zenmewanhuiwuganqingdehunyinzhengzaizuoqingganwanhuideneijinianzhong,pengdaozuiduodeshihunwailian,henduojiemeibeinanrenbeipan,zaoyudaolewaiyuquebuzhidaoyinggaizenmeban?
danshihenduoshihou,chulihunwailianbingbushihennan,ruguonibaliyubiyunanrenfenxizhihou,taxuanzelelangzihuitoudejilvshixiangdangdade,zhenzhenzhengzhengnanjiunanzaihuiguihoudeganqingxiufu。

waiyuzheijianshiqingjinvrenzaochengdeshanghaishiwuketidaide,yincilaogongchuguihuiguizhihou,xuduolaopoxinliyeyouyidaomaibuguoqudekan,texiangzaiciyutaguorizi,danshitadeyiyanyixingyizhirangrenjuede。
jiaruxinliyizhiwangbudiao,neitongkujiubukeyicongxinkaishi,waiyuzheijianshiqingjiuhuichengweizharutamenzhijiandeyigenci,jiguobuhao,yelibukai。suoyinanrenhuiguizhihou,xiufuguanxizhiguanzhongyao,neijutiyaozenmezuoni?
1、dongdeziwofansi,xunzhaocunzaidewenti
jirantachuguile,neimeshuomingnimenzhijiandeganqingchulewenti,yincixiufudiyibujiushiyaobalianggerenzhijiancunzaidewentixunzhao。
laogongchugui,kanshangququanbuzijidecuodoutashenshang,zheiduanganqingchuxianwentidezhuyaozerenzai,danshuoshihua,hunyinshenghuochuxianwentile,neiniyeyidingyaofuyibufenzhizede。
ziran,mengmengdazheimeshuojuebushibananrenchuguidenantijiutuidaonishenshangle,fanershiwoxiangrangnizhidao,zaizheiduanganqingzhong,niyouzuochulaidebuzudedifang,nizhinengkanjianzijidenanti,cainengzhenzhengdequchulishiqing。
2、jiejueshouhaizhesiwei,qianwanbiequtiguoqu
dangwaiyunanrenhuiguijiatingyihou,henduojiemeizaiyunanshengchaojiashi,wangwangxihuanchennianjiushi,jiangtawaiyudeshierfanchu,kanshangqushizaishuochuzijidebiequ,zheshirangzishenshuangkuaileyiba,keshishishangzheiyeshixiubulushangdeyijihui。
mengmengdazhidaotebieweiqu,keshinidezuofahenrongyishitadeneijiuxiaotui,shenzhihaikenengdaozhitadefasansiwei,jiangwentiquantuidaonishenshang:“shiyinweinineiyang,wocaihuiwaiyu,sheihuiyuanyimeitianyingduizheiyangde?”

yincitiguoquzheijianshishiyizhonghenbuhaodexianxiang,yebuliyufuqiguanxidexiufu。ruguonizongshiqutidaotawaiyudeshier,bingyongzheijianshiqingtuxiannishouhaizhezhenshishenfen,buduandiquzeguaita,jibianzheiyouhaohaohenixiubudetaidu,yehuibeinijifanifanxinli,suoxingpoguanposhuai,kenenghuidaozhitazaicichugui。
3、创建有效沟通
nanshenghunhouchugui,zaochenghunyinshenghuochuxianfengxi,zheiwangwangshibicizhijiandecuxindayi。womingbainifeichangtongku,buguojirannixuanzeyuanliang,zaicizheiduanganqing,neimejiubunengrangzijiyizhichenjinyukunanzhong,womenyaonulixiubudajiahunyinlidefengxi,jinzaobazheidaokanmaiguoqu。
goutongjiaoliujiushiyigehenhaodeyigefangfa。youxiaogoutongkeyibangzhudajiachuliyiqianhunyinlicunzaideyixiewuhui,hainenggoujiaqiangxianghuzhijiandelianluo,youyiyuaiqingdexiubu。
birushuo,dajiayouyutachuguizhengzhiyihou,ruguoxianghuzhijianbingmeiyouