挽回老公，守活寡式的婚姻女性该如何解救

 wanhuilaogong zenmezuo?shouhuoguashidehunyin，tongsuhuayidianereryanshinilaogongweisi，danniquecheditihuibushangtadecunyou。fufubicidanchunxingzishenguozishendeyishizhuxing，zhaobudaogoutongjiaoliu，gengzhaobudaoqingganqianban。

 wanhuilaogongzenmezuo?xuduonvxingchengshoubushangneiyangdehunyin，danyoubuxiangyaocongcisheqi，zhongjiunvxingzaihunyinzhongtongchangquanshichuzailieshi，chuziyugezhonggeyangyuanyinyuanyiwanhuihunyin，neimazhenduizheizhongqingkuang，nvxinggairuhejiejiuni?

一、寻找两人中间存在的不足

 laogongyebugui，huoshiduinijueqinglengdanneibixushiyouyuangude。hunyinzhongdenantibuwaihuyuneibuyuanyinhuohuoyouyin。neibuyuanyinjiushijiazhongzhongdebenzhifenqi，yiweizhedeyoujingjifazhanfenqi，shenghuofangshi，jiazhiquxiang，zuyuanguanliandeng;youyinjiuyibandoubukehuoquewaiyu，hunwailianjidisanzheer，xunzhaozaiqizhongdeyuangujiushiniwanhuizhangfudeshouxian。

 ruhewanhuizhangfu?baozhengzheiyidianerjiuxiangyaonichongzudezixi，huiwangyixiaxiayiwangdeyishizhuxing，zishengennanpengyoudouyouyunaxieshierzaochengdebukaixin，suihoujiushishuoshencengsikao，rangzishentiaochulailuojisiweikunju，yi1gejianshizhedezhenshishenfenlaiduidaizishendebuhuigai，weiyouneiyangrenmennenggougengkuaizuijingquedexunzhaozaiqizhongbingyuanjun。

二、做有效沟通

 qingganshizenyanghuihuaideguangni1gelejiehaibuhao，niyaoderangnanrenyelejie。xianggaohaozheibutongchangshimeibanfade，youyulingyifangchangchangburongyirangnijiyugoutongjiaoliu，buxiangyaogoutongjiaoliusuanshixianjieduanjiaodadezuai。yincinibixuyouchongzudexixin，erqiegaohaozaigentoudetiqianzhunbei，beihuijueleyebubiyouxintai，huifuqingxuhouzaizhaoxunshihedejihui。

 goutongjiaoliushichulirenhenantidegongluqiaoliang，yiqienantinenggouzaigoutongjiaoliuzhonghuodechuli，guanjiansuozaidajiadegoutongjiaoliufangfa。ruhewanhuizhangfu?dengdaijihuideneishihou，nibixuduodumouxieyouguangoutongdejiqiaodeshujie，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengfeichangrongyilingrenjiena，tishengzijideqingshangzhishang，ranglingyifangmeifahuijueni。

三、作出更改

 zheierdegenggaibingbushidanzhirenmenzishendegenggai，jiaruquanbudedoujinjinrenmenzishenzainuli，neineiyangdewanliuyebianweiletiangou，bianweilewushijiyiyiderangbu。genggaidaziranshibicide，zuixianrenmenwubiyaorenkebenshendebugou，erqieyanchuanshenjiaoqujiuzheng，baozhengshi，baozhengwuxie。danlingwairenmenhaiyaokeshouzishendedaodedixian，daodedixianshihunyincunyoudebenzhi，liruchuguinanrendisanzheer，jinjinyixinderangnvxingbaorongtazheizhongzuofa，erzishenshierbujian，nijiubeichilewanjiuhunyindechuxin。

 genggaishitongchude，danbingbushibutaikenengde。xianzuoziji，zaiquguidingtaren，zheisuanshiganqingwanhuizhongdeqiangdaguilv。chuguinanrendanshishizhitunvrendemeilise，xiangyoufangsidekuaile，danzheibingbuyiweizhetabuqipantashi，qipan1gewennuandejia。

 jiqitaneixinlideqianzaixingyaoqiu，erqiewuxiankuozhang，tahuizishenjijixunzhao，lirutahuiduocanjiadaomouxiejiazhongzhutihuodongzhong，tahuiduochengdanyidianerhaizijiaoyu，yikaishiyexuhuidichu，dandangtazijintourujinlaihoudaziranhuifajuejiadexingfu。nidemeirirenwujiushishuozhengqueyindaotagenggai，erqiexiezhuta，tahuiduizishenyouzixinxin，duizheiyijialiyouzixinxin。

 shouhuoguashidehunyinbingbuhuitainanjiejiu，zhongyaohuanshiqujueyunvxingzenyangzuo。nvxingzaijiazhongzhongjinguanshuochenglieshide，danqueqizhegangangdegongxiao。beijudejiazhongzongyoutaiduotaiduoyuanyin，danwenxindejiashenhoubixuyouyigechusedenvxing，yincishuonvrenxiangyaowanhuihunyin，zuixianhaiyaozuoziji，zaiyongzishendejiqingquganqinanren，rangnanrenxiangyaoerweigenggai。