挽回婚姻，婚外恋化解法

 xuduoneishihou，hunwailiandequezuirangrenruzuiruchi，xiangbanshixiangtong，cijixing、jidong，chongdonglailinshixing，lixingtaozhiyaoyao。xiaochuhunwailianrutongjieduxiangtong，bixuchongzudewanqianghengxinwanqiangdexinxinyonglixingmanmanxiaochuhunwailiangandeenyuan，manmantanhuaduihunwailiangandeyilai。neimazenyangkeyixiaochuhunwailian，quwanjiuhunyin，wanhuiganqingni?danghunyinzoudaojintouzenmeban?chuguidehunyinhaiyouxiwangma? hunyinchuguizenmeban ?

一、关联变化法

shuobailedeguanlianbianhuafajiushishuojiangyuanxiandeqinglvguanxibianhuaweizhixin、penyou，manmantanhuaxianghujiandeyilaidu。

1、碰面

 zuixianbeigaofangbiciyaoyoujiandingbuyidexinxinhequelidexintai，juecewanbizheileiyichangdehunwaixing，fangzhidulipengmian，queshiwufageshe，pengmianshitiaoxuandedizhiyingxuanneileibuyizaochengnuanweidechangdi，huozaiqunzhongchangsuo，xianghuxinliyaobalingyifangdang“xiongdi”“penyou”，tanxintanhuaneirongguanjianjinxianyupenyouzhixinjiandeguanzhuwenhao，tanyitangongzuozhong、xuexipeixun。

 hunyinchuguizenmeban?shiyibianqingqingsongsongziranhuanjingnenggouxianghukaiwanxiao，tucaotucao，fangzhitaolunganqingleihuatitaolun，pirushuo“sinian”zheilei，tanhuaneirongshixuzhuyibubigaliao，jinkenengweichiqingqingsongsongkaixindeqifen，fangzhiyanguangdezhangqizhuangji，jiarufajuezhangquanbushangjushishi，jinzaoqianyihuatitaolunhuowanbitanhuaneirong。

2、duanxiaoxihuodianhualianluo

 danghunyinzoudaojintouzenmeban?hunwailianyaoxiangduandewanquanshizheijianhenbuyideshi，jibiannengcaozongbupengmian，keshilianluoshimianbulele，duanxiaoxi、qq、dianhualianluodepinlvjinkenengzhujianjianshao，duanxiaoxi、qq、dianhuadeneirongyejinkenengbaochizaipenyou、xiongdidecengmian，manmanjiangdiduitadeyilai，jiarulingyifangburenxinsheqi，jiqingbujiang，youxiaodefangfashixinyaohendian，buhuihuozheshaohuiduanxiaoxi，dianhuashezhijujie，buleqqxianliao，ranglingyifangjiangjiangwen。

er、jizhongzhuyiliqianyifa

1、防止孤独

 daduoshuhunwailiandouyouyujimoredehuo，ganqinggudu、neixingudu，zheishihouchuxian1gesuanzhiquxiangtou、huiguanzhurendeyixingpengyou，yijianzhongqing，hunwailianbiranxing。yincirendaogudushihouganqingfanlanchengzai，jiushihuixianghuikandeyingpianxiangtongwangshiyimumuzaiyanxia，zennengsheqi?zendongdesheqi?yibianyiwangneifenqing，jiuwubifangzhigudu，rangzishenfanmangqilai，meiyoushijiangudu，meiyoushijiansinian，nenggoujianshenyundong、qukanshu、tingge，danshiliuyibukanyanqingxiaoshuo，butinggequ，fangzhibeishang，weichikaixindeqingxu，lejiemeiyouta(ta)deyishizhuxingrengranjingcai!

