恋爱或婚姻失败，真是因为没有缘分吗？

 shuodao“yuanfen”zheileiwupin，buzhudonghuixiangqiqianbujiutinghuode“foxing”。youyufoxingderen，jiuhenjiangge“yuan”zi。lianqinghuohunyinbuchenggong，jianzhiyouyumeiyouyuanfenma?-wanhuiganqingdefangshi。kaifangshihunyinhaoma? xiangyaoyichangkuayueshikongdehunyinma ?

 shijishang，“yuanfen”yici，gengshifojiazhongdezhuanyeshuyu，1gezongjiaoxinyangdingyi。fojiasixiangjuede，yuanshizheizhongrenherenzhijianwuxingzhongdexianghulianjie，shimouleibidingcunyoudexiangfeng、jiyuhejianghui，yuanfenqizerenyurenzhijiandexianghulianjieduo，yuanfenmiezerenherenzhijiandexianghulianjieshao。

woshuoguoshenpangxuduoren，zaiqingganzhong，nixiangbuganxiangxinyuanfenzheiyiwupin?

youxieren，buxiangxin，wogengxinmoushizairen。

youxieren，yidabanxinyidabanbuxiangxin，xiangyushiyuanwoxin，enaishiyuanwobuxiangxin。

youxieren，yuanfenzheiwupin，bukeyizhengshitayou，yebukeyizhengshitameiyou，e，wohuanshijianxinba。

nandaoqingganchunantile，guaizuidisanzhema?zishenshoushangyiqiezhengchang?meiyuangu?

yuanfenbiaoda：niyaoqingbietaobizeren!bibushangnulixuexiyixiaxiawanhuiganqingdefangshi。

 hunyinshinvrenyibeizideshiduima?wojuedezheiquanshiliangrenjiaowangchouchulemouxienanti，meiyoukeguanxingkeguandequpouxichuli，erzuoyibayiwutuijianjishuobailede“yuanfen”，shuobailede“sanguanbuhe”，shixuduorende1gecuowuguannian。

wojuedetashi1gehentaobizerende，henxiaochendexintaizhuangtai。shidanqie，shiduobi，shihaipafanmianshijidezhuyaobiaoxian。

 wobuxiangshuo“zhendemengshi，yongyumianduixiaotiaoderenshengdaolu，yongyurenqinglinlidexueshui”neiyangdiqidehua，danzuishaozuowei1gechengren，yingduiqinggangaiyourenqingshijidedanlianghedangdan，erbingbushiyixindequtuiweiheduobi。

 xiangyaoyichangkuayueshikongdehunyinma?jishiqueshishifoxing，yebuyaoshineiyang。youyufojiaojiaodebingbushituituo，zhishiyinguoguanxi，younaxieyinjiujienaxieguo。neiyinguoguanxikaonaxie?

修习。

xiudeshanyin，jiedeshanguo，zhendidaodajileshijie;zaodeeyin，tundekuguo，zuihouzhuiruyanluolianyu。

 tashizongjiaoxinyang。danjiaruconglingyige1geshijiaolailejie，jiushishuokexueyanjiudeshehuixue，youyutagaozhirenmen，yaochongfenfahuirenmendenengdongxing，yiwushidejingshenshizhitansuoshiqingdeshizhiheguilvxing，jieheshijijiancehefazhanqushizhenzhi。

 yongzailiangrendeqingganzhizhong，jiushishuoyaojijidezaibenshenshangbianqufajuenanti，jiejuekunnan，erbingbushiquzhaomouxiedisanfangpingtaiyaosuqutuiwei，quzeguai。

 sanfaeryan，ganqingzhizhong，xuduorenyaoshuodaoduiduifang“meiyouaideganjuele”。danmeiyouguanniandaoyidianer，“ai”shi1gexingrongci，beifuzhe1gezishi，jiguanzhuta，zhaoliaota，guanaita，kaolvtazheixie。aide“juede”jiushishuoyouyueganhechengjiugan。huanjuhuashuo，“juede”shi“ai”dejieguo。

 neimahenxianeryijian，“ai”shiqiantitiaojian，meiyou“ai”huoxumeiyou“juede”，tashi1geluojiguanxi。danxuduorenbazheicengguanliancuoluanhuilaile，meiyou“juede”，yincibu“ai”。tashicuodaledezuofa。

 yinci，kaifangshihunyinhaoma?qingzaishuo“meiyouyuanfen”le，“meiyouaideganjuele”yiqian，fangongzishengyixiaxia，zishenyoumuyounuli“ai”，youmuyouqinfennuliguo，youmuyouzhenxinshiyinuliguo。