怎么挽回重感情的男人？感谢离婚那场经历

 yiqian，wojuedeliyishirenshengdaolulvtuzhongdeyihuibuchenggongjilu。keshirujin，huitouqiaoqiao3nianlaiyiluzoulai，woshifenxingyun。tangruodangshimeiyoutiaoxuanliyi，woyexiangquziwanbishidexiuzhifu，rengrantingzainianfuyiniandehunyinzhong，shiyanbingbushiganxinqingyuandelaoporenwujiaose。benzhibutaikenengxiangjinrineiyang，bianchengzhuzuobuduanjianzhubaoduan、zaochengyonghuhewenxuejieguanxindeziyouzuojia，huochuzijidejingcai。yinciwojuede，wojiushiqudechenggongdilihunle，erbingbushinaxiebuchenggong。zenmewanhuizhongganqingdenanren? ganqingxianduanliezenmeban ?

4000yuan，duziyirenzoutiandi

 shuochuqunihuoxubuxiangxin，liyihecizhi，wojiushiyiqikaizhande。woxiangyaojiranjuecegenggai，jiuduizishenderenshengdaolulaiyihuiwanquangaige。

 youyuliyijiushiwomingquetichulaide，tazuoweinanshengdexurongxinzaoshoulesunhai，jiuduiwomenkaizhanjingjizhicai，bafangben、chuxudoushouleqilai。woyuanbenyewusuoweilezhengzichan，danxiangbudaotazuodeneimejue，zheiyangyilaidaowanmeichengxianlewo。zhongjiuyikuaieryishizhuxinglezheixienian，neixinbutaikenengyidianerqianjiudoumeiyou。wodeqianjiuqiahaohejiaojitadezichanxiangxiangdile。wodailezishenxinyidediannaoshang、yifuhe4000kuaiqian，zheijiushiwogangdededabigaochou，yiwufangu、toudoubuhuidebazishencongyiwangderichangshenghuobanlechuqu。

和闺女较量

 mailefangzihou，bawolixiudebabamamajiehuilaiheguinvgongzhu，yibianyouliyuchuangzuo，worengzhuzaizufangzizhudefangwuli，meiwan6diananshihuijiale，yubabamamaheguinvgonggongjinwucan。

 wanfanzhuozi，jiushiwoheguinvxinxijiaoliu、goutongjiaoliuganqingdemeihaoshiguang，renmenxianghuzhijianlejiedangrisuozuodeshierjitihui，taolunbaokanshangdexinwenredian，geshuyijian，yinweiwoconglaibubiweitaoluntadefuqin。meiguoguoduanshijian，guinvjiuqukanta。pingchangtamenyechangchangtongdianhua。zaizheixing，wojihuquanshishiyongerbudizhi。wobuyuanyijihailiuyoucuowusixiang，haoxiangwomenfenshoule，tajiubianchenghuaidan。

 zhiqianwodoudanyouliyihuijihaichanshengbuliangyingxiang，danrujinkanshishengxingduoyile。guinvxingqingxinggekailang，zhenshixiangyingzhechunsebengbengtiaotiaodeyizhixiaoyang，shibanlizhimingde“leguanzhe“，wuyuanwuguxiangtongxuemenchuipeng：shiwo3gejia，yeyewaipo、muqin、fuqin，xinnianshousanfenyasuiqianni!benzhikanbuchuzidanshennannvjiazhong、naxieshoudaosunhai、xingqingbuwanshandezhengzhao。duinanshiquanqiuyimeiyouzaochengyiqieshuyuanbici、chengjian，fanguolai，daokanqilaiyoudianer“reqing”。meiguoguoduanshijian，jiugenwoshuotayouxiaishangnajiananhaizi，talanhaodadefeichanghao，yanchangdehao。huoxu，zheiyizongyijiemushizaiwanfanhoubabamamachulailiuda，renmengudingbudongbuhuigaibiandexiaxiangqishijiankaizhande。

 neiyitian，ruhezengjinfuqiganqing?guinvxiangyiwangxiangtongbaifangqi，tiqianzhunbeiyuwo“sha”yipan。tashitameitianzhongzuixingfudeshiguang。yibiantishengkuaile，renmenyoushihouyexiaoduyibing。neiyitiantahuoshengwo

yicankendeji，gaoxingditangzaichuangshangfanle1gegendou。jurananweiqiwozheiyimamalaile。

“zheixiaxiangqibukeyizhixiangyibu，jiaruxiangyibu、zouyibu，haowuyiwenfancuowu。nidexiaxiangliangbu，neiyangnenggouying!”

 “shiya。”wodiandiantoudao，“chouxiangqidashijiushishuoxiangyibuzouyibu，lvxialvbai;haoxiangqidashimeizouyibuzuishaoyaoxiangsanbu，jibianneiyangdoushichengbaibuming，yeyaokandirendeshui

 ping;shidexiangqidashimeizouyibubixukaolvdaozhengpan，neiyangnenggouqushenghaowuyiwen。wojuederenshengdaoluyeshi。ganshenmeshierbixuxiangdezhangjiuyidian，buranyeyaofanbuzhengque。“

guinvwangzhewo，xiaodao：“nidangshijiagefuqin，jiushishuoxiangdeguoduanleba，fanle1gedabuzhengque。”

“shiya。youyuneishihoutainianqing，butaikenengxiangdeneimayuan。”woananwenwenhuida。

“dajiabingbushizaolianba?”guinvwanxiaodishuo。

 ganqingxianduanliezenmeban?wobenxiangshuobu，danjieryixiang，qiahaonenggouandiliwenhuajiaoyuyixiaxiata，queshuo：“womendoushidaxuetanlianaide，neishihoujishishixueshengtanlianaile。shishishang，xueshengtanlianaishirenshengdaoluzuifeichangrongyifande1gebuzhengque。“guinvwangzhewo，yanzhongshanchuyisisiyilv：”muqin，tashuo，zenyangcainengfangzhifanzheiyibuzhengque?“”weiyideqiadangdefangfajiushishuo，bubihenanhaizi

 youchaochuyiqiezhengchangyouqingdechupeng。woxianzaizhengchuzaiqingchunfayuqi，shiqingganxingbingfeilizhixing，ruguoqueshixiaishangsheimeibanfaguanliziji。yincixiwangnishangdaxueqianbubichuduixiang，nenggouhenanhaizixiangchu，danbubibayouqingfazhanqushichengganqing。buranhenjianghuiyouqingheganqingyikuaieryemeiyoule。“

“wodongdele，fangxin，muqin。”guinvtongkuaiditongyile。

 renmenzaicixiaxiangqi，keneixinquexiang：wozennenganxinni?qinggandeshi，lianchengnianrendoumeifazhangwo，genghekuang1ge12suidexiaohai!youshihaoxiangbatafangjin1genverguoli，dengzhangdayihouzaibatafangchuqu。danshibuhaoa，zaowuzhuzaojiulenvrenhenanren，liangxingguanxishirenherenzhijianzirandeguanlian，zenyangtuoshanchuzhihaozheileiguanlian，shizijichengshudebiaoxian，doushirenshengdaoludeyijiebixiukecheng。wozheiyizuomuqinde，yiburongci，liyingxiezhuguinvbeihaozheiyiwen。gengshichuziyuzheiyiniantou，wokanqilaibujingyi、shishibujingyi，bameiwandeqizhuo，bianweigoutongjiaoliu、goutongjiaoliuhezhengbiandeketangjiaoxue。

 suizhiguinvnianjitigao，tazhengbiandexiangshengyulaiyugao。youshihouqueshimeizhaoerle，woyenazishendang“shili”。nibuyaoshuo，zheizhaoerhaizhenyouyong，keguanshishichaoguoxiongbian，1geshilishengyu10gejichulilun。yingduiwozheiyihuoshili，xianglailingyalichideguinvyezhinengbaochichenmodefenle。shijianyizhang，taerrumurandishouwoweihai，baduinanhaizidezheifenjiqingqianyidaonianshuhechuangzuoshang，zhuzuogangkaishijianzhubaoduan，haibianchengyijianqingshaonianxueshuqikandexiaojizhe。bushangdabanniandeshijian，gaochouyigongke1000yuandaguan。

3000qianmizhiwaideganqing

 bujiubaituoqianzhongshuweichengdewo，lishibutanaiqing，basuoyouhuolidouyongzaichuangzuoshang。danshi，ganqingxiangshishachenbao，laideneishihou，sheiyedidangbuzhu。

 renmendexiangyu，youdianxiangxiaoshuoji。woshangwaiwangjibianxiefabiaowenzhang，youyufenbuqingtazuizhongyimingshi1huanshil，2gemingzigefayici。getian，jiedao1fengmoshenglaixin。xinbujiu ，duiwomendegaozimingquetichubianbojianjie，jiarushizanchengdehua，wohuoxuyebulihuile，youyufanguolaiyincihuilexin。tazaixinzhongmeiyouzhaiyao，woyechengtallaoxiansheng。

huoxuzheijiushishuoyuanba，lxianshiyingwenaidediyiweiyingwenzimu。

 ganqingxianduanliezenmeban?lxunsujiuhuilexin，renmenmanmangangkaishilewanglai。youyuyuangewanli，yeshiwangshang，xianghujianbushangmian，yincijiaotanqilaimeiyouzaiyi。tazuodegongzuozhongjiushiwojiaoweimoshengrendejinrongye，youshihouchangchangbangwojiangmouxiequanziyouyisideshi。renmenzaixiexinji、dengxinheduxindequanguochengzhong，yibuyibuzoujin。tongxunliangyuehou，talaidalianshigongchu。shoudaotadedianhua，woyijingjiudiancantinghepenyouyongcan，wodiuxiapenyouhechiwanyidabandefangandaojianta。renmendepengmianshifendaziran，zuikaishiyishunjianyouyidianerjiebeixin，danxunsujiuhaola。renmenquzhoubianyijianfandianyongcan，chiguofantayuwoqiangzhefuqian，jieguowochenggongle。tasongsongjian，wukenaihedeshaxiao：“neiyangba，woqingxiangquyedianyinjiu。”

 chulefandian，waibianpiaoqilexiweidexiaoxuehua。tongweidongbeiren，duixueyongyouchuntianrandexiaiheyilai。tajianyizaixueliliuda。woxinrantongyi。neishihourenmensheiyexiangbudao，zheizhongsan，jiusanfazheichangganqinglai。zhenshidexueyuefenghua。

 xiangquanbudeganqingxiangtong，renmenduguolezuikaishitianmeidesuiyue。keshixunsu，libiedetongkujiubazheitianmeizheyanle。tasuoshudedachengshi，juwo3000qianmi。bingqie1nianzhongyou10liugeyuechuwaigongchu。heneiyangyiming“kongzhongfeiren”chuduixiang，lianjierenmendezhiyoushichuanxinhao。youshimeitiantong5、6cidianhua，meiyiciquanshitadabangwo。bingbushibushedetonghuafei，zhishiwomeifalejietashenmeshihouyoukongyu。womendeshenghuochedidaluanle，wojishishiwuyichuangzuo，yehenpachumen，henpatiaokaitadedianhua。nizhidaoma，zaineiyangxialai，woyemeijiu。

 woxiangtachuanchuzuihoutongdie。wojiang：“jini2getiaoxuan：shouwei，niliuxia。qici，wogennizou。”dan2gedoutahuijuele。tashuo：“tashigengkuaideshenwangfangfa。“

 zenmewanhuizhongganqingdenanren?yiduanhua，tishilewo，nizhidaomawoyoufanlenvxingyifandeganqingbing。womendoushierzhiziyouniao，fenbieyoufenbiedefangwei。jiarubangyiqi，yitouyefeibushang。yibianxiangyouaoxiangdekuaile，renmenzhiyoulinshifenli。

 yinci，renmenchengnuo，linshibupengmian，doubutongdianhua，haixiangzuikaishilejieshineiban，wangshangtongxun。tabajinqidesuojiansuowenxiegeiwo，bawomeirixiedegaozijitamenkan，tamingquetichuguandianhetiyi。tahaixiangzuikaishineibanyiyuzhongde，sihaomeiyouliuqing，naizhigengyangegengyanke。wofenhaohenpasongdai，youshihouyibiangangaoxiedeyingduizhizuobenzhihenpajiaojitakan，buranbeitapidebiantilinshang。youshihoushejilingganlailaxiechengzishenlingrenmanyidegaozijiudangwanfasongjita，qipandadongtashanyifuzubodadianhua。tashineileiyuefazaihuderenyueyanyujizhi，yinci“zaoshou”tadeyihuikuajiangshifenburongyi。

 neiyangyiguodabannian，youyiri，jitamenfaquyipianwenzhangxinxiedeshuqingshi，tahuixinshuo：“haihao。”tashitadepingjiayu。suihouyoushuo，“xiedeyoudianxiangxiaoshuoji。niweihebuxiewangluoxiaoshuoni?“woshizhongquanshiyishuqingshijianzhang，xiewangluoxiaoshuodeniantoubingbushimeiyou，youyuxianqianyimingxieshuqingshidepenyougenwoshuo，tashizheguodanbuchenggongle。shuqingshihexiaoshuojishierzhongbuyiyangbiaodaxingshi，yinciyejiubashou。dantabuneimekan。tajuedezaoxingyishuquanshihutongde，wenxuelei、gequhemeishuhuihua，wulunnazhongfangshi，quanshichuangzuozhedezheizhongtihuihebiaoshu。

 hekuangxiaoshuojiheshuqingshiqishifangshishangdechabiele。tajiliwoshiyixia，jishibuchenggongleyemeishier。duiwenxuejiaeryan，meiyoufeiliao，weilaidoushibianweicaifu。

yinci，yongyouwodediyibuzhangpianxiaoshuoshaonvzuo《bianzoubianai》。

 neiyitianbawoxiehaodexiaoshuofuyinchuqu，baozaihuaizhong，haoxianghuaizhedabijidadecaifu。zheiyiquanshijiechukaiwo，jiaruyeyouxiayigerenlejietamendefenliang，neibianshitale。nenggoushuo，tashitazengjiwoyigelipin，youhaoxiangshirenmenxianghubuyude1gexiaohai。meiyoutabangwodanliang，wobenzhimeiyounengliangjianchibuxiechulai，xieneime1benjiangjin20wanzidexiaoshuoji。neishiwomeirixiezhangjie，xiewanyihoucongzaiwangshangfasongjita，dengnitadekuajianghuozhize。yexushilejiewozixinxinbugou，tajilewojudadebaorong，meiyicixiexinjidouxiankuajiangyilian，suihouzaitiyijian。xiaoshuojisuoyouxiewanhou，woyouyijutadejianyigaidongleyici，songzhichubanshechuban，henyuanmandijiugenjule。keshi，taquetiyiwoxianbubichubanfaxing，chenfangguoduanshijian，zailaiyicigaidong。

 dangnibadisanbuxiugaigaojiaojichubanshechuban，bianxiedangwankanle，getianyizaoyibangwotongdianhua，shoujuhuaqueshuo：“zheijiushiwojinqi2nianjiandaodedexiaoshuo。tahuirexiaode。“

 wowozhemaikefengdeshouyixielveweifadou，yichaneiwoxiangdaole3nianqiandenagezhongwu，zenmewanhuizhongganqingdenanren?wodaizhumeitaidiannaoshanghe4000kuaiqian，woshouerqu11niandehunhoushenghuo，jinjinyibiannagecanliuzaixinli、rengweibeilingsuiyishizhuxingshadiaodexiwang。jiushishuozheiyixiaoxiaodemengxiang，bangwonengliang，jiqinghedanliang，zhichengdianzhewotaguozhei3nianjiankuzhitu。yaowoxiangyoudaoaoxiangdekuaile，guinvdekuailechengzhang，hezheifen3000qianmizhiwaideganqing。