挽回中利用逆反心态，想不成功都难

 wanhuizhongliyongnifanxintainengduiniwanhuiqidaohendadebangzhu？shuoqinifanxintai，henduorenshouxianhuixiangdaodeshiqingchunqi，henshaohuiyourenbanifanxintaihechengnianrenlianxidaoyiqi，danqishibingbushizheiyangde，jiusuanshichengnianren，neixinyeshiyouzheizhongxintaide，youqishiduiyunanrenlaishuo。suoyi，xiangyaowanhuinanrendexin，wanquankeyiliyongwanhuizhongdenifanxintailaidadaofuhedemude。

一、挽回中的逆反心态

 nifanxintaibujinjinshizaipanniqichuxian，wulunzaiheshi，meigerendexinzhongdouhuiyouzheizhongxintai。ruguotajuedinggennifenshou，nihaipinmingdiwanhuita，shenzhiyizhenglundefangshiqushuofutadehua，tashibukenenggennifuhede。yinweitaneixindenifanxintaizaizuoyouta。tayudaodezuliyueda，tafankangchengdujiuyueda。suoyinisuozuodeyiqieshituwanhuideshiqingshi，tadouhuijuedenizaizuzhita。

二、挽回中利用逆反心态

 zhengyinweinizhidaoduifangyouzheizhongxintai，erniyouhenxiangwanhuiduifang，neimenijiuyaorangzheizhongxintaibianchengduinidewanhuiyouyongdeyigewuqi，xuehuiliyongtadezheigexintai。

 liyongyixiatadenifanxintailaiyinqitadeguanzhu，jingguoyiduanshijiandelengdongqi，lianggerenzhongxinxiangyu，nikeyigaosuta，nixianzaitinghaode，xiangxideqingkuangnikeyishuobuzhongdiandebufen，zhongdiandeliutazijiquwajue，zheishizuicongmingdezuofa，yinqihaoqixin，bingqieliyongtadenifanxintai，niguodehao，taziranhuigewaiguanzhu。

 dangranyaodadaozheiyangdexiaoguo，qianmiandekuangjiadajianbixuyaoyibujinjieyibudetaolu，zheiyangcainenggouwanquanhuanxingtaduinidehaoqi，cainengrangnizaiwanhuizhongliyongnifanxintaikeyidadaoyigehaodejieguo。