海誓山盟不再：如何挽回家庭？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?congziyoulianailaidaowanhun，shixuduonianqingrendexinyuan，zhizizhishouyuzixielao，shirucimeihaodezhengzhengshiyan，suihoudanghunyingangkaishi，dajiadezhengzhengshiyanyoubeisheibaituo?dangchuxianxiabianzheizhongzhuyaobiaoxiandeneishihou，qingjingxing!qingganwanhuizenmeban?

 1. yiziwoweizhongxin：zhushijianchijijian，butiexinairentihui。biru：“tazongshuotingleiyaoxiexi，danrenmenbenlaidayinglibaitianyaodaiwaquwan”、“douzaoyijielehun，quehaixianggehaitong”。

2. shiguangliushiyujianju

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui? chabiekuozhang：yishizhuxingbianwei“niguonide，woguowode”。haoxiangwo1gepenyoudelaoxianshengzaikejiyouxiangongsishangxiaban，gangkaishilianggerenhaihuixianghupeihejiaqishichangyouhui，danzhihoutajibenshangdouzhuzaiqiye，lianggerenyilibaipengmianshijianjibenshangbuchaochu2zhongtou。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui? muguangbianhua：yiwangxianghuzhiaidegexingtezheng，rujinyuelaiyueruguobuaile。biru，dangchutashuoduiniyouganjuedeyouzhi，danshisuizhishehuifazhanmoliantisheng，tagangkaishixiaijiaoweichengshuqi、nengjitamenguishugandelingyiban。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?zhongxindianqianyi：bayishizhuxingzhongxindianfangdaobiedeshiqingshang，haoxiang：“woneimerenzhengongzuo，haibingbushiyibianzheiyijia、weilebaobao?”，danquebuzhidaotadeqinfenzhong，yebaokuozheyibufendezisizili，birumanzugan、gongzi，huoyu“bieren”jiaowangdeshijian;huoshimouxienvshilijizuojiatingfunv，bazhongxindiansuoyoufangdaoxiaohaishoushang，hushilezhangfudecunyou。

3. 关联维持

 ruhewanhuihunyin? goutongjiaoliuqianjia：hunyinzhongruguoduilingyifangzaochengweimanyoubukeyiyoulianggoutongjiaoliushi，jingchangjiuhuichanshengzheizhonggengyuanqidexintaibingdaozhiguanliandeshuyuanbici，congerweihaixianghudeqinmiwujiangan，chuxianshuobailedezhangfubenzhijiubukenyuwogoutongjiaoliu，wozenmeshuohuatayebulejie。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zixinxintaiguo：cuoguxingshinengdaozhizixinxintaiguo，renweilianqingshinanpengyoutingzishendehua，hunyinzhongyehaihuijixudiantingzishendehua，yizhaozishendeniantouzuo，keshiyincihushile，wanhunyihoutagengbixubianweinanren，1geyouqingmian，youzizundenansheng，1geqidaiyouzishendeshineikongjianhesuiyidenansheng。

4. 外在引诱

 bianjiechenggong：jinshuiloutaixiandeyue，jieyougongzuozhong、yewuliuchengliyongzhiquan，shouyizhenziqingjingsuoxiyinzhu。tebieshizaidanggongzuozhongdeshijianchaoguojiazhonghenduo，hunhouchuguidefengxianxingyehuisuizhetisheng。

 pengyougongshang：airendepenyouchangyouandi，xianghuzhijianshanfengdahuo，beigaofangwufacaozong。tongbanzhimingdushitingdade，ruomeirigentayiqiderendoucengtoushiguo，tachuguidegailvyehuitisheng。

 yishicuzhang：“tazishendoubuqingchuzaiwaibianyangshiduoshaoxiaolangquanle，weishajiubukeyiyouzishendeshoujiyouxishineikongjian?”dangduifuxintaizhuangtaihuoyiwangbabamamadehunyin，tahuiganjuezhongshishibuzhixinlaide，jiuhuicuzhangwaiyudeyuhuo。

 zheizhongqianzaixingdeweijiruguochuxian，jiudaibiaodajiadehunyinzaoyichuxianlenanti，zheiduanshijiancaikaishipuluchulai，dajiadehunyinchuyu1gesanchalukou。erxuduonvshiyincisichanyuzhangfushibushiqueshiwaiyule，jiarushiqueshi，taweiheneimeduiwomen，wonulineimeduo，wobucilaoku，quanshitadecuo，ruherangwaibiandeneinvrenhetachediduankaiguanlian，jibianqueshiduandiao，nvxingneixinyeyizhinaohuo，zaodongbuan，danyouhecaiyi。

 shide，zheizhongbiequ，yayiganshiyingdangyoude，keshi1gecongmingnvrenhuizainanguobiequyihouqushengshizishen，hunyinchuxiannantitingdashuipingshangshinvxingzaochengde，1gexinlizhenduilaogongtianmanbuxinlaidenvxingcongyikaishijiuzaibahunyinwanglingwaifangweiwangshangla。yiranxianglianqingshidenvshenxiangtong，chize，hushizheiyinansheng，nigangkaishixutaonimeiridenulihejianxin，nigangkaishixutaozheiyinanshengdaibudaoniyuanyide，nigangkaishimaiyuandajiadeyishizhuxingmeiyoutarenguodehao，zheiyinanshengyouyikaishidekuiqianbianweineijiu，zaiyouneijiubianweiyanjuan，zaiyouyanjuanyuelaiyuenaonu，yuelaiyuekuangzaoyouhuoshijianmo，niqudechenggongderangnanrenyanmiansaodi，niqudechenggongdejidisanzheqinruzaojiuleyouliangdejihui。youhuoshizaixiaohaichushiyihou，banizhongxindianfangdaoxiaohaishoushang，hulvezhangfudecunyou，wangletasuanshiniyiqianyaozhizixielaoderen，taganjuebudaonideguanzhule，taganjueniyanzhongzhinengxiaohai，yexuhexiaohaijiaowangdelebukezhi，niwangjinidezhangfudoushibixuganqingziyangde，henjizhide，disanzhezhanyoulenidebuwei。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?yeyoudajiazhongjiangezhonggeyangshixiaodegoutongjiaoliu，gezhonggeyangbamouxiexiaoshier，lirusheishuawan，liruwangjilenideshengri，shenggaodaoyiwu，aihuobuaidenggaokuanbi，gangkaishirenshenanquandejingonghezhengzhi，dajiadehunyinjianzhihenfanhua。goutongjiaoliu，youxiaogoutongdajiashizhongyemeiyou。bubishuoyouyanjiangcu，xiaohaidechushi，mangliudegongzuozhongrangdajiazhongjianmeiyoushijiangoutongjiaoliu，zhishidajiacongbucenglejiedaohunyinbixuweichi，bixuyongxinguanai，dajiarenweiyizhangjiehunzhengshushidajiahunyindequebao。