平淡的婚后生活如何挽回？

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?henduofuqiyuanbendeganqingjichuhenhao，doushixiangaijiezhejiehunde，hunhouyeyiguo2nianhexiexingfukuailedechichuanzhuxing，yihouqueyouyuzhongzhongyuanyin，daozhifuqiyouyuanwufen，huoshijializhanshinanxiu，huoshiyoumingwushi，jiangjiuweichi。ruhewanhuilaogong?

一、家中不做职场女性(学精谦让)

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?wulunzaiwaimianqueshitaiqiangdenvshi，huidaojiashiqingqingbiezuozhichangnvxing，wuxurangnanhaizijuedenishenmeshikeyibenshennadao，wuxutalaibangzhu，zhangjiuyiwangnanhaizijiuhuijuedenibuzaiwubita。nanhaizijingchangchuxianyingxiongzhuyiqingjie，nvrenzaijiayaoshidangxuejingqianrang，rangnanhaiziyouweihubaoyangnizhaogunidetuidongli，neibantacaiyoujihuizhanxiantadenanhaizifengcai。1gebubeibenshenxifuerwubidenanhaizitadeneixinshibeiaide，tadenanziqigaizainizheilisangshifazhanquxiang，tajiuhuilingwaizhaodiyuqufazhanquxiang。zheishiniyuanyijieshoudema?

二、不做“圣贤”

举1个例证：

 yinweijialimaifanghoushehuijingjifazhanshangdaijianxin，laogongguanlijuecejindaochuangyichuang，xifuqueganjuelaogongdepixingbushihejindao，danlaogongqieerbushegandao，yihouliangrenjiujingchangzaidianhualizhengzhi，yinianhounanhaizidequeshibaihuijiale，liangrendeguanxiquewoyehuibudaocongqianle……

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?nanhaiziyoushihoujiuxianggexiaohaizi，tamenyehuizuoshichongdong，chongfenkaolvnandianjianghuimeiyounvshizhouquan。dan，ruguotazuodeshidashier，ruguotadechufadianshihaode，nvshiyeyaoyunxunanhaiziquchuangdang，qufancuo，pengdaokunnantayuenishushuoshiyewuxuxunchita，tahuinongqingchunishitajianqiangbuqudejingshenzhizhu，manmandidetaziranjiehuifanshengziji，ziranjiehuizhongguijiali。wuxuzaitadouhaimeizuozhiqianjiufenzhesi，neibannanhaizishibaihuijialeshizenyangyoulianjiejueni?1gemeiyoufangshi meiwentijiejuebenshenxifudenanhaizi，jinyongdaoqitadefangshi genxifudiyu，tahuijuedejialiyouqiwenma?

三、给男孩子留些面子

 zaicongmingdenvrenyewuxuzaizhangfuyanxiajutibiaoxiandetaiguocongminglingli，wuxushizhongyiyuzhongdedezhuzhongtadequedian，yanlichachukunraobuliuyudi，tahuijuedejiangnitayaokantoutoude，tahuijuedewulunhechujianniyimianjingchangchuxiankuijiugan，tahaiyuanyijianwobu?

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?zhiqianyouyigepengyoushuoqi，taxifuertongtonghao，jiushiyouzhangdaozizui，shenmeshihouyebuyizishenliumianzi，tahuiganjuexiangshiqulegemulaohuhuilaile。

四、不无端猜疑

 mouxienvshizaihunhouduibenshenmeiyouzixinxin，buxiangxinbenshenyoufengcaixiyinlaogong，yinershizhongcaijilaogongchuguile，ruguolaogongmeiyouandianhuilailejiuyikaishidianhuabuduandaguoqu，huilailefanbaofanshouji，shaoweifaxianyidianyihuojiuyikaishishiyingtouganshang，bubupoqie，zuihounongdejialijiquanbuning。qingwenyixianeibandexifu，nineimazuodemudeshibianyuxiyinzhulaogong，haishixiangbalaogongbijinbierendehuaizhong?tangruonanshenghuilailehouyaomeirichixudegenxifuermiaoshusuoyoudexingji，zhonghuijiarutahuileidaobuyuanyipeizheniguochulai。

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?nvshia，tangruonanhaizidequeyaozou，nixiyinzhurenquanshimeifaxiyinxinde，zhishaozaitameiyoubiaoshuyaozoudeneishibiebataxiangwaitui。

五、学精做老公的倾听者

 nanhaizihuilailegennishushuo，henduoneishitawubidezhishigeqingtingzhe，tafafalaosao，daodaokushui，benshenjiuzhangwozenyangzuole。yinerbubiwanshibangtaxiabianbie，zuoguanlijuece，gengbunengbarenheshiqingdoushangshengdaoshehuigongdegaodu，jiejimaodun。

举例子：

 zaishuciribendizhenshi，zhangfujiangguojudihuidehua，xifujiushangshengdaoshehuigongdegaodu，ganjuezhangfuburendao，fanshehuixuanzexing，jieguoliangrencihoudachaodanaozheici。

也是个例证：

 zhangfuhuijialemiaoshugongsidegouxindoujiaozhishi，xifuquelizailiangxindegaoduzhizezhangfubudaqi，buyidairenjiewu，youdexifuanziguanlijueceyaoshanggongsiweifujuntaogechenghu。

 zheileizuofadouyoudiantixianduoyile，wanxiezhangfuhaiyuanyigentashuosixuma?zaineibanfazhanquxiangchulai，manmandidefuqizhijiandehuajijuxiajiang，yuelaiyuemeiyougongtongyuyan。

六、适当描述你的爱意

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?ganqingshilianggerenquanshijingchangmiaoshubenshendeaiyi，hunhoumiaoshuaiyidedaodexingweiheyuyandoujijuxiajiangle，shenzhihenduodefuqiyongxunchilaimiaoshuduiduifangdeguanxin。dajiashuohunyinwubijingying，nizhunbeichongfenruhejingyingnidehunyin?nijihunyindaorudeshizhengzhuanyenengli，fuqiguanxijiuhuichaozheshunxiangfazhanquxiang，nijihunyindaorudeshifuzhuanyenengli，nihaizhiwangfuqiguanxichaoshunxiangfazhanquxiangma?shuji，jingchanghuiweihunyinzuoxiegaokaojiafendegongzuoshang，erbingfeiyizaidetouxianguoquyouzhideganqingjichu，yaoburanzaipiaoliangjiangudefangziyerenbuzhudahuoermeirimeiyedechaiwa。

七、当婚姻忽明忽暗信号灯时我能做什么?

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?henduofuqishizaihunyinzaojiuchuxianlenandianshicaixiangniuzhuanqiankun。cikedebanfashilianggerenbingjianzuozhan，dunzhelaixinpingqihedetantan，yonghe