吵架如何挽回女友？

 chaojiaruhewanhuinvyou？ruherangwanhuiqiannvyoudeni？chaojiayuanbenshishuangfangpoqiexiwangduimoushixingchenggongtongyishidequdaozhiyi。danyishuoqichaojia，henduorenxinlidouhuilianxiangdaoguanyutabuyukuaideyixiehuiyi。zongshihuihuoshengshengdebanvyoujichaozou，shihouchanghouhuibuyi。xiamianjiulaijiangjiangguanyuchaojiaruhewanhuinvyoudexiaofangshiba！

一、放弃讲道理

 ruguodaolinengjiejuewenti，neihaiyaochaojiaganshenme？ruherangwanhuiqiannvyou，napanijuedezheijuhuaqiangciduoli，danshihenbuhaoyisidegaosuni，nvrenwangwangjiushizheiyangrenweide。bushinvrenbujiangdaolibumingdaoliershinimenbenshenzhengzhidefenqidianjiubuzaiyigedianshang。jiusuannibashiqingdetiaolijiangdezaiqingxizailuojiqingchudoushimeiyouyong。yinweinizaiyideshizheishiqingdeduiyucuoshiyufei。danshinvrenzaiyideshiyongyuanshinizuoshidairendeshihouyoumeiyouzaiyidaotadeganshou。zheijiushiliangxingsiweidechayi。suoyiyuqifanfudeqiangdiaodaoliburuxianbiaobaikendingniduitadezaihu。zheicaishizhizhinvyousixuluanfeidezuijiajinengmeiyouzhiyi。

二、与其解释，不如先认错

 buguanzheishiqingdelailongqumaishizenyang，nengdaozhizhengchao，jiushuomingnimenzhijianxiangchuhaishicunzaiyixiexiaowenti。erganqinghuinaomaodun，conglaibushidanyifangdecuo。ruhexuanzewanhuinvyou，suoyichuyuyigenanrendedandang，niyaozuodeshiyindaoyishenzuozezaiwentimianqianzhudongchengdanzijidecuo。erbushijixujieshituixiezijidezeren，rangliangrenzaizerenhuafenzhizhongsipolelianshangleganqingrangzhengchaomeiwanmeilejinxingxiaqu。zhiyouzhudongdixianrencuozheimeruhewanhuiqiannvyouba。

三、做好战后工作

 ruhexuanzewanhuinvyou，henduonanrenzongyiweiduifangxinruanle，zheishijiusuanfanguoyeleqishizheishibuduide。suirandangxianvyoubeianfuhaoledanshizaixinlihaishiyouzhexiexudebukaixin。suoyinanshimenyaoxianggenzhihonghaonvyou，jiuyidingyaozuohaozhanhougongzuo。shishijitayigejinjindeyongbaoerqieyongshentiyuyangaosuta，nihenzhenxita，henzhenxizheifenganqinghenbuxihuanzheiyangdechaojia。ranhouzaijiexialaidejitian，youwaichuhuochuchadeshihou，buyaokongzheshouhuilaijitadaidianxiaoliwu，chedigenzhihaochaojiadehouyizheng。ruhewanhuiqiannvyouba，nanshimenyaoxuehuizhanzainvrendejiaodushangqusikaowentidehuacainengshibangongbeidejiejuehaonvrendewenti，erbushizaizijinanrendeshijieliraogezhongdequanquan，gennvrenmanganyingpengyingshizuowuyonggong。zheiyangzhihuiyuezuoyueshang，baduifangyuetuiyueyuaneryi。