面对老公出轨的事实：怎么办？

 ruhe wanhuilaogong dexin?meiyinvxingdouqidaizishendehunyinmeimanxingfu，dandang“disanzheer”chuangjinzishendehunyinquanqiuneishihou，douhuiyouzhuyaobiaoxiandecubujifanghuoshizuochuduoyidegerenxingwei，suihouhuiyingyongmouxiebuzhengquedefangshilingdaojushijiazhongebiannaizhizuizhong“disanzheer”shangtaiqudechenggong，wojuedecikejiujiuxiangzheichangzhanshi，yuanyibawaizujibaijiubukeyiziluanzhenjiaoyeyaoyingyongqiadangdeduicejikezaizheici“hunyinbaoweizhan”zhizhonghuosheng。ruhewanhuilaogong?

一.恪守自身正室的影响力

 youxuduonvxingzaiyingduizhangfuchuguideneishihou，renweitiaoxuanjijichechujiunengrangzhangfucunzaineijiuganjinerhehaoruchuhuoshirang“disanzheer”ganjuecankuierliquzishenzhangfu。wojuedenibudui，yexunenggou jinizhangfuyouneijiugan，danzhongjiunitiaoxuanjijichechuerqielingyifangjirantiaoxuandang“disanzheer”jiuzaoyiduitarendeguandianburongyigaoduzhongshi，tayongdaomouxietianyanmiyujiangnizhangfudeneijiuganzhegaiyiwang，suihoumingzhengyanshundeshangtai。yincibixuyaokeshouzishenzhengshideyingxiangli，ranglingyifanglejienisuanshipeinizhangfuyikuaierfengchuiyudaderen，nisuanshitaweiyideairen，jiaruzheishihounilianzishendeyingxianglidousheqidehua，queshijiubaibeile。

二.操纵本身心态，终止与第三者儿的互怼和对丈夫的斥责

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?xuduonvxingzailejiezishenzhangfuchugui，doushitiaoxuanquhe“disanzheer”huduihuoshigennanpengyouyoukuyounao，wojuedezheiyangdeshiqingnvxingyouxintaishihenyiqiezhengchang，keshinishibushikaolvdaoguoneiyangzuodebuliangyingxiang?tangruoxiangquhedisanzheerhudui，“disanzheer”jiuhuijiangnizheizhongzuofawaiquyihouzaiduinishuozhangfujinerjiazhongdajiazhongjiandefenqidian，yiqiyehuijinizhangfuzaihewo“disanzheer”jianjintuiliangnan，yexudaozuizhongtayibianbusunhaibiciertiaoxuanzishenliqu。tangruoxiangquchizenizhangfu，neiyangzongshirangdajiajiandefenqidiangengjiajiaju，jianjianditajiuhuihelixingtazishenwaiyushiqiadangdetiaoxuan。yinerwubicaozongdaozishendexintai，huoxunenggou xinpingqihediqupeinizhangfugoutongjiaoliu，qingbierangxintaishidaojushilaidaobunengwanliudechengdu。

三.找到并纠正本身难题，适度学习培训第三者儿的优势

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?nishibushiyouxiangguonizhangfuzenmehuiwaiyu?queshijinjintazijidenantima?changyandao“1geerguangshipaibuxiangde”。yaolejiezhinengyigenvhaibukeyikaolvnanshengdeyaoqiuneishihou，tacaihuizaiwaibianzhaobiedenvxinglaitianbusuoqueshaode。yongxinxiangxiashibushinimeiyoujiyutajiayingdangyoudejuede，shibushimeiyoujiyutananshengxuyoudezizun，shibushimeiyouliuyizishendechuanzhedabantahuixiangyoumeilidejuede。。。。。。wenchongbudingwufengpinjiedeshengjidan，zhenghuoxuquefazheizhongcaihuirang“disanzheer”youjihuaxuekechen。yiqinihaiyaoxuexipeixun”disanzheer“shoushangdeyoushi，erbukeyimangmugenfengdiquzengeta，zhengyouyutayoulenimeiyoudecainenggou jiangnizhangfuxiyinzhuyiwang。