婚后如何抓住男人的心？

 ruhe wanhuihunyin ?tichufenshoushiliangrendeshi，liyiqueguanliandao2gejiazhong，budanduifufuzhihoudeganqinglumiandaozhixiaochendeweihai，haihuijixiaohaideneixinchanshengbunengxiubudesunhai。erfuqiguanxizhong，nanshengshijiazhongdeguanjian，zhichengdianjiazhongyunxingdeyiqigengnengzhengqueyindaonvxingyishizhuxing。yibianjiazhonghemuxiangxi，lihunzhihougaizenyangwanliuzhangfu，jiehunqianwanliulaogongyounaxiefangfani?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

搞清情感分歧的问题

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zhangfumingquetichuliyihuoshilaogongmingquetichutuiqin，biranshilijingshenzhongkaolvde，ganjueliangrenqueshihuodehaoleile，doumeiyoujianchixiaqudeyuanyin。yixienvxingbumingbaiweizijidenanshengjiliherentong，zuoshijiunaopiqihemaiyuan，neiyangtaneixinweishenmehuihaoshou?eryixienvxingxingqingqianghan，zaijiazhongzhengzuolingdaojishile，zaibierenyanqiandoubukaolvdaozishennanshengdeqingmian，changchangtahuiganga，quebuzhidaoxurongxinzuinanshengduoguanjian。“congmingnvrenquweihubaoyangzishennanshengdepinpaixingxiang，yumeidenvxingbuduandezairenqianrenhouchaitazhangfudetai;congmingnvrenjiangzishendenanshengshizuochaojiouxiangfeichangshaoburentongtadenansheng，yumeidenvxingshitazhangfuweizhengfengchicudedirenchuwaiyizhizhizaiyizishendeqingmianyincichangchangbianbozhangfudejianjie;yumeidenvxingyingguoyizhenzishudiaoyisheng，congmingnvrenshudiaoyizhenzixingfukuaileleyisheng。”

 ruhewanhuihunyin?lingyigemouxienvxingjiehunhoujiugangkaishizongrongzishen、shuhuchuanzhedaban，shenxingriquhenfei，xinliyejianjiandimeiyouguoduonvhaiziqingjie，nanshengyiban huiganjue“zheiyinvxingruhechedibibushanglianqingneishihoutaorenxihuanle”。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?nongqingchucunzaidewenti，nenggouduofangmianwanliuzhangfu、zhuazhuwanliulaogongdezhongyao。wojuede，hunyinshiliangrenxianghuzhijianmoheqihefazhandequanguocheng，quexianmeigerenyou，keshihaiyaoxiangyaoshidangyibianlingyifangzuochugenggai。

放正自身在婚姻中的部位

 nvxingyingdangxiangqingxizishenzaihunyinliderenwujiaoseshifouqiadangde。kangnajiaoshibiaoda，“nanrennvrenzhizefengongbuyiyang，juecelerichangshenghuoderenwujiaosebuyiyang。duinvxingeryan，zaishenhouzhengqueyindaonansheng，kaolvtadexurongxinshifazhanqushizhangqixingguanliandezhongzhongzhizhong。”nvxingbixuyaogaoqingchu，zishenyingdangxintaishangdalizhichizishendenansheng，congguzhijin“zhujiaowai，nvzhunei”dejiaofabingfeimeiyoudadaoli，fangjindangdaishehuifazhan，nvshizaijiazhongzhongdebuweijiushishuodangjiazhongdejingshenshizhihexinqu，yejiushishuo“nei”;yiqizaibierenyanqianyaozhuyaobiaoxianduilaogongdeqinpeihezhongshi，yejiushishuo“wai”。

zhinengzhangwolezheiyidianer，laogongzaihunyinlicaihuiganjueshufu，erbingbushizhengtianyingduigongzuoyali，yuanyitaochu。

学好给他们真实的关怀

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?wojuedenanshengyoushiyehenmingan，keshiburongyibiaoxianchulai，youyuzheiyishehuifazhanduinanshengdeguidingyuanbenjiushishuoyankede。neimazuoweitaneixindenvsheng，niyingdanglejieta，erbingbushizaitayingduiwanchuruzhichangyihou，zaijiazhonghaibuduandezeguaita、baoyuanta，neiyangzongshibataxiangwaibi。yinci，yuanyiwanliuzhangfu、wanliulaogongdexin，niyizhizaibaozhengdaodedixiandeqiantitiaojianxia，yingdangjiyutadaliangguanaihesuiyi。zaishenghuoqijulibubiduitataiyanke，tayebixumouxiehuanjiegongzuoyalideshijian。yingduinidebaorong，tahuixiangyaorangnidaliangdeai。

试着做他的忠诚“粉絲”

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?rushangwentiji，duinanshengeryan，xurongxinshifenguanjian。yigenvhaiduitadexintainenggou zhujiuta，haikeyicuihuita。tangtaizonglishimindazhitiandi，shengjiyishi，chukaitashoudixiadedaliangmouchenwujiangwai，yeyutaxianliangshudewenliangdelaopozhangsunhuanghoudepeiheshilibukaide。zhangsunhuanghoubudanxingqingxianliangshude，xiuwaihuizhong，zuiguanjiandeshitashitangtaizongjingshenshizhidezhichengdianzhe。nvxingdeqinpeihuirangnanshenggengyouyishizhuxinggongzuodereqing，gengjuannianjiazhong。