发觉老公有外遇怎么办？媳妇如何做最聪明

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?yinweihunyinshi2gejiazhongdezucheng，jiarujiejuebutaihao，zheisouhunyindexiaoxiaochuanjiuhuibeirichangshenghuodedafengdalangzhuangkai。dangfajuezhangfuchugui，hunyinyaoyaoyuzhui，ruhezuonenggoujiangdizishenshoudaodesunhaini?huoxukunzaizaihunyinzhongdeniyidianerfangweiyemeiyou。wenzhongjiujiaonidangfajuelaogongyouwaiyuxifuzuicongmingdemouxiezuofa。

作法一：心里难受就忍住不哭，随后积极主动调节亲子关系

 zhangfuchugui，zheiduinieryanbixushifanmenwubi。zheileibiexinlidebiequshijianjiule，huijinichuanbuguoqide。jiaruyoukuyounaozongshirangtarenduanzi，haitutiankunao。nijuedebushufu，jiuzhaogemeirendediqu，gaoshengrenzhubuku，bazishendebiequdoushifangchu。ruguonirenzhubukuhounijiuhuifaxianshufuxuduo。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?suihounikeyidiaojiezishendexintaizhuangtai，jijizhudongdiqugaijinhediaojieqinziguanxi。buguanjushishizaitaicaogao，nibixuweichikailang，huodadadu，jinerqujijizhudongdiweihaita。dangnihenqinfendequgenggaizishen，zhaoliaodaolaogongdexintai，jianxinjiatinghuanjingbidinghuimingxiangaishan。

作法二：想方法跟老公沟通交流某些家中义务和当担

 zhangfuchugui，tongchangyouyuguonilezishenderichangshenghuo。nanrenweishenmehuichugui?keshixuduonanrenbuqingchu，jibiantazaixiaiyigenvhai，ruguojindaohunyin，jiaowangjiule，jiarubukeyikuanrongzheiyinvrendequedian，hunyindoushitahuijuededaoyanjuan。

 yinci，nikeyilejienanrendebuchengshuqi，lingwaigengyingxiangfangfaxiezhulaogongchengshuqi，ranglaogongmingbaimouxiejiazhongyiwuhedangdan。jiehunzhengshuyuanbenjiushishuozheizhongyiwuheyueshuli，yaoxiangbahunyinguohao，budanyaomingbaidangdan，gengyaomingbaiyueshulizishen，yaozhongshiyuhunyin。jinjinxuduonanrenmeiyoulejiezheileiyiwuheyueshuli。

 nikeyixiangfangfagenjubierendegushilaizhengqueyindaolaogong，tahuijiandaozaitarenxingfuhunyinzhong，nvrenhenanrenfenbiederenwujiaosehedangdandouyingdangzainaer，xiezhutagaoqingchuhunyindeyiyi，tahuimingbairenshengdaolujiaodadexingfukuailehuanshihunyindexingfukuaile。nanrenweishenmehuichugui?

作法三：不跟男朋友在心态上通过不了，刚开始对他点思绪

 laogongyouwaiyu，tadesixutingdashuipingshangzaiwaibian。nikeyixiangxiyinzhutahuijia，nihaiyaozishenyezhongshizishendeshenghuoguannian，nihaikeyichuanshangqujingmeidegaogenxiezi，haikeyihuaqiziranzhuang，lingwaihaiyaoliuyizaixintaishangbubigennanpengyoutongguobule，bubiyizhijitamenmiansekan，youyuyijiaziyouhaoxiangchubiquandouguanjian，yaolejiezhangfuchuguitingdashuipingshangyeshinideyiwu。

 linyutangxiede《jinghuayanyun》，julinvyihaoyaomulanneimajingmingnenggan，youyouboxueduocai，keshizishendelaogongrengranhuiwaiyu。

 tazhenduilaogongdewaiyujiushishuocaiyongdeshizishengangkaishidaban，gangkaishiyongxinzainanrenshoushang，budanhuaqilejingmeidezhuangmian，erqieqinziweilaogongfengrenyifukuzi，laogongbuguanduowanhuijiatajiudengtadaoduowan。gengshiyouyutadezhenqingshiganchudonglelaogong，jinerwanliulelaogong，shouhaolezishenwenxindejia。

 zhangfuchugui，youyutagaobudonghunyindeyiwuheyueshuli，shitabuchengshuqi。jiaruniliangchangfandiao，huoshihetazaihu，neimadajiadehunyinjiuhuimaixiangfenlie。

 yinci，dangfajuezhangfuchugui，zuoweixifu，dangnibuxianglihun，neimahaiyaopaoxiazheixiechuantongshidenaoren，zhishicaiyongzuicongmingdezuofa：jijizhudongdi、kailangdiqugaijinqinziguanxi，yongzishendecongmingzhihuixiyinlaogong，shouweizhuzishengaiyoudexingfukuaile。