平淡的婚姻生活怎么挽回他的心？

 ruhe wanhuihunyin ?duijiehunhoudeyishizhuxingchuangjianxianghuyugu，woxiangyaoshimeiyilianqingzhongderen，douhuiyibuxiaoxinliaodedehuatitaolun。xiangxiangzhezhihouyishizhuxinglijiazhongcaizhengjuyaoruhefenpai，shengshiduoshaogexiaohai，jiazhongyaoruhebujuzheixiexingfudeqidai。queshijiarunengtizaodadaoduijiehunhoudeshenghuodexianghuyugu，zenengrangxianghudexingengtiedexiangfang，rangzheixieganqinggengyoupanwangheqinfendefangwei。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、多一点了解另一方的观点

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zaidadaoxianghuyugudeneishihou，bixuxuehuiqingting，zhaoliaolingyifangdetihui，zhongshilingyifangdeniantou。erbuyiyangyixindeyizishendeniantou，shuodonglingyifangzhaozishendeyixiangyishizhuxing。yiqiutongcunyidexintaizhuangtai，laidedaozuiguangzhongguofangandeyugu。youyujiehunhoudeshenghuobuxiangdangyuxuangesheyouneiyangjianyi，zhishibixulianggerenyikuaierzaojiuyishizhuxinggongxiangziyuanyishizhuxing，keyidehuahenyoukenengziciyihou，nidecishengbixuyuqixiangsui。

 julishuoming，danglejieyaoxunzhaoyugushijizhongdeluodishidianshi，jiuhuikaolvdaolianggerendezhuangkuangquwang，yizhiyupiantipaodeguopian，keyichengdanqizufangzideshiji，wangxingfukuaileguchengbaodeyishizhuxingdantiao。zhishihuizheileitiaoxuanmaiyizhengtaoheshixianghudefangwu。suihoujiangcizuoweijiehunhouxianghuyugu，jinjinweiraozheiyizongtimubiaoweijianglaideyishizhuxingzuogezhengtiguihua，yibuyibuquduifu。

三、要有团队执行力和宽容

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?dangjianglaidexingfukuailehongweilantugoulejieshu，chaozhetaqinfendefanganyeyizhiding，neimazheiyineishihou，haiyaogangkaishipinyizhilihekuanrongle。kanzhenizaiduifuzheiyihongweilantudeqinfenzhong，shibushinonggouzaiyigeyigekunnanyanqianchengxiaqu，tinglizhe。kanzhenizaiyingduizheizhongjiannanshi，shibushinengdoukuanronglingyifangdeyudunhechucuo，buwangchuzhongzhe。kanzhenizaizhengtiguihuapianyishijiyundongguijishi，kefouyouqipogaidong，erbuzhongtuerqi。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?bainianlaoxiuweitongchuandu，wubainianxiudeyishizhijinkou，qiannianxiudetongfangzhen。hunyinbuyi，qidaidahuoeryounicaixingfu，jiyou。