还爱着的情感值得挽回吗？

 qingganwanhuizhendema？wanhuiqinggankekaoma？yiduanhaodehunyinheaiqingshixuyaoshuangfangqujingyingde，ruguoxiangyaojixuxiaquyouyouhendademaodundehua，neimejiuyaokaishihuxiangdiaojiehuxiangliangjie，duiyubicizhijiandeqingganzhidewanhuima，youxuyaoruhezuoni？

一、不要处处针对对方

 wuqiantidejieshoushiyigexinnian。yiduanjiankangdehunyinshixuyaozaishuangfangzhijianyuanyixiacaikehuxiangzhengbian。liru：wohuirongxuwodexiaonvrenzuoyixietakaixindeshi。zheixieshuohuadelichangyoukenenghuijiangdiduifangdediweijizaochengshanghai。jiarunidebanlvtiantianyechuandaiyuyibingqielanyangyangdezaikandianshi，erniyijushuohuayemeishuo、meiwen，zheiyangnibianmeiyoubajingliyushijiantoufangzaibanlvdexingfushang。kenengtajiuhuixinqingbuhao、kenengtabingle、kenengtazhishilanduo。buguanruhenidechenmochenjingshiduomelingtaganjuedaonidebuzaihu。bushizhiyounicaiyouquanliyaoqiubierenniyeyouyiwuquzhizuduifangdeyaoqiu。

二、不追问是否爱

 henduonvrenjiehunhoudouhuijuedenanrenburuyiqianaizijile，juedenanrenshixinyuziji。erqiejuedenanrenshuoaizijishizaifuyanziji。danshiyigeainidenanrenkendingbuhuiba“woaini”guazaizuibian，tahuihuaaiyiweixingdongjinvrenchuangzaogengjiameihaodeshenghuo。yincibuyaoguofendezhuiwennanrenshifouaininanrennuligongzuojiushiainidezhengmingle。

三、尝试不同的改变

 henduonvrenchanghuimaiyuannanrenbianle，dedaoshoulejiubuzhenxile。qingganzhidewanhuima，qishinvrenzijiyeyouyibufendezeren，zongshiyichengbubianerrangzijidelingyibanzaijianjianbiandeheyiqianyigetianshangyigedixia。meiyouyigenanrenbuxixinxiangande，duogaibianxingxiangchangshigezhongshishangdeyuansu，jishinilaogongzuishangbukuani，xinliyehuiduinibaochishikedexinxiangande。

 fuqiliangrendanduyiqideshihou，keyidianqilazhuchiwanfan;huozheliangrentuigaimaotan、zaiyangtaishangkanyueliangliaotianzhongwenchulianrouqing……xianzaibushaofuqihaishixingyizhong“qingrenzuoaifangshi”jibushididaobinguanquguoye。yiyizhongxiuxiandefangshixiangshouxingshenghuo，xinqingwangwangtebieqingsong，jikedanhuayaliyoukezengjinfuqijiandeqinmidu。aimeiyougudingdefangchengshixingshenghuoyeyiyang。qingjizhuchuangzaobenshenjiuhenkuaile。haiyouyidianshishangmeiyoudefangshi，zhiyoushihenidefangshi。

四、正确处理性生活

 qingganwanhuizhendema，fuqijiandexingshenghuobingbushidanchunroutishangdeshiqing，tahaishiyizhongganqingdejiaoliu，suoyiweichihunyin，yaozhengquedichulixingshenghuo。youhenduodefuqiyinweichulidebudangcongerdaozhidisanzhechuxian，yibandenanxingdeyuwanghuibinvxingdeqiang，zheidaozhihenduodenvrenwangwangjiangnanxingdekewangdangzuoyizhongqianzhideshouduan，zheizhongfangfazhihuishidezhangfufanganyanjuan，bulihunyindeweichi。

五、做个贤妻良母

 wanhuiqinggankekaoma，henduoshihouxianzaiderenmendouxuanchengsuoweiyaonannvpingdeng，yiqiandeneizhong“nangengnvzhi”，nanzhuwainvzhuneisixiangyijingluohou。danshiwulunsuizheshehuidezenyangfazhan，yigeaidongdecaolaojiawu，wenrouqinkuaidenvrenzongshishenshounanrenxiaide。nanrenyitianzaiwaibenbolaoliudaojiahou，ruguonengkandaoganjingzhengjiedefangzi、chidaoxiangpenpendefancai，neimetakendinghuibeiganxinwei。tongshiyeweizijinengqudaorucixianqiliangmuerzihao。