出轨的男人是什么原因？怎么挽回？

 ruhe wanhuilaogong dexin?hunyinzhongchuxiannantiwukebimian，meigerenyousiburencuolingyifangdeneishihou，neidangchanshengfenqinaizhiwaiyu、naoliyideneishihouyougaizenyangchulini?disanzhequantuishidechuxianhaoxiangrangzheizhongxianruhunyinpoliekunhuoderenjiandaoleqidai，daoditamenzaijingyinghunyinshangdaishenmedutedekanfa?ruhewanhuilaogong?

一、防患于未然，男性怎么会外遇

 chuguinanrendeyuangubingbushifanza。youshinanshenggennvxingzhengchao，bujinjinmaodunjihuaneimejiandan，zhishitazaiyongmouzheizhongfangfafaxiezishendeweimanbale。nvxingzaiposhitadeyiqi，yingduizhelaiyuanyuwaibiangenghaokan、tiexinyounengshangxitaneixindenvsheng，zaibiebuzhudeneishihou，jiutiaoxuanwaiyu。“renmenzuodeshierjiushishuojiangditawaiyudegailv。”erzaijingyinghunyinshi，jiarulaoponengbaozhengyixianeirong，jianxinzheixiehunyinhuizoudehenyuan。

 “yiqienansheng，yaoshizaiganqingguanlianzhongjuedebuxingfukuailebukaixin，tajiuhuiyoujianghuiwaiyu——huoxuwoyeshiruci。”zishendehunyinjueduimeimanxingfu。yinci，jiarufufunengyibianxianghudexingfukuailehekaixinzuochuyidianergenggaihetuoxie，xuehaobiaoshuqingyi，tishengrichangshenghuodereqing，neimazheixiehunyinjianghuigengweipingwen。

四、思考本身的难题并更改

 xiaochaoxianting，chaonaonanguo，zhengzhichixuzongshirangdajiadeqingganjiangdaobingdu。tiyi，“yulianrenshencengcigoutongjiaoliushi，banantidelaiyuanyuladaozishenshoushang，ranglingyifangtihuidaonidechengzhi，ganjuebushinidecuo，suihounizaizhaochuguanjianxiangtaolundelingyifangdenanti。zhenxinshiyishiqiangjingdewuqizhuangbei。”yiqi，zhangwoxianghudejiagou，gaoqingchuzishenzuoshenmeshilingyifanghuigaoxing，shenmeshiqinghuiranglingyifangfahuo，“tajiuhuilejieshenmeshierbukeyizuo，weicijianshaowaiyudegailv。zishendejiagouyueqiang，lianrendezikongnengliyueqiang。”

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?hunyinbixuxianghurenzhenyunying，zairuheweichihunyindepingwenshang，laopoyingxuehaoyulaogongtongbutigao，“bushenxinjiankangdejiaowangfangfa，bingbushihuodeniyuanyidejieguo，jiaruniyaohunyinjinliangdexingfukuaile，neimenizuixianbukeyitugefangbian，bixuyaoxuexipeixunhelianrenyikuaiertongbutigao，bukeyizuohaofeiyouhuolideshier，hewolingyifangyikuaieryishizhuxing，youyuniganjuetanengjinijianglaixingfukuaile，danqianwanbiewangdiao，taniantougennixiangtong。”