2、扩张交朋友范畴

 chuguidehunyinhaiyouxiwangma?hunwailiandezaocheng，shuangfangnanmianhuihuimanmanshengshuwangrideguizhongmiyou、yixingpengyoupengyouhepenyou，juecewanbihunwailian，jiudeshiqiyiqiandeneifenyouyi，yongyouyiqudaibushenxinjiankangdeganqing，changchangheguizhongmiyoubaochilianluo，yeyaojuyou3-5genvxingpengyou，duogoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliu，shifangyali，danrengnengliuyifangzhiyixingpengyoujian1dui1degoutongjiaoliu，wojuedezoulehunwaiqingrenzhongjianzhaixiaodeshineikongjian，ninenghuranfajuewaimiandeshijieshishizaitaidekuankuo。

三、真情溫暖法

 xuduozaochenghunwailianzhongdenanshengduoyouyuduirichangshenghuodeyanfan，pingdanrushui，jiajiushishuo1gemianfeidebinguan，nanshengfanhuijiadaduoshushikandianshiju、shangwaiwang、yongcan、rushui，buxiangyaoyulaonianren、xiaohai、lianrengoutongjiaoliu，guayanshaoyu，yeyoushiduiqinrendekeke、xinbuzaiyan，zongzhishikanneineibukanbuguan，jinjinpobudeyihuijialebale，zhenqingdewennuanzaitamenshoushangmeibanfafanying，dandangyishiyeshiwucongshuoqi，yiner，xiaochuhunwailianzhenqingwennuanhenguanjian。

1、关注日常生活

 jiashishenme?shihaigang，shihanyangzhouzhuandediqu，doushirenshengdaoludejiaqizhan，shinengyuan。　　jiazhongkaixinqingqingsongsongdeqifenduirenmensuoyourenshiheqiguanjian?hunwailianzhongdaofeichuqudexiangzheyaohuijiale，jiudecongguanzhujiazhonglidemeizijigangkaishi，yaosikaobabamama、dixiong、zimeiduozhangshijianmeidianhualianluo、meipengmianle?yulianrenduozhangshijianmeixiangyong、meiqinwen、mei****、meigoutongjiaoliule?duozhangshijianmeiguanzhuxiaohaixuexile?duozhangshijianmeizuojiawule?gongjianba!jinkenengzaojiumouxiexinqingyukuaidejiatinghuanjing，bingzaojiujiyulingzheqinrenwaichudujialvyou、xiuxiandujia，jiazhongjiatingzhuyaochengyuanjiandeyouhaodu。

2、提升担当意识

 《hunyinfa》liquelilefufubicideyiwuhezhipeiquan，zhipeiquansheidouwangbudiao，danshidandangyishizailingsuiderichangshenghuomanmantanhua，tebieshizaishijiazhongdezheiweijiarushigezuiqiangzhe，jiazhongdeyiwuhaoxiangyuzishenbuxianggan，renheyoulianrenqingxi，benzhibuyong****xin，dandangyishidetanhua，bidingzaochengleduijiazhongganqingdelengmo，zishenbazishendoukanduijiazhinengjiaofeideyiwule，biedeyilvbuxianggan，gengshizheileishiminggandequeshao，caihuizaochenghunwailian，yiner，zhaodaoduijia、duilianrendedandangyishishiganqingzhongguideguanjianqudongli。

四、优缺点分析方法

hunwailiansuochanshengdeyouquedianpouxihenguanjian，meiyoupubiancunzaidehunwailian。

 chuguidehunyinhaiyouxiwangma?li：xiangyoudeshiganqingdeshifangchulai，dedaokaixindeqingxu;bi：qiancai、shijian、huolidehaosun，bukeyitaiyangdixiapuluganqingdeneixinnanao，yeyoumanbaosiqingdehuanghuayuzhenzhengdezhuangji，ruguopuluhunwailiandekeguanshishi，zhinengbile，jiawuningri，xinrenweiji，gongzuozhongweihai，penyouyanguang，jiarenchizezheixie，jiaruyoudanliangyongyuzhuiqiuwanmeixianghuchanmian，li：dedaolezhenshidezhiai，zongsuanxiangyoutaiyangdixiashouwanshoudexingfukuaile;

 bi：zaihunjiatingdehaizijiaoyu、duiqianduanhunyindeneijiu、jiqishehuifazhanxinlaidezaicichuangjian，jiarushouyitaidideyeyouchanshengjingjifazhandegongzuoyalizheixie。congyouquedianpouxideshijiaoeryan，jinzaoxiaochuhunwailiandeenyuanshizuimingzhidexuanze。

 chuguidehunyinhaiyouxiwangma?　hunyinbingzhiyouyigerendeshier，wanjiuhunyinyebingbushi，rujindeshehuifazhanhenfanza，yinyouxuduo，yincizaishejiaiqingyuhunyindecengmian，qingsansier。