaozishencunzaidewenti，xunzhaohunyinshenghuodewentisuozai。

　　nikeyishizhehuiguyixianimenzhijiandeganqingrichangshenghuo，sikaoyixiazaixiangchudeguochengzhongninyoumeiyoujindaozhangfudezeren?shifouyouguanzhu、lijieyuzhichixifu?shifouyoucunzaiyixiebuliangshenghuoxiguanhuoshigerenxingwei?ruguoninengzhaodaogezhongwenti，bingyuanyirenqinghejiuzhengtamenshi，jiuhuishixifukanjiannidegenggaiheyongqi，jianlixindeduiyunidezixinxin。

　　ziran，sikaozijidewentibingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，yinweihenduoshihouwomendouyaoxiayishideduobihuoshifoudingzishenwenti，yincinikeyishizhehuanweisikaoyixia，lizaiqizidejiaodusikao，huoshizhaoyixiebijiaokeguandepengyouhuojiaren，tingyitingtadeyijianhekanfa，neiyangkeyibangzhunigengjiaquanmian、keguandelejieziji。

　　三、创建有效的沟通，解决矛盾矛盾

　　wanhuilaopodezhengquefangfa，danglaopoqingxuhuodexuanxie，erqienizhaodaolehunyinshenghuodewentiyihou，xiamianjiuxuyaotongguochuangjianyouxiaogoutonglaihuajiexianghuzhijiandewentimaodunle。youxiaogoutongkeyijiejuewentidehexin，doushiwanjiuhunyindezhongyaobuzhou。

　　zaigoutongdeshihou，nixuyaozhuyiyixiajidian：

　　baochilizhihelixing：bieyinqingxuguojiershuochuyixiepianjihuoshishanghaitarendehua，baochilizhihelixing，caikeyigenghaodegoutongjiaoliu。

　　lingtingbierendexiangfa：buyaoyiweidibiaodazijideguandianhekanfa，fanershixuduolingtingqizidexiangfaheganshou，dongtadeneixinshijie。

　　biaodaguandian：zailingtingduifangyucitongshi，yeyaoshidangdibiaodaguandianheyijian，rangduifangzhidaonidexintaihekanfa。

　　xunzhaoyitongjiejuefangfa：duiyucunzaidewentihefenqi，nenggouyiqitantaojiejuefangfa，xunzhaobicizhijiandounengjieshoudexiangtongdian，dachengyizhi。

　　liru，lianggerenzhijianruguochuxianxinrenwenti，nikeyizheiyangshuo：“xifu，womingbaiyiqianwozijizuodeyixieshiqingrangniganjuedaomeiyouxinren，wojiurenshidaozijidewenti，yihouwohuizhuzhongzijideyantanjuzhi，duohenijiaoliuyugoutong，xiwangkeyifujiandajiazhijiandexinren。”

　　tongguozheiyangyouxiaogoutongfangfa，dajiajiandemaodunhemaodunhuizhujianhuodejiejue，ernimenzhijiandeguanxijiuhuimanmandedaoxiufu。