夫妻不合，情感挽回什么方法？

 qingganwanhuishenmejiageshishenmeyisini？mianduihuaxindezhangfuhenduoqizihequhecong、tongkuwunai，zheijiufeichangdeyoubiyaotantaoyixiashoushanghaideqiziruhechulizhangfudehunwailianqing，baduizijideshanghaijiangdaozuidishuipingyinggaicaiqulizhidezuofa。weishenmeyaowanhuiqingganni、qingganwanhuishenmefangfayoushishenmeni？

一、情感挽回什么方法之四个不要

1、buyaojiuchanzaizheijianshishang

 weishenmeyaowanhuiqinggan，yaogezhiyixia，tanchengdigaosutanineixindeganshouhexiangfakantadefanying，yaoshuofuzijixiangxintadehuabuyaoqugenzong、yebuyaoquzhaozhengjuzheidengyuzinve。hunwaiqingbenshenyougeguilvqiansangeyueshirelianqinihennandaduanta，zheigejieduanjingonghunyinhuimaohendadeweixian。ganqingdeshijiandancubaoshigenbenjiujiejuebulede。bannianyihounanrenzaihunwaiqingzhonggengyuanyizhaogudaohunyindeliyi。ruguozheigenanrenhaiaijiayaotadehunyin，yibanliugeyuedaoyinianjiuziranjieshule。

2、buyaoquzhaoneigenvrentanpan

 xiandaidedisanzhedadoulizhiqizhuang，tahuishuonilaogongduoaita，shenzhihuibaolutamenzhijianyouduoqinmi，niquledengyuziquqiru，yinweizuodisanzhederenpohuaibierenjiatingdewangwangdaodeshuipingdixia。niyebuyaogongjizheigenvrenbianditadengyubiandizhangfuderenge，huiyinfazhangfudefennujianshaotadeneijiu。

3、不要到处宣扬

 jinguannanrenhuaxindanduizijideshehuixingxiangbijiaozaiyi，tahuiyoujiaoqiangdeziwobaohuyishi。ruguowairenzhidaotayouhunwailianqing，weilebimianbierenshuotadaodebaihuai，tahuizhudongtichulihunzhengmingzijiyuanyoudehunyinshitongkudemeiyouaiqingde，youqishiguojiaganbu、gongwuyuan，weilezhengmingzijideqingbaishi”shouhaizhe”erxuanzelihun。

4、buyaogaosujiaren，youqishiniangjiaren

 yilaibimianrihouzhangfuhuizhangrenjiaganga，nibudanyaoxiufufuqiguanxi，haiyaoxiufutayujiarendeguanxi;erlaipaniangjiarenchumianbaofu，dangshishichuleqi，kezijipeilefurenyouzhebing，hunyinmeiyouleqiancaimeiduonahaidepeiyiyaofei。gengbuyaodaodanweiqunaoquzhaolingdao，zheiyeshiyigedaozhihunyinpoliedewuxiaoxingwei。

二、情感挽回什么方法之四个要

1、要以退为进

 disanzhezuipadejiushiyuanpeiwudongyuzhong。yinweiyuanpeibunaolihuntajiuyuedanxintalibulehun。rangtabiponizhangfurangtaqudangpofu，rangtajiangzijidequedianbaoludeyilanwuyu。meizhunzuihounilaogonghaishijuedenigengshanjierenyigengdafangzhongguijiating。

2、yaodahaizizheizhangganqingpai

 qingganwanhuishenmejiage，qingganbingfeiweijiagezeshiduizheifenganqingdeyilai。bushinahaizidangdangjianpaiershiranghaiziduohezhangfuxiangchu，rangtayeduozhaoguzhaoguhaizi。buguanshinanhaihaishinvhaidoushitadehaizi，xuerongyushuibuhuitaiguoyupaichi。xiangchudeshijianyueduojiuyuerongyixihuanshangtamen，yejiuyuemingbaizijidejiatingzerenyouduoda。

3、要收集出轨证据

 nikezhijiegaosunidezhangfu，ruguotahedisanzheshenglehaizi，yifuqidemingyishenghuozaiyiqijiugouchenglezhonghunzui，haizijiuhuichengweitachuguidezhengju、fayuankepanzhonghunzuizhezuolaoyijijingshenchuhu。zheiyangtazonghuiyoujifenweiju。lingwainisidixiabixushoujitachuguidezhengjuyifangwanyi。

4、要当断则断

 ruguoyijingjinlenulilaiwanhuihunyin，bimianjiatingdeposuidanhuaxindelaogongjiushilvjiaobugai、shikuanrongweiwuneng，zeqiziyaoqingxingrenshidanglizeli，buyaoyiweiguxizongrong。daolezheiyibuyaoxianzuodaozaijingjishang、xintaishangbuyifuzhangfudezhunbei，jinkenengjianshaoyinlihunduizidewuzhihejingshenshenghuozaochengdeshanghai。