怎样用真情牌来挽回老公出轨

 laogongchugui zenmeban?gushihouwanhunchengzuo：jiehun。jibicicongjinyihoubianchengjiaren。zaijinrilaikandequehenrenshengdadaoli。liangrenzhangqixingjiaowang，jibianyikaishineileifenbugushendeganqingzhaobudaole，yehuileijimouxiewufamochudezhenqing。shenmeyiqianyikuaieryiluzoulai，yiqichangguodege，yikuaierhuandudesuiyue，doushiyuelaiyuexingfuhezuigaijuannian。danghunyinchanshengweijishi，nihebuzuohaoleijidezhenqingpai，jiecijihuilaizhengjiunidehunyin，neimazenyangyongzhenqingpaiwanhuihunyin、wanhuihunyinxucongnayifangmianxueqi?

一、改变现状，以诚相待沟通交流

 xuduohunyinzhongdenanrennvren，jiehunqianhaimingbaitaohaolingyifang，helingyifangwangwangtandelai，jiushishuoyouyuqingoutongjiaoliu，duogoutongjiaoliu，erqiekeyishangxi，zanyanglingyifang。erjiehunhou，suizhilianggerendelejiedutisheng，tongchangjiandaodequanshixianghudequexian，zheiyineishihoubicijiufeichangrongyileijimocahefenqi。

 laogongchuguizenmeban?zhangciyiwang，jiuhuiyanfanlingyifang。wojuedebingbushishuobicizhongjiandeqingganzhaobudaole，zhishibicizhongjiandereqingheneileiyiqiandetianmeiganzhaobudaole，yishizhuxingyuelaiyuefaweideruwenkaishui，zaizheiyineishihoujiugengweibixudiaojiezishen，gaibianxianzhuang，jipingfandeshenghuoyinruxinxiandeqiti。

 suyushuo:“shanliangdenvrenyangshen,chengshudenvrenningxinanshen”。yinci，yaoqinfenxiangfangfazhaomouxiexianghudesuiyue，bicikeyitishenggoutongjiaoliu，leijiqinggan。jinguanxuduozaoyuhunwailianderenchangyouwaiyudejianghui，keshixuduorenxinliyemeiyouxiangqiguosheqizishendejiazhong，youyuzheizaoyudefengxianxinggengda。rutongyixienvshengxuannanren，yaoguishugan，yaozerengan，yaozerenxin，kandejianleshuainanjiubuwenbuwenle。

 yixienanrenxuannvsheng，yaoxianshu，yaozhishudali，yaowenrou，kandejianlepiaoliangmeinvjiupaobudongdaole。rendaoyingduixinxiandewupinshi，tongchanghuibeitadebiaomianmidao，keruguolejiele，zaipiaoliangyeburongyiaixi。yinci，piaoliang，zhiyoukaolvyizhenzi;kekao，nenggoukaopuyisheng。

 yinci，duihunyineryan，neileikekaodejuedesuanshibicixinlideduofangmianzhuiqiuwanmei。“haoqizi”xingdenvxing，yikaishishihenshoulaogongxuehaohedadongde，neiyangshilaogongganjuezishenyishizhuxingshangbeizhaoliao!keshineixinshangdezhaoliaohegoutongjiaoliuxifumenbaozhenglemeiyou?yinci，budongaiqing，huanqinglvyebuhao;bumingbaiyunyingjiazhong，huanlianrenrengwufaxingfukuaile。

二、会打内心游击战

 zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?hunyinrujingjichangyaomingbaiyoujizhan：dijinwotui，dituiwojin!hunyinruwuchang，yaogaoqingchujintuiyoudu，caihuihemuxiangwu!ganqingbixuxuexipeixun，hunyinbixuyunying。

 yunyingdeqiantitiaojianshibixuchongzudezhangwolingyifang，zhinenglejieleliangxingdechabie，nenggouxianghumoheqi。suoyourendehunyindouqinshenjinglileneiyangde1gequanguocheng：relian，fenqiqi，buanquanqi，zhenqingqi。genjumoheqihoudehunyincaihemu，jiehunhoushizhangwolingyifangdegangkaishi。

 lejielingyifangxiainaxie，taoyannaxie，nenggoukaolvlingyifangdeganqingyaoqiu，bicinenggoudedaohunyindexingfukuaile。xuduohunyinzhongdenanrennvren，yizhibazishenkandejiaoweiguanjian，yincizairichangshenghuozhongbuduanmaiyuanzishendeduifang，bukeyifeichanghaodegenlingyifangjiaowang。

 wojuedezheijinjinnianqingdezhuyaobiaoxian。zainianqingdeneishihou，youyubuchengshuqi，renmenyizhibaxianghudequexianfangdetingda，dengniguolehenjiu，wojuedezaihuiguotouxiangzhe，renshengdaoludangzhong，yougerenkeyiyishengshouzairenmendeshenpang，tashishizaitainannengkeguideyuanfen。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?1gechengshuqiderenbixushibiandegengjiawenrou，keyiwenroudikandaizishen，wenroudikandaibieren。

 yaoshirenmenwenroudijianchibuxie，qingchunfayuqihuiyiwang，hunyindechengshuqihuilailin。dangjinyaozuodeshibaduitadeguanxinquhuimouxie，fangdaoduizishendezhaoliaoshang，xianrangzishenchuyuhuankuaishufuderichangshenghuo，ruguonizuozijidelianren，yulianrendejiaowangcaihuidazirandihaoqilai。zenyangyongzhenqingpailaiwanhuihunyin-wanhuihunyindefangshi

三、倘若爱，请认真去爱

 zaizheiyishifengrixiadequanqiuli，dajiazaoshoudeyinyouxuduo。jiarunikeyiyinizishendezheifenkeshouquaizheta，quwenroudiduita，quaixihetajiaowangdemeiyike，neimatayebidinghuiduiniyulaiyujuannian。jibianwaimiandeshijiezaixingfu，waibiandeyecaozaihaokan，yaoshitadexinzainizheier，jiumeirennenggoudaiquta。rendeyishenghaipadejiushishuoyouquehan。

 yinci，yaoaixiyiqihuandudesuiyue，jinzishendegongzuonengliquaita。ruguoyouyiridajiayoufenqizoule，nihaikeyiwuhuirensheng，erlingyifangshiquleni，zeweibinengduli。yincitangruoaita，jiuqingaizhe，dangtazaoyiyikaonideneishihou，neimatadexingmingzhongbianbunengmeiyouni。

 lingwai，haiyaoshiyonglingyifanggongzuo。suoyourenzaitarugangweihou，changyoutazishendegongzuo。nanrenqizhijiuqujueyugongzuo，tashizhenzhi。yiner，buguannannvshuangfanghuanshinvxing，doubukeyizhituzishendegongzuoerhulvelingyifangdegongzuo，gengbukeyisheqiulingyifangxunzhizishenpianaidegongzuolaitingcongzishen，neiban，zongshisunhaixianghudeqinggan，bingqiehaideliuyixiashiduguanxinxiananren，keyijuyoujiaomiewaiyujixiang，neimazenyangjiaomiewaiyujixiang?fufubicijuyouzhuiqiuwanmeizishengongzuodequanli，yeshidanfujiazhongzerendeyiwu。

 qiadangdezuofayingdangshi，xiangfangfaduotiaomouxiejiazhongzhongdan，jiqingdishiyonglianrendegongzuo。bicidounengneiyangzuo，jiunengxiaoshifenqi，cujinganqing。zairichangshenghuozhong，yaoliuyixiulianzishen，weichiyikexiliuyiyangdexin，shiranqingliang，suizhishijietudiliuzhuan;weichiyikehaiyangyiyangdexin，huoranrongxia，nimeifagenggaitaren，keshinenggougaibianxianzhuang!

 zishendegenggaicaihuiweihaitarendegenggai!zhengshuobaile：“bainianlaoxiuweitongzhou，qiannianxiudegongzhen。”fufujiushishuo2gebanqiu，“yigebanqiumeifafanzhuan，yaoyoulingwaibanqiu。” 1geyouqizhidenvrenwulundaoneibiandoulingrenxiai。

 yinciyaoduosuzaozishendeqichang，tishengzijideneihan。fengfuduocaizishendejingshenshijie。meishiernenggoubeixiejingdianshige，shangximouxiegudianlequ，huoshixuexishufayishu。

 gangroubingji，xiudexiushenyangxing。wulunnidaonajiadiqu，yiqiezijidouxiaigennijiaowang。ruguonijuyouneiyangdeganranlineishihou，yiqienanrendoushishangxinidexingqing。

 youzhe1gemeimanxingfudejiazhong,shisuoyourendexinyuan，hunyinzhongdenvrenhenanrenwojuedexiangtong,doujubeirouruo、haipa、liaodaohexinyouyuerlibuzudeneishihou。buguanzailianqingzhong,yishizhuxingshang,gongzuoshangmianbixuxianghudejiliheshiyong。yinci,yaozhenxiyongyou，caikeyiyouzhexingfukuaile。