你不知不觉发觉老公有外遇怎么办？

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?zhongyouyitian，nibuzhibujuefajuenilaogongyouwaiyu，dangangkaishinibingbuganxiangxin，youyuniganjuenilaogongbutaikenenghuineiyangduini。danshidengzheniqinyankanjianshi，yixiaxiarutonggepiaopodayuqishixiongxiongdedahuilai，nixinlidetongchuwuyiyanbiao，naizhixiangqiguoyisilezhi。nijingchangshimianzheng，tounaolibianzongzaixiang，jiujingyaogaizenmeban?nibenzhiwujikeshi，jiaojinnaozhi。

出轨男人，愈来愈普遍。它是实际，不必讳言。

 henduonvxingzaihunyinjiatingzhongshiyandequanshifeichanglieshi，naizhidisanxiasiderenwujiaose，tamenmeiyoudandudeguannianhegongzuonengli，zaihunyinpoliedaolaiyiqianyejihumeiyoujuededaoweijidecunyou，yinciweijiqueshidaolaineishihoujiuyuelaiyueqianchuangbaikong，yipengjiusui。

 nanrenweishenmehuichugui?laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?neima，yingduizhangfuchuguizheiyihunyinpolieyingdangruhekexueyanjiujiejueni?xiabianjiulaitantan。

尽可能理智，分辨趋势;

 xiangyaonibaozhengjueduidelizhishibutaikenengde。youyu1geyitiandaowanhezishenshuiyikuaierderen，jingranhetarenyongyouguanlian，haiyanzangdeneimashenneimajiu，xiangzhezheileijuedejiuexinxiangtu、jiuqinao，yincibaozhengbulushengsehenxianeryijianshituolishijide。

 keshibulizhibingbushiyiweizhejiunenggouhuomaosanzhang，suihoumanquanqiuxuanbutadeeshi。congmingnvrenyingdanggaoqingchu，naopiqi、qiulianminbenzhinanyijiejuenanti，zongshibatayinxiangdisanzheerdewenrouxiangliquqiukuanweihetiexin，neiyangtazongshiyuelaiyueyuan。

 yinci，jibianfajuelingyifangwaiyu，yebubiyixiazibianweihanfu。zhishiyingdangjinkenengweichilixing，quliqingxirujindequshi。zhangfuchuguiduozhangshijianle?laidaonaxiechengdu?bicidoutugesha?zhinengzhangwozhuangkuangnenggouweixiayijieduanzuotiqianzhunbei。

丈夫出轨都是他自己的难题吗?

nanrenweishenmehuichugui?niduanshijiannei，huixiang：nandaoshuobingbushima?tawaiyuhaiguaizijima!

 wojuedelizhidexianggebanfa，renmenchangdayingdehunyinjiaowangshi“0.5+0.5=1”defangshi，yinerquanbudeshier，doubingbushinenggoujianyideyinxiangtaziji。

 shijishang，chuguinanrentingdashuipingshangmianyouyumuqiandehunhoushenghuozhangqichuyufenqizhizhongyinqide。yejiushishuo，pingshidejiaowanghegoutongjiaoliuhaowuyiwencunyouzhenanti，erzheileinantihuoxushishuangzhongde。yincibixudesikaohuoxubixude。

然后还要考虑到1个难题：能否接纳?

 zheiyinantijiaoweifanzajiaoweiruili，danbuguanzenyangdouraobudong，wubiyaoyingdui。jianghuihuiyouhenfanzadeyaosujiazazaiqizhong，xiaohai、babamama、jiazhong、jingjifazhan、zichan、xinyuzheixiebixukaolvdaoyinei，xixinhengliang。

jiarubukeyijiena，neihuoxuzhinengtiaoxuanliyi，kuaidaozhanluanma。

 daliangdenvxinghuitiaoxuan“kuanrong”。huoxu，jinjinbiaocengshangdekuanrong，shijishang，waiyujinvxingchanshengdexintaizhuangtaishangbameibanfadanqu，huoxuyishengdouwangbudiao，jinjinbuxiangyaoshuo。

 danjirantiaoxuanzaiciguo，nijiupobudeyiyingduidisanzheer，yingduiyiduanbukanrumudehunyin。zheibixutingdadedanlianghexinxin。yunyinghunyinqinggan，bingbushidisanxiasi，beiweidaochenaili，jiunengwanliu，yebingbushizhaohaoduogehaoguimisuiyiqingtu，jiunenggenggai。shizhishang，shibixu1gekexueyanjiudefangshi de，jianyanzhi，jiushishuogenjunanrenxintaipouxihou，1gekexueyanjiudezhaoshu。