冷暴力分手的挽回方式

 lengbaolifangshibingbushiyigehepingdefangshi，wentishiruguozaoyulengbaolifenshou，xinlihaifangbuxia，gaibugaiwanhui，yougaizenmewanhuini？xiamianyouhuazhenqingganxiaobianlaijiangjiang。

一、为什么会有冷暴力方式

1、jiyuanchanshengbaofuxintai

 xiangchujiuledeganqingjiuhuichuxiangezhongwenti，budongdequjiejuewentijiuzhihuiyizhizengjiaduiji。jiyuantaishen，ertayoubushedehenifenshou，zuihoujiuzhinengyong“lengbaoli”duidaini。

2、自身性格导致

 nihetayudaochongtumaodunshi，tawangwanghuitaobi、buhenigoutong、kaishilengzhankaiqiziwobaohudemoshi。zheizhongnanshengjiushihuibixingrenge，yudaolejiufenchongtujiuxiadeyongyishizheizhongmoshibaohuziji，qishitaxinliyeshifendetongku。

3、chunshuwannongbuxiangfuze

 zaizhuiqiunishishifendereqing，gezhongtianyanmiyulangmanyuehui，zhuidaonibingqiefashengguanxihoutaiduxunsulengdan，lianxiyuelaiyueshao。mingxiantabingbuxiangfuzeren，suoyicaishiyong“lengbaoli”zheiyishouduanbiponituichu。

二、冷暴力分手的挽回方式

1、找出分手原因

 dangnimenzhijianchuxianyinlengbaolidaozhidefenshou，nijiuyaojingxiaxinlaixiangyixiang：jiujingshitadexinggewenti，haishinimenerrenzhijiandemohewenti？shitayouyiweizhi，haishiwuyishuhu？taneixinzhenzhengdexuqiuheqiyinjiujingshishenme？

jingxiaxinlai，qufennaxiewentichuzaizishen，naxiewentishixuyaoshuangfangtanchenggoutong，ranhoujiuyaozhaochulai，yansuzhengshibingchuli。

2、jieshouzishendeqingganlieshi

 youdenvshengtebierongyiqingxuhua，wentiyichuxian，buquzhengshihejiejue，yiweibingchengzhe“taobikechidanyouyong”de“renshengzhenyan，”

 wuqishuangerbijinshuangyan，siweiduzai“tazenmenengshuobuaijiubuaileni？”zhileidesijiaozhongchubulai。qishizheigeshihou，wentichuxianle，womenyaozuodeshibuyaobazijidangchengshouhaizhedejiaosekandai，zhizhidaoyiweidebaoyuanhuokongsu。

 ruguonizhendexiangwanhui，neimemaichudediyibujiushijieshouxianzaideqingganlieshi，qici，yebuyaobazijideganqingtaiduodejituozaiduifangshenshang。

3、注重提升自己

 aiqingzhongzuidiji、yeshizuirongyibeichangrenduoyunyongdeyizhongsuoaifangshibianshi“woduinihao，yiqiunideai。”yinweizishenmeiyouzugoudexiyinlixiyinzhuduifangdemuguang，suoyizhideyi“duinihao”deshouduanlaishituwanliuzhuduifang。