男人出轨的表现：怎样用包容拯救自身的婚姻

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?liangrenkeyibianchengfufu，tashibixuhenduoshixiulaideyuanfencaikeyilaidaoyikuaier，renshengdaoluyidabandeshijianquanshizaihunyindelutuzhongzoudong，zouzailushanghuoxuhuiyouzhengzhi，huoxuhuiyoujingtaohailang。

 1gejiazhong，jibenshangquanshibukeyifangzhizhengzhide，keshimeicidezhengzhiwojuedequanshinenggouzishenlaicaozong，jiaruliangrenzhengzhibukeyiyoulingyifangxianshiruo，neimazheicizhanshijiuzhongjiumeiyouwanbi，zhangciyiwang，huoxuhunyinjiuzoulaidaozuishenchu。yincishuobulunshinalingyifang，zaiyingduizhengzhibixuyaokeguankandai，deyongbaorongdexinqukuanronglingyifang，neiyangcaikeyiwanhuihunyin。

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琐事不必吵

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明白谦让

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 wojuedeyoushiyingdangxixidixiangyixiaxia，renwuwanrenshunengwuguo，jiarulingyifangshichucifancuo，wojuedeyebingbushizuidaejidedazui，yingdangxiangyixiaxiabicidebabamamahezishendexiaohai，chenxialaixinhouhaiyaoquxiangzhelingyifangzenmehuiyouhunhouchugui，shizishenshenmedifangzuoderanglingyifangbulingrenmanyi?xiangguoyihoubingqielingyifangshizhenxinchengyihuigai，neimahuanshinenggoukuanrongde。

包容老人

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 yixielaonianrenpingchangxihuanlaotao，suiranhuijuedeyixiedichu，keshizheizhiyouxinlibukeyizhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，yaoshixixindequtingjiuxing，laonianrendexutaojuedaduoshuyequanshizaiguanzhuzishendeernvyishizhuxing，tamenwojuedeshizaiguanzhuni。

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