离婚率高涨：如何挽回婚姻？

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 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?jiushenzhenshieryan，qianbujiushenzhenshide1gediaoyanxianshi，shenzhenrenlihunyuanyinpouxiyou：hunwailian 50%，jiabao 10%，fanzapoxizhijian 20%，qizixinglengdan 2%，zhaiwujiufen 5%，buliangxiguan 5%，biede 8%。zongshangsuoshu，shenzhenshi90houlihunwenjuquanshishouwei，wuyouyinhunwailiannaobai。xianjieduanhunwailianshishenzhenshihunyindejiaodaxiongshou，youyurujinshenghuopinzhidebuduantisheng，dajiazhuiqiuwanmeiwuzhitiaojianzhuanhaoyihou，jiuhuigangkaishiyaoqiuyishizhuxingdebiedekuaile，yongyutianbucuoguoledejingcai，ershejiaomeitishoujiruanjiandepujihuaheyouxiyuleyishizhuxingdebuduanwanshan，weifuqixingshenghuozengjialegengweiduoyanghuatiaoxuandeyiqiyechanshengxuduodeyinyou，jiaruzaizheiyiquanguochengzhongruguoyoulingyifangjinerjiandingbuyi，neimahunyinjiufeichangrongyishenxianhunwailianweiji。

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一、提高自身诱惑力

 ruhewanhuihunyin?youxierenzaijiehunhouyulaiyubuzhongshizishendepinpaixingxiang，wuyishishangganjuezaoyijielehun，jiumeiyoubixuquxuyidaban，huozhequgaibianxianzhuangdemouxiexiguanyangcheng，zongjuedeneiyangdezishenlingyifangzaoyijienale，yeburongyiqugenggaile。wojuedezheileiniantoujiuzuiyumeide。wobutigaozishendeyouhuoli，zongshirangwaibudeyinyouchenxuerru，zhuaizhongnidequedian。zaijiehunhoudeyishizhuxingli，liyinggengjiazhuzhongzishendebiaomian，benzhiheewaishiyongjiazhidewupin，zhinengbuduantigaozishengecengmiandeshiyongjiazhi，nenggoushenshendixiyinlingyifang，nenggoubalingyifangdexinjinjinbawozhu。

四、明白双互重视

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?meigerenqidaiyouzhejuanqimeidehunyinqinggan，neimaniyuanyibaozhenghemu，juanqimeihaiyaomingbaizenquzhongshixianghu，zaichanshengmaodundeneishihou，bingbushizhibazishendeyixiangdouqiangjiazailingyifangdeshoushang，chedibuzaiyilingyifangdetihui，zijizuozijide，zhishiyaomingbaixianghulijie。liangrenzaihunyinqingganlibianjiarulianzhongshiyemeiyou，wuxingzhizhongdegongzuoyalizongshiqushishoubuleyinyoudenalingyifanggengyuanyixunzhaowaibiandeyixingpengyoulaikaolvzishendexurongxin，zheidoushiqushilingyifangwaiyude1geguanjianyaosu。

五、找寻共同话题，相互享受生活

 yishizhuxingbixuxianghuqugoujiankuaile，liruniduixiangtongwupinyouxingquaihao，neimanihaiyaozhengqueyindaolingyifangyeduineijianwupinxihuan，jiarudajiadexianghuxingquaihaochongzuduo，neimalingyifangjiuhuiganjuenidongdetaerqiehenshanyugennigongxiangzishendesuoyou。yejiuburongyiyuanyixunzhaowaibianderenlaijiyuzishenyuanyide，dangnibaozhenglejiyudaolingyifangyuanyide，neimananshengjiulaolaoshishipeizainishenbian。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?wulunshiyunyingqinggan，jiazhonghuanshihunyin，bixuzhongshibenshendeyouhuoliheshiyongjiazhi，zhinengzishenbiandeyuelaiyuehao，nenggoujinkuaiquyingduiqinggandeneixieshier，nenggoufangzhihunwailiandechuxian。daliangyouguanbimianhunwailianchanshengdexinwenzixun，jingqingdengluwanhuixueyuankaizhanchaxun。