离婚率如此之高，该如何挽救婚姻？

 xianrujinshi90houlihunzhujianshangshengdeqingkuang，rangzhuduonanrennvrenduihunyinzaochenglehaipa。weiherujinde90houlihunhuineimegaoni?queshishiyouneimeduobijiaoyanzhongdaowufamibudeqingganwentima?huazhenqingganxiangweibiba!wojuededoushinenggou wanliude，ruguodangshichulihaola，yebuhuilaidaoliyineibu。xuduofufuyouyuyizhenzizaiqitoushangcailihunle，zhihouyouhuihenxiaochen。wanhuihunyinshijibixuzuoxieshenme? hunyinjingyingfangfa younaxie?hunyinliaolizenmezuo?

1.了解和宽容

 hunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie?zhenshidelianrenshisha?wanhunbujinshiliangrendabanguoshenghuo，shiliangrenxiangzhixiangxi，xieshoubingjianyishengxiangshou。kandaiduifang，huoxudeyongai，duinideduifangyunxuqingyi，ranglingyifangtihuidaonidezhenxin，lianrenzhongjianduoyidianjinmidegerenxingwei，liangrendeqinggancaiburongyisuizhishijianbianqian。zhenduita/tadezuofa，jiusuanneixinyouyihuoheweiman，nihaiyaobaozhenglejie、kuanrong。

2.zhaodaoyuangu，jiejuekunnan

 ruhemianduihunyinkongjuzheng?zenmehuifashengzhengzhi，yuangushisha?badajiadenantizhaochuqu，liangrenyikuaiertanqingxi，jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaonideduifangjiujingshishenmeyuangupeinifashengzhengzhi，neidajiadenantizhongjiushiquchuli。yaoxiangchulihunlianwenti，gaijinfufuxianghuguanxi，jiubanantishuoqingxi，zhaodaojiejuefangan。jiarujiniyihuo，huazhenqinggantiyinizhenxinchengyibiaoshunidexinliniantou，bunengyongweixiehuozeguaideyudiao，neiyangnideduifangjiuhuichangkaixinfei，peinigoutongjiaoliu，dajianenggouyougengqiangdegoutongjiaoliushijixiaoguo。jiarujinjinyixinmaiyuan，baweimanbiexinli，neijiushimeiyoushijiyiyide。

3.yongxintinglingyifangdeniantou

 hunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie?dangliangrenzuozhelaigoutongjiaoliudeneishihou，nikeyizuodeshibazuizhenzhengdezishenzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，jiangchunideniantou。huoxu，jiarutayoujianyi，nihaiyaoyongxinyongxintingta/taneixindeniantou。wulunduiyucuo，bubijiqiebianbo，xiantingta/tabahuajiangwan，lizailingyifangdeguandianquxiangzhe，duojianlingyifangkaolvdao，woyehuigaoqingchuta/tadexinlitihui，woyehuiyoudalianglejie。

4.一块儿商议

 hunyindeshishiliangrendeshier，bingbushimoulingyifangdeyiwu。yinci，pengdaonantibixujuece，bubizishenzijizuojuece，yebubizhushihuiying“nizishenkanzheban”。niyingdangjijimingquetichuzishendeniantouhejianyi，yiqihaiyaoyongxintingquyijianlingyifangdetiyiherenwei，liangrenyoushangyouliang，yikuaierzuojuece。

5.改变现状

 ruhemianduihunyinkongjuzheng?jiaruyouyulingyifangtaoyannideyixiegerenxingweihegaidong，ninengxiangduifangzuochuquebaozishenkeyigenggai。fuwuchengnuolehaiyaoqueshibaozheng，zheibudanjiushinide1gexindeqidian，doushidajiaqinggandexingangkaishi。queshiyuanyiwanliulingyifangdexin，jiejiuzheixiehunyin，haiyaofuzhushijian，ranglingyifangjiandaonideqinfenhegenggai。

 hunyinliaolizenmezuo?lianrenzaihunqian，yingdangyougechixumoheqidequanguocheng，keshixianrujinhenduonianqingrenzaijiehunqianmoheqidequanguochengzuoshiquwei，jindaohunyinhou，jiuchuxianlexuduonanti。hunyinpoliedeyuanguyincishizhengzhi、fenqi、hebulai，zaochengliangrendexintaiqifuda，zaineiyangdezhuangkuangxiazaochengrendedanaorenzhinenglihebi。yinci，rendekeguanjiuhuijianshao。zaizheiyangdeshiqingxia，liangrenlinshifenliguoduanshijianlizhiyixiaxia，huigengfeichangrongyikeguandiquchulihunyinzhongdenanti，dianpingzheixiehunyin。