如何防止第三者出现?如何挽回？

 hunyin wuliwanhui zenmeban?hunyinbixulianggerenrenzhenyunying，ruguolingyifangsongxie、lingyigelingyifangnuliguoduo，jiuhuirangganqingshidiao。naxiefangmianhuizaochenghunyinbuchenggong?lihunzhihougairuhewanhuihunyin，zheizhongjingdiananliyexunenggou xiezhuni。aiqingwufawanhuizenmeban?

一、离婚原因

 hunyinwuliwanhuizenmeban?zenmehuipeiniliyini?jiaruhunyinbingbushizoulaidaohenzhirugudechengdu，lingyifangyeburongyitiaoxuanpeiniliyi。ganqingzhuanjiashuoguo，quanshijiemeiyouliangzhifuqishichedishihede。shuobailedejizhideguanlianbingquehan，quanshiyouwentideliangrenzuizhongmoheqidaozhishengxianghudounengjienade、juedaduoshudexiaonanti，zuizhongcaiyiqi。yinci，hunyinzhongchuxiannantishihenyiqiezhengchangdeshiqing，quankandajiazenyangkandai。

 1. renqitunshengxing。zheileiliyizhongleishishifenyuwangde，guishuyumeiyoushenzhongkaolv，yizhenziganqingyongshizuochudeliyijuece，duifangjianghuibeininaoleizhe，huoshibeiniqilaidao，tashuoliyisheipashei，yejiuyuanyililehun。

 2. xiangwangyujianghuxing。zheileiliyizhongleijiushishuojiaoweixiang“7nianzhiyang”，jiehunhou2gejiazhongchanshengdenantimoquniduiganqingdeqidai，chaoxixiangchuzhongjianfenqijishaochengduo，zuizhongbukeshoushi，liangrenmeifazaiyikuaieryishizhuxing，yemeifagoutongjiaoliu，xianghurutongzuishuxidemoshengren。

 3. xingtongmoluxing。tongchangzhinenglingyifangganlebijiaoyanzhongsunhaizishenxinshen，weifanzishenweirenchushidaodedixiandeshicaihuizhuiruzheileixingtongmoludeliyijieju。zheijianghuishilingyifangjiabao，beibujianzaichuang，landushuguangzichan，naizhishixishidupinweifafanzuizheixie。

二、实例例举

 jiaruniyizhizaisikaobenshenyuanguhourengbuqingchuwucongxiashouwanliu，neimagenjuduixialiezheiyishilidepouxi，yexunikeyixunzhaochulidefangshi。

 hunvxingyuzhangfushigaoxiaotongxuemen，gaoxiaogangdaxuebiyehunvxingbuxiaoxinhuaiyunle，wangxianshengbuyuanyi，danzuzhibulehunvxinghenbuxiaxinzuodiaodeniantou，yincilianggerenwanhun。jiehunhouwangxianshengcengduihunvxingshuoguo，neishihoubingmeiyouzhunbeiwanhundeniantou，jinjinxianghetachuduixiang。jiehunhou8nian，wangxianshengduilaopodaliangdeshiyiwuerbingbushiganqing，lianggerendeguanlianyemanmanshuyuanbici。zaiwangxianshengchangchangyebuguidezhuangkuangxia，hunvxingqilecaiyi，caifajuelaogonghelingyigeyimingnvxinghaodaole。laogonghuifouyinerhezishenliyi?gairuhezuonenggouwanliulaogongdexin，hunvxingshenxianleyihuoyumangranzhong。

 houzaipojingzhongyuangongsidelaoshixiezhuxia，hunvxinggangkaishisikaobenshenhehunyinzhongdenanti，genjudiaojiehaozishendexintaizhuangtaihetishengziji，hunvxingqudechenggongzhengjiulezishendehunyin。erhunvxingshizenyangshijicaozuodeni?qiekanxialiewanliulaoshidetiyi。

三、经典案例之提升自己

 aiqingwufawanhuizenmeban?wanhun8nian，reqingtundiao，zhangqixingxiangduixingfeichangrongyizaochengshijuepibei，yuyangoutongjiaoliugangkaishimeiyou1geguanniancengjishang，laopohuimanmanbuxinglaogongdejiaobu，youhuoligangkaishijiangdi。yinci，yuanyiwanliulaogong，zuixianhaiyaokaizhantishengziji。erhunvxingganghaoshibawozhulezheiyidianer，ranglaogongzaiciliuyidaota。

 1.waizaitigao。1geyoumeilidenvrenhenzhongshizishendebiaomian，yaomingbaidaban，xuehaoyizhedaban，huiyijuzishenshenxinglaixuanzeshihezishendeyifukuzidaban，shizishenyuelaiyuegengpiaoliangyerangzishendelaogonghuodemeilidexiangyou。renmenchangchangzaidianshijishangjiandaoyuanpeibaodadisanzhedejuqing，zhengshiyizhedabanquanshihenzhipode，burudisanzhehuichuanzhedabanhuodelaogongdeqinglai。yinci，nvxingxuehaoyizhedabanzishen，keyixianshixinxichuzishendefengcai。

 2. benzhitigao。zijiyaoxiangyoupinwei，shidefangshishiduokanyuedushujieduosisuo。youpinweidenvxingshizuiyouyiweide，doushizuiyoufengcaide。xianrujinshiqi，“nvrencaihuahengyijiushide”zaoyinanyishixianle。rujinshiqi，guannianyehuodebianhuale，nvxingyaoxiangbiancheng1geyoupinweidenvxing，wubichixudexuexipeixun，tigaoziji，shizishenbuduanfazhan，yaokaituochuangxin，zuo1gezhixingyouyadexinnvshi。

四、经典案例之提升另一方的资金投入

 tishenglingyifangdezijintourubaohanshijianzijintouru、qiancaizijintouru、rentizijintouru、ganqingzijintouru，genjuzishendexiaohainenggou tahuihuijiachifan，zheiyesuanzuoshijianzijintouru。jiexiaquzheijidiankegongcankao。

 1.congzishenjiawulaodongdaoyikuaierjiawulaodonghuotaweilenijiawulaodongbianhua。genjuxianghudecanjia，budannenggou tigaodajiazhongjiandeqinggan，haikeyiranglingyifangguanniandaojiazhongdewennuan。dangtaganleyixiejiniganjuefeichangnuanrendeshiershi，yaojiqingdafuta，bingjiyutayixiejiangshang。tadaoshihoujiuhuiqingxingdiquzheizhongshier，youyutayuanyibeijiangshang。

 2. dangtabangnichulileyixiejiannanshi，yaoshiduzanyangta，haowuyiwentadegongzuonengli。meicitabangnichulilejiannanhou，nidouzhongxindizanyangta，tahuiyulaiyuxinxin，erqieyufashanyuweilenijiejuekunnan，naizhiwuxunijiao，tadoushijijixunwenni，younaxieshiershigaobudingbixutabangzhude。

 3. lianggerenzhongjianyixiewobuxiangyaozuojuecehuoshizhanqianguhoudeshier，ruguojiaodaotazuojuecehou，haiyaotiaoxuanjianxinta，bubiguohoumaiyuan。jiranzaoyizuochuletiaoxuan，wulunjieguoruhe，douyingdanglianggerenyiqidanfu，erbingbushiyixinmaiyuan。dangnimeiyicidouduitazuodetiaoxuan，biaodashangxihekaixin，neimatahuiyulaiyuxiaigenniyikuaierchulai。

五、长期性关联维护保养提议

 zaiwanliuqudechenggonghou，bingbushiyiweizhezhedajiazhongjianjiumeilezulan，zhangqixingguanlianweihubaoyanghaixiangyaonibuduanqutigaozishen，weichirichangshenghuodeshenmiganhecijixinggan，zaojiuhesuzaoguishuyudajiadexianghuzhuiyihegerenaihao，chuangjianhaoxianghudejiagou。heganqingzhuanjiakangnalaoxianshengshuoguo，lianqingguanlianhuofuqiguanxili，disanzhedechuxianquanshihenyiqiezhengchangde。douhuixuduorennanmianhuixiaidajiazaiqizhonglingyifang，neimadajiayingdangzuodebingbushixiangjinbanfa“fangbei”，zhishiqinfentigaobicideshenghuozhiliang，rangdisanzhebukeyichengxuerru。

 aiqingwufawanhuizenmeban?hunyindebaochibixujianchibuxiehexianghuzhijianqianjiu，hunyinzhongchuxiannantideneishihouzanqiexianpingjingxialai，wanhundechuxinshiyibianrangxianghuxingfukuaileerbingbushilaidaofanmudechengdu，duoyixielejiehekuanrong，duolingtinglingyifangdeyaoqiu，nenggou rangdajiadehunyingengweizhangqipingwen。