挽回老婆的步骤和方法是什么

　　wanhuilaopodebuzhouhefangfashishenme，lingchensandiandedaketingpiaozhehanzhi，wowangzhetazuozaiyichuqianmomodizheyifu，datuishanghaizhanzhedabaitiandaihaiziwanshicengdefenbihui。chufangdecizhuanzhonghaizhanzhezaochenhebaodandeyouji——tajingranbingbushihuransilexinde，yaozaiwushu“youyanerwuxin”deyishunjian，xinjianjiandijieguobing。

　　hunyinzhongzuitengdelijie，shikandaotacong“luoluosuosuo”bianwei“mobuzuosheng”。dannizhidaoma?nvrenxinxianglaofangzidezaohuo，kanqilaimiediao，xiankaiyujinyeyouhuohua。zhiyaonixiangdunxiashenzi，yongxixinzuotieqian，zhenxinzhenqingdangmuchai，zheixielianglederizi，haikeyiwure。

　　一、话都说到心坎上：先抓住心态，再解除小疙瘩

　　zanshuojutaoxinwodeqingkuangxia，nanshengbijiaorongyicaikeng，bianshi“dadaoliquandui，aiqingquanshu”。tamaiyuan“niyanlizhiyougongzuozhong”，nimangzhebianbo“wobuzhuanqianzayangjiahukou”，zheijuhuameiyoucuo，keshangdaoleqing。rutongjiefeipan，xianyaozhangkaishoutuotuozhuazhu，zaixiangqianpao——zanxianzhuazhutabiequ：“nijuedewozonggubudejia，shibushiganjuewoyemeijiangnihehaizideshiqingfangdaoxinmiaozishang?”

　　jianghuatiaoge“duiweikou”deshijianduan：tashaiyifushibiecoushangqu，dengtatangzaishafashangroujiaoshi，dibeiwenfengminingmengshui：“xifu，zantantanbei?woqianjitianzongchuaimo，shifounalimeiyouzuohao，shinixinlifanzao?”jilao，tadedebingbushi“bianlunhuizongguanjun”，shi“wodongnidebuyi”。

　　二、爱藏到细节里：她得的暖，是“你了解我怕冷”

　　nvrendeqingganxuqiu，rutongchuntianlidemianmianxiyu，kanqilaiwuyin，querunzhexinfang。nijidetashuajushizongbatuiquanshafashang，jiujitabeigeyangrongzuodian;zhidaotajingqiyaoxiangbeichoulejin，tizaozhuhaolehongzaoguiyuancha，duanguoqushibiaoshi：“zanmajiaowodefangfa，shuochenrehehounengshufuxie。”zheixiexiaoshi，bi“woxihuanni”queshideduo。

　　zerenganbingbushikonghankouhao，deluodaochufangyongjuli。tafantoumeiriweizhexiaohaiweishi，niyejiujijichenglan“wancanhoushuawan+peihaiyueduhuiben”gudingzongyijiemu。jianchibuxieyigeyuehou，nvshenghuifajue：e，zheigerenzhijieba“gai”zi，xiejinlerifuyirixingdongli。

　　三、换双鞋子行走：她憋屈，藏到你没看到的日常里

　　wanhuilaopodebuzhouhefangfashishenme，nanshengjingchangshuo“woyebushitaduzilidehuichong”，kefuqizhijiandepeihemoqi，yuanbenjiushi“xianghuzhijianxuexijishengchong”deyigeguocheng。nikeyishishigenzheguoyitian：zaochen6dianbanzuoyounaozhongxiang，moheijihaizizhaoxueshengxiaofu;songwanxiaohaiganqucaishichangmaicai，tiaotaxihuanchideyoumaicai;yelifudaozuoyedaojiquanbuning，haixuyaozhengliyipianlangjie——cikenijiudongle：talei，shi“xinzhongdeleibirentideleigengzhanren”。

　　tatiliangdifenjushi，biehuangshenxunwen“shifouwaimianyouren”，zanshuo：“womingbainirujinkandaowojiududehuang，meishier，nixiangyaolizhiduozhangshijiandoukeyi。zheiyiduanshijianwojiuquzuo2jianshi：bayaokangdezhizetiaoqilai，jiangnixinlideweiqujiluxialai。”jitashineikongjian，fanershinanrendebuju。

　　四、尊重是攒出的：100次“言而有信”，胜于1000句“我改”

　　xinlairutongshuaihuaidechawan，zhanshangquhuichuxianliefeng，danrenzhenbucideren，keyirangliefengbianweiwenlu。nidayinglibaitianpeiyuefuyuemuyongcan，jiuhuijuejiuzhuo;shuohaomeichatashoujishang，jiuzhenliantafangzaizhuoshangxiaoxiyebusaoyiyan。caifaxiannibuzai“sanfenzhongredu”，yehuixiang：yexu，zheigerenzhijieba“huiguo”kerugugelimianle。

　　tayoushihoutiguoqu?biefan，zheiyeshixinlideshangzaijieba。nizhijieshuo：“yuanlaishiwohun，shinichiwanzheimeduoku。xianzainimeiriji‘fazhanriji’，nikankan，xianzaiyouzuodaolejizhijiesongbuchidao——zanmanmandelai，rangshijianzhengmingwobingbushizuibianmomideren。”