无法挽回的爱该放手吗？

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一、无法挽回的爱该放手吗

1、去争取

 ruguonizhendehenshebudedehua，zaiqunulizhengquyixiayemeishenmedea，suirankenengxiwangyoudianxiaodeba，keshinuliguozhihouruguozhendemeiyoudedaozijixiangyaodejieguoyesuanjizijigefangqideliyouba，danshihaiyouneiyangyijuhuade，“zhiyaozijimeiyoufangqi，juewangyehuibianchengxiwangdea!”suoyishuozaiqunulizhengquyixiayemeishenmebuduide，bijingneishizijishebudefangqideyiduanganqinga，suoyiruguonizhendebuxiang，bushedefangqi，neijiunulizhengquba! （ wufawanhuideaigaifangshouma？

2、把心放宽

 qishiyouxieshiqingjiuzaiyinianzhijian，suiranmouxieshihuomouxierenduiwomenlaishuohenzhongyao。danshizuizhongyaodehaishiziji!buyaoyinweiyixiebuzhidewomenshangxinderenheshinanguo，shentishizijide，jiusuannizainanguo，zaijuewang，diqiuhaishizhaoyangzhuan，shijianhaishizhaoyangyifenyimiaodeguoqu。nishizhebaxinfangkuan，shizhewangdiaobukaixinderenhuoshi，yexugangkaishideshihouhaishiyouyidianlei，danshiqingxiangxinwo，zheigeshijiebuhuiyinweimougerendelikaierzhongzhi!woxiangxinzaibujiudejianglai，nihuiguodegengjingcai!

3、恢复联系

 dangnigaojiazhihuiguihou，nicaiyouzugoudeshilihezibenjiangnimenzhongxinlahuitongyitiaopinghengxianshang，neime，zheigejieduannikeyihetaqudelianxihuozhezhixingouyu，rangtaganshoudaonidebianhua，rangtaganjuedaonidemeilisishe。zheilisuoshuodequdelianxi，womenjianliouyu，yinweinvshengqishidouxihuanganjue，xihuanyuanfenzheilianggezi，ruguozaiouranzhijianganjuedaonidemeili，neime，tahenyoukenengxiangxinshishangtiandeyuanfenrangnimenzaicixiangyu，zheishiwufawanhuideaijiuhuibianchengyoufawanhuideaile。

4、感情升温

 zheigejieduandebuzhouheliuchengjiuhepingshideyuehuijieduanbuzhouxiangtongle，zaizheigejieduannixuyaozuodeshibuyaozaifanyiqiantongyangdecuo，haixuyaozuodeshiyongheyiqiangenglangman，gengyouxinyidehuayangheshijixingdonglairangnvshengganjuedaolianaidemeihaohexingfu，zheiyangnimendeganqingyouhuihuidaogangkaishilianaishideneizhongganjue。zheishinijiubuhuizaiyouguanyuwufawanhuideaigaifangshoumadeyiwenle。

5、空间抽离

 wufawanhuideai，dangnvshengtichufenshoudeshihou，shuomingniyijingduitameiyoushenmexiyinlile，zheigeshihou，womenyaolijitingzhijiuchan。tongshi，yaochouliyiduanshijian，zaitadeshijielixiaoshi，rangtaganjuenixiangrenjianzhengfayiyang，zheiyangzuodeyuanyin，shiyinwei，womenzhiqianliuzainvshengmianqiandefumianyinxiangyijingxingcheng，choulichuquguohou，yongshijianlaidanhuataduiniyuanyoudexingxiang，weiyouzheiyangcaibuhuixingchengwufawanhuidejumian。