情感危机如何才能挽回？

 henduorenbuzhidaoweishenmehuizoudaojintian，qingxufanyingmoshiwujuezhi，jiuxiangzidonghuatiaojianfanshe。duiyuqingganweijiruhewanhui，qingganruhecainengwanhuini？xiaobianlaigaosuniruhecainengwanhuiqingganba!

一、不妨先问自已是如何造成婚姻危机的

 niguoquleijidejieguo，jiushinimenguanxidexianzhuang。qingganweijiruhewanhui,henduorenbuzhidaoweishenmehuizoudaojintian，qishishiyinweiduizijizuochudeguanxingsikaofangshi，qingxufanyingmoshiwujuezhi，jiuxiangzidonghuatiaojianfanshe。

suoyidangniwenruhekuaisuwanhui，bufangxianwenziyishiruhezaochengjintiandeweijide。

 yinweinizhendexuyaolejieziji，nishigeshenmeyangderen，nizaiguanxizhongderengecengmianheyinyingcengmiangenduifangyounaxiechongtuyuchayi。nixuyaokandaobanlvxiangjingziyiyangchengxianlenibutongderengecengmian。

二、诚实的面对自己，为关系负全责

 juechazaizijidangxiadefumianganshoudebeihou，youshenmeyangdeqidai。zijineizaililiangbugou，haishijiazhigandi，youshenmeyangdekuifaxiwangduifangbuzuzijidekongdong。

 qingganruhecainengwanhui,qukandaoniduiduifangdeshiwang，kuijiu，fennu，weiqudouyoushenmeqidai，niweishenmehuiyouzheiyangyigeqidai，yinweinizuobudao。neimenijiuquzhaodaoliliangganchengzhangdefangxiang，weizijidechengzhangfuze，erbushiqidaiduifangannideyaoqiuqugaibian。

 ruguonizhixiwangshenbianderenweinifuze，huozhedengdaiduifangzuochu123，nicaizuo456，neimenijiuhuibeikazhu。yinweinizaizhizheyuduifangyaoyongzijixiangyaodefangshihuibaoni，nijiuwufatiyandaowutiaojianai。

 aiyidanyoulejiaoyi，nijiutihuidaobudaozhenzhengdebici，jiuhuibaguanxiwuhua，biruyinwei：woyouqian，wopiaoliang，woyouquanli……

 duifangcaiaiwo，bicidouhuigandaoyali,neimeguanxidehudongzhongshibidingshijifeigoutiao。yinweiyidannibunengmanzuwo，aijiubucunzaile。neimezaiguanxilijiuhuihenbuanquan。

三、正向的成熟是不带攻击性的去跟对方链接

 ruhecainengwanhuiqinggan,zaiguanxidejiaoliuzhong90%shitongguoyuyanfaqi，suoyiruhezaiguanxizhongjichengshi，qingxidebiaodaziji，youzunzhongqieqingtingtarenjiubiandezhiguanzhongyaole。zebeihekongsu，womenzaibiaodaqidai，womenzaishuozheixiehuadeshihou，youdalianggongjixingdenengliangzailimian。

 zainijianghuadeguochengzhong，wulunnidedaoliyouduomezhengque，zhiyaotayougongjixingyidinghuiyinfafangyujizhi，duifangjiuhuijinrubianjiehejieshi。yekenengduifangyouhenduoliyou，yaomezhijiefanbo、yaomegeli，chenmo，taobi，neimeguanxijiuhuishuli。

 ruheyonggengyouaideyuyanliujinbiciganqinghehunyinzhongshiwomenshenghuodegongke。zaigoutongzhong，qingliuyifashengdeshiqing，biaodanideganshou：zheichangweijishijianzhong，nijuedehaipa，guduhaishifennu，haishihouhui？ranhoushuochunidexuyao，duifangdeshenmerangnishoubule，shuangfangxuyaogaishanshenme。

 womenzongshixiguanyuyinzangwomenzhenzhengdexuyao，ranhouwuxiuzhidezhizeduifang，zuihoushuochunideqingqiu！weishenmehuiyouchongtu，biaodazijideqidai，tongshilingtingduifangdeqidai，yonghezhongxingdongmanzubici，jizhu，zhishibiaodazijidexuqiu，tongshikandaozijiqidaibeimanzuqianti：

diyi：duifangyoumeiyouzugoudenengliang？duifangyoumeiyouzugoudenengli？

dier：youmeiyouzugoudeyiyuan，batafangzaibeijingzhong。

 nixiwangduifangduizijihehaizikuanrong，keshiduifangconglaimeiyoudedaoyangyuzhejiduifangnaixin，suoyinijiuxianjiduifang，nixuyaoxianjiyuduifangnixiangyaodenaixin，kuanrong。

erbushiyong“pingshenmewoyaozuozheixie，youbushiwodecuo”deniantoujinguzhuguanxidehudong，bazijikazhu。

四、最后，在关系中给出承诺

 zhiyaowomenbuqumianduizijizaiguanxizhongmangdian，jishixuanzelikaituolizheiduanguanxi，womenzijideguanxingdexingweimoshi，tiaojianfansheshideqingxufanying，wuyishidesiweixiguan，renzhijiaodujikuangjiabingmeiyourenhebianhua。

neimeyihoudeguanxi，womenhaishihuiyudaotongyangdewenti，gaizuodegongkeshizhongdoushiyaozijiquzuode。

 chengnuojiushizhenshidepingguziji，buguanguanxizhongfashengrenhekunnanzijidouqujieshou，juedinghaohaolaimianduiziji，mianduizhenshideziji，kebukeyiquaiduimiandeneigeren，jishitaduinihenshiwang？

 nikebukeyiaiyigerangtashiwangdeniziji？nikebukeyizuodaojishiduifangdefanyingrangnishiwangniyebuyaoqingyifangqi…..

 yinweinibushiguanxidebeidongzhe，nishiguanxidechuangzaozhe，nixiangyaoshenmeyangdeguanxi，jiuquxiangxin，jiduifangxinren，pingdeng。erbushiqukongzhi。

 ruguozijidexinrendubugou，liliangganbugou，jiuqujienazijidezuobudao，erbushiziwofouren，ziwobianjie，huozhezhizeduifangmeiyouhenhaodepeiheni。

 mianduizheigeweiji，tingzhishanghaideyuyan，xingdong，quzhenzhengdegoutong，quzhaohunyinzixunshi，qingganjiaoliandezhichi，daoqian，biaoda，bicichangkai，bingjizijiyuduifanggengduodenaixinquchengzhang。

 ruguonikewangduifangjinidelijie，zhongshi，peiban，zunzhong…..zanshicongduifangshenshangdebudao，neijiuxianziwomanzu。yinweisuoyounixiangcongduifangtiyandaode，shinibenshenyijingyouganjuetoushechuqude，tongguoduifangdefanyingtiyandaodebale。