挽回婚姻的前奏——找出问题的所在

 gai ruhewanhuihunyin ?danghunyinchuxianfengxideneishihou，wanhuihunyinbianweidahuoershouweixiangqideshier。keshijiujingzenyangcainengwanjiuhunyinni?zheibingfei1gejianyidehuatitaolun。yuanyiwanhuihunyin，zuixianyaozhangwonantijiujingshichuzainaer，zhangwoyuanguyihou，nenggougenjumouxiejinyibuyouxiaodefangfaquwanhuihunyin。hunyinzoudaojintouzenmeban?hunyinzoudaolejintouzenmewanjiu?

 dangliangrenronghedeneishihou，doushijuedetamendezhongjianmibukefendelianluonenggouqinshenjingliyiqiedefengchuiyuda。shubuzhi，shijiqueshi，bingbingbuyidingdehunyindounengzheiban。genjuxuexipeixunlaogongbugaoxingdezhuyaobiaoxian，ninengzailaogongjuedingliyiyiqianwanhuihunyin。

 yinci，yixiaxiaweidahuoerliejumouxiezaiwanjiuhunyinyiqianbixuduilingyifangdezhangwo，neiyangnenggouzaiwanjiuhunyindeneishihoushibeigongban，zaizhuangkuangyuelaiyuegencaogaoyiqianwanjiuhunyin。

他的亲密无间在降低

 gairuhewanhuihunyin?dangnidelaogongzaishenglixueshanghexintaizhuangtaishangmianzhuyaobiaoxianchuduinidexingquaihaozaijiangdi，zheijianghuishitabukaixindezhuyaobiaoxian。xiangzhenilaogongzhiqiandegerenxingweifangshi，herujindezhuyaobiaoxianfangfabizhao。jiarutagangkaishiyibuqinmiwujian，huoshishikanshangquyibuduinideshenghuoqijuhenganxingqu，neimajiushishuoyixieshierzaoyigenggai。

 ruguonifajuenidelaogongzaiwaibiandaideshijianlazhang，zheidaibiaotajianghuijialibukaixin。dangnidenanshengbugaoxing，neimatahuizhaotuocibuhuijiale，liruyelibixujiabanjiadian，libaitianbixujiabanjiadian，hepenyoudagaoerfu，baihuibabamama，jianghewoxiaohaiduliliudaojia。

他讨论他的希望

 hunyinzoudaojintouzenmeban?youshihou，dajiayibiantuotaichulai，duizhixiqinshuhebabamamachengdan，jianghuihuixunzhimouxiexiwang。zaixingmingzhonglaisisuomouxiexiwangshihenyiqiezhengchangde，keshi，dangnifajuenidelaogongtaoluntaqidaidingjuzaibiedediqudexiwang，zuobuyiyangdejuecehuoshiyouzhechedibuyiyangdeshenghuoxiguan。ninengjiangzheizhonglejiebianchengtaduihunyinbulingrenmanyi，qipanyougenggaidebiaoshi。

tayingyong“li”datoudeciju

 hunyinzoudaolejintouzenmewanjiu?henduofufujiang“li”datoudecijudangzuojihui。jiaruzhiqianzainaonudeneishihouhewolaogongcongbuyingyongzheiyici，keshinidelaogongkaishijingchangdeyingyong，tashitaduihunyinweimandebiaoshi。keguanshishishitayingyongliyiliangzidaibiaotagangkaishikaolvdaozheiyinanti，zheiyineishihounishirenshiyixiatadeniantou。

他封闭式自身

 hunyinzoudaolejintouzenmewanjiu?nilaogongbugaoxingde1gebiaoshishitagangkaishifengbishizishen，juedefangfoduiyiqieshidoubuwenbuwen。jiarumeiduojiuyiqianliangrenzhengchaoguonaxieshier，keshirujintasuozuodebianweisongjian，huiying“suiyi”，zheibiaodatazaoyisheqi，duihunyinyibuyouganqingshangdezijintouru。jiezhongerlaidejiushinilaogongdemuguangshiquguoqudeguangzedu，xiangshengzhongyeyibuyouyiqiedemeili。