面对第三者插足怎么挽回婚姻？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?hunyinhaipa2jianshi，yiyaofufutongchuangyimeng，meiyouneixingoutongjiaoliu;zhishilingyifangwaiyubieren，qinggantubengwajie。xianrujinyulaiyugaode90houlihunbiaomingzheizhongfenqizaoyilaidaoduofaqi，disanzheeryeyibushigexinxianci。jiarulaogongyouwaiyu，zaban?yuanyiwanliutadexin，nvxingyingdangzenyangxiashouni?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一.挽留出轨老公必须良好的心态

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?chuguinanrenyouwu，disanzheerdisanzhechazutarendehunyinyeshicuo，keshizuoweizhengshidewoyemeiyoucuoma?yuanyiwanliuchuguilaogong，nibixufangzhengxintaizhuangtai。

1.buguoduozenghendisanzheer

 ruhewanhuihunyin?waiyuexingshijianlidisanzheerbingfeiweiyiyingdangchengdanzerendelingyiban，niyulianrendejiaowangfangshibutaihao，caizaochengdisanzheyoukechenzhiji;nidexinrenrenbuzhuwaibudeyinyou，yingdangfuzuiguanjiandeyiwu;disanzheerqinshitarendeqinggan，daziranyaozaoshoushehuidaodedechize。keshixiangjiejuekunnan，jiubukeyizhibazenghendeyanguangkanxiangdisanzheer，ergengyingdanghuaizhelianghaodexintai，kanyixiadisanzheershoushangyoushenmezuigaizishenxuexipeixundediqu。disanzheerdewenrou、haokan、bolanqunshuzheixiejianghuijiushishuochuguinanrendejiaodayuangu，liangzhezhijianzechishangshen，haibibushangxuexipeixunfazhan。

2.meisijiuzhezhangfumeifang

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?haoxiangwaiyushi1gezhulizijin，jishiwanliuleyouxierenyehuixiayishidijiebahen。neiyangdexintaizhuangtaishimeifarangzishenxingfukuailede，jiarubuyueguozheidaokan，qingganhuishizhongchuzaibugongpingdeqingkuang。bazishenmorenshezhiwei1geshouhairen，zennengkaixinni?guanjiandehuanshiwanliudefangfa，disanzheerchuxianyeba，biedehunlianwentiyehao，doubiaomingqingganbixubianhuanjiaowangfangshile。yaoshirenqingzheiyinanti，yeshanyucongzishenshoushangzhaowenti，jiuhuigaoqingchulingyifangwaiyuwojuedebuchedishitadecuo。xuehaokuanronghelejie，duibicichangyouyichu。

3.不因而自甘堕落

 lianrenwaiyuhuijirenyizhongzishenbeiyiqi，xuduonvshizaineiyangdezhongcuozhizhongriquchenlun，juedezishenshiqubeiaidezhipeiquan。wojuedekeguanshishiqiahaoxiangfan，lianrenwaiyu，biaomingnilinshichuyuyouhuolidichaoqiqu，conglingwaishijiaojiang，nidetigaoshineikongjianqiahaochuzailirunhua。 cikeniyingdangzuodeshiqinfenzuotishengziji，conglidaowaidigengxingaizaozishen。buhuiyinyizhenzideliaodaoersheqizishendefengcai，buyouyunanshengdewuqingwuyierdiuqizishendeyishizhuxing。“youmeilidenvrenbimeilidenvrenjuyouyouhuoli”，qinfensuzaozishendeqichang，rangzishenyouyouzhededaoxingfukuailedezhipeiquan。

二.挽回丈夫最的办法

1.维持理智

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?danghunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，zuixianbixuyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，renqingweijizaochengdedajili，fangzhijiduanhuaxintaihepianjigerenxingweidezaocheng。huozhichuguilaogong，zuixianhaowuyiwenshinaonude，naonuhuirangzijibiandesangshilixing，niwubirangzishenpingjingxialai，keyilixingdequsisuojiexiaquzaban?caiburongyirangzishenzuochuyilianchuanyumeidebuzhengquexingwei。haikeyiquzhaowanhuiganqingquanweizhuanjiaxunqiubangzhu，zhongjiusuoyourendezhuangkuangdoubutong，bubimangmugenfengjianxinpenyoudetiyi。

2.沟通交流包容

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?dangweijichuxianshi，laopojiuyingdangbazheileizishibaichulai，genlaogonglizhilixingdishenkailaitan。zhenduitafancuodeshiyangebaimingtadegerenxingweijizheiyijiachanshengduoshaosunhai，shangguolenizhongai，suihouxianghupouxiwaiyudeyuangushisha，xianghuyoushenmebixugaishande。dangnibuxianglihun，neimanizhiyouyuanliangkuanrongta，dangnikuanrongdanshibukeyibaozhengbaorong，yitiandaowanbazheizhongshiqingfangdaozuibian，nanshengxurongxinhenqiang，hunyinshimeifazaiciyunyingxialaide。

3.用溫暖加强真情

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?deyong1ge“jia”zijibaidisanzhe，wennuandeguanaishihuixunhuinanrenxinde，meirifalewennuandeduanxiaoxi，yongyutidaidianhuasaorao，qingbiebiwentazainaerhenaxieyiqiruhebuhuijia，bibushangxieshang“zhangfu，nichangweibuhao，duochicaishaoyinjiu，woganletangrangni”。yiqihaikeyiduoshengchanzhizaoyijiaziwennuanhemudechangjing。yongwennuanjiaqiangzhenqing，xunhuinanrenxin。

4.更新改造自身

 chuguilaogong，mouzhongyiyishangyebiaomingnigangkaishiyuelaiyueluowule。liruyiqiannishigemeiruotianxiandenvhai，jiehunhouquebeijiazhongcanhaichengrenlaozhuhuang，jianghuizhiqianniyeshigejingjidulidexinnvshi，jiehunhouweilebaobaolaoren，bianweiyikaolaogongdejiatingfunv。nikeyixuehaokaituochuangxin，fengfuzishen。

三.第三者儿种类及解决方式

1.yingduiwenrouxingdedisanzheer

 wenrouxingdedisanzheerwangwangnengyinyouhuanshangnizhangfu，yuangujiushinizhangfuzaitaneilihuoderentong。nanshengzuibixudejiushishuonvxingderenkexinlai。huoxunijialitaiguoduqianghan，lingtazaijiazhongshiquzhongshi，shiqukaolv。yinerruguoyougeyikaotaneixindenvshengchuxian，tajiuhuizaochengweihuyu，tashimeinanrenyushengjulaide。jiejuefangfashiniyingdangyinizhangfuzhudao，shoulongnideqianghangongzuozuofeng，duoxierenkenidelaogong，shitaganjuenihenbixuta，neitajiuhuihuijiale。

2.yingduishiyexingdedisanzheer

 shiyexingdedisanzhedouyongyougetexing，ruguoshuojiaoweiqianghan，xiaizhanyouzhudaoxing，xianzhudezhichangnvrenrenwujiaose。nanshengxiangyaozaitashenpangtingda1geyaosujiushishuokeyishizishendeshiyehuodefazhanqushi，disanzhehuiduitadeshiyejinerxiezhu。nanshengdoubixuzizun，bixuzheizhongbeibixudejuede，shiyexingdedisanzheeryincikanqilaijiaoweiqianghan，meiyijianshierdoushixiandingzhenidenansheng，ruciyilai，zhangqixingxialainanshengjiuhuichengdanbushang。duinidelaogongduozuojili，jiyutazixinxin，jianxintakeyigongzuozhonggaohao。