挽回婚姻心态学：挽回婚姻之复联

 zaiwanhuihunyinxintaixuezhong，you“fulian”yici。wanhuihunyinzhifulian，jiushijingguoleyuwanhuiduixiangyiduanshijianduanjuelianxidelengchulihou，zhujianhuifulianxi。

一、挽回婚姻心态学：挽回婚姻之复联

 zaibushaodewanhuihunyindeyanjiangzhong，douyoutidaofuliandezhongyaoxing。dangduifangduinidefumianqingxujiandan，jianyouhuiyingnideyiyuanhejixiangshi，ruhebakongfulianzhongdeyixiexijie，nengjinidewanhuizhilujiasu。

1、congyukuaideliaotiankaishi，qiejiguoyubaoluxuqiugan

 haodeliaotiangengduoguanzhudeshihuatineirong，congyigehuatikaishicengcengtuijin。tongguohuatineirongchuandiyouquhuoyoujianshexingdexinxi、zhanshiyingyoudetaidu，zengjiaduifangyunijixujiaotandexingqu，congertuijinnimendeguanxi。dangliaodaoshuangfangdouganxingqudehuatishizaibujingyiditichuyaoyue，zheiyanghuijiduifangjianshaotuwugan，yebuhuiyiyanjiukanchunidemude。huatixuanzededang、caozuoyoudushenzhinengchenggongyindaoduifangdezhudongyaoyue。

2、忌盲目邀约

 zaiwanhuihunyindeyanjiangzhong，xiangbiyehuitidaozheiyifangmian。zaiyaoyuezhiqianzixixianghaoruheyaoyue，didianshijiandengyixiliewenti，lirunagedifangbijiaoshihejianmian。youyafenweidexiaozikafeiguan、chuncuimanzushihuodexiaochidianhuodapaidang、wenxinxianshidegongyuanxianguang、huoxuangehaotianqixiangyueqidanche，meiyouzuiheshidebiaozhunxuanze，jutigenjuwanhuiduixiangdeaihao，rangta/taganjuenideyaoyueshiqingsongyukuai、haowuyalidanyounengchuozhongtadexin。zainimenliaotianqifenzhengnongshibujingyitichuyaoyue。

3、忌反复邀约

 yaoyuefachuhouwuxufanfuxunwenhuoqueding，jinliangjiangdizijidekedexing，yeshijiangdixuqiugandeyizhong。jishiwanhuiduixianghuifuni“xuyaokaolv”，yebuyaozhongfuxunwen，qiongzhuibushe，gengbuyaobiaoshi“woxxtiandouyoushijian，youkongsuishiyuewo”。wulunnannv，debudaodezongshigenghaode，dangnizidongbazijidekedexingjiangdi，xiyinliziranyejiujiangdile。