教你几招挽回男人心

　　jiaonijizhaowanhuinanrenxin，fuqiguanxishihunyindezhongyaoqianti，danshi，youshiaiqinghuiyoupoliedezhengzhao，zheikenengshiyouyugezhonggeyangdeyuanyin，rugoutongbudaowei、shenghuodeyali、zhengzhi、waibuyalideng。dangfuqiguanxifashengliekaizhengzhaoshi，wanjiuhunyinchengweiyixiangjinpodemeirirenwu。yuxuandashifujiangfenxiangliugefangfa，xiezhufufuwanjiuhunyin，fujianlaogudeganqingdejichu。

　　1.聆听与理解

　　youxiaogoutongshiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。fuqijiandezhengchaohemaodunyibanlaiyuanyuxianghuzhijiandewuhuihebulijie。weigaishangoutongjiaoliu，yidingyaoxuehuilingtinglingyifang。dangnidelingyibanbiaoshutadeganshouhexiangfashi，buyaojizhehuifuhuozhengbian。fanguolai，yaojinkenenglejietamendeguandian，zunzhongtamendetihui。

　　2.修复烂漫

　　hunyinlidelanmantongchanghuizaishijiandeliushizhongjianjianxiaoshi。danshi，xiufulanmannenggouranqifuqijiandereqing。fenpeiyixieteshudeyouhui，weiairenbiaobaiqingshu，huoshiyoushihousongyixiexiaolipin，dounengzengqiangfuqijiandeqingganlianxi。shiqilanmannengrangdajiazaicitihuidaobicizhijiandeyingxiangliyureqing，youliyuwanjiuhunyin。

　　3.制订共同的目标

　　fuqijiandegongtongdemubiaokeyizengqiangtadelianluo，rangtamengandaogengjumiqiedelianxi。tantaonimendeweilaifangan，baohanjiazhong、yuzhiyegerenguihua。baozhengzheigemubiaobujinfuhenideqiwang，yefuheairendeqidai。genjugongtongshangdingbinglixianghemubiao，dajiakeyiyiqichengzhang，tihuichugengduodebicizhijianshiyong。

　　4.寻求专业协助

　　jiaonijizhaowanhuinanrenxin，youshifuqijiandewentikenengtaifuzale，xuyaoyidingdexiezhuqujiejue。buyaodanxinxunzhaohunyinshenghuozixunguwenhuoxinlizixunshidezhichi。tamenjuyoujiejuefuqiganqingnantijileidejingyan，nenggouweidajiajiyuyoumudexingdetiyigongjudeng，bangzhunimenbaituofenqi，wanjiuhunyin。jishuzhuanyedezhichinenggoutigongyigezhonglideshijiao，xiezhufufugenghaodilejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuhenanti。

　　5.重建信任

　　jiarufuqijiandeliekaizhuyaoshiyinweixinrenwentisuoyinqide，neiyangzhongjianxinrenwuyishiwanjiuhunyindeguanjianbuzhou。lajinguanxixuyaoshijianheqinfen。zuixian，tanrandiyingduiyiqiandecuowupanbian，chengrenzijiyiwu。suihou，yaobaochiyizhidejudong，zhanshichuduilingyibandezhongchenghezhidexinlai。zunzhongshihunyindejichu，zhiyouzaifuqijianshelilezhashidexinrenjichu，aiqingcainengzhongxinxingsheng。

　　6.维护保养个人提升

　　fuqiganqingdeshenxinjiankangzaiyumeiyigerengerentisheng。jiaruwomenzhizhuzhongbicizhijian，erhulvelezijideaihaohegerentisheng，hunyinshenghuokenenghuibiandejiandanhekuzaofawei。yiner，yaobaozhengzaicizhuiqiuzijidexingquaihaoyujiqing，bingqiezhichilingyibandegerentisheng。neiyang，dajiakeyizaihunyinshenghuozhongbaochixinxiangan，bimianxianrurichangshenghuozhongdedichen。