分手一年后该如何挽回爱情？

 pengyoushuo，gennanyoufenshouyiyouyinianle。youderenyidanlikaihenkuaijiuwangjile，keshizheigenanyouhailiuzaizijidejiyizhong，tadeyingzihuizhibuqu。dangchushizijishuaileta，houlaijuedezijiyeyouhenduodebudui，xiangqinanyoudezhongzhonghao，zijiyougaibiankanfa，xianggentafuhe。gairuhewanhuiaiqing?zenmejingyingwanmeihunyin? suoweihunyinshishenme ?

wanhuijiqiao：fenshouyinianhougairuhewanhuiaiqing?-wanhuiaiqingdefangfa

一、寻找共同点

 dangchuhenanyouxianglian，weishenmeduifanghuixiyinziji?neishiyinweijuededuifanggenzijiyouxiangsi、huoxiangjindedifang。wuyileijuduiba，zaiduifangdeshenshangkandaoziji，zhaodaoziji。keshijiechuhexiangchuzhihou，biciyougandaofeichangshiwang，haoxiangyichangcuojue，maodunyesuizhizengduo。

三、学会收敛自己

 buyaoyinweiduifangaizheni，qianrangzheni，nijiuzongshitaiguorenxingdiweisuoyuwei，bukaolvbierendeganshou。chuchutiaozhanduifangdedixian，dangduifanggandaozhixi、zaiyewufarongrenshi，yejiuyiweizhenimendeganqingzoudaozhongdian。bieguaiduifangbianxin，nizaoyishangtouleduifangdexin。

 ruhejingyinghunyin?ruguolianggerendouyouaiduifangdexin，buguanfashengshenmeshiqing，doukeyiyingrenerjie。buyaozongdengzheduifanglaiditou，niyaoxianshoulianyixiaziji。rangzijibiandeshanjierenyiyidian，zhanxianzijihaodeyimian，ainiderenhaihuiaini，zhenxini。

四、内心深处的接纳

 xiangyaowanhuizheifenganqing，jiuyaodiudiaozijixinlidegeda，jiechuneixiejibanganqingdedongxi。suoweihunyinshishenme?ruguonixinzhonghaiyougeda，yougulvhehaipa，buganxinrenduifang，neinijiumeiyouzhongxinlaiyicidezige。nihaipa，jiuyijingshudingle。

 nibixucongneixinshenchujienaduifang，zhidaoduifangyouxiequedian，danzijiwanquankeyijieshou，xinlibuhuixianqi，shenzhihaihuixiangyaobaohuduifang。lijieyigeren，cainengweiqifenyoujiechou，caihuirangaizoudegengjiu。zenmejingyingwanmeihunyin?zhiyouzheiyang，nicainengyuduifangzhenzhengfuhe，rangganqingyouyigezhanxindekaishi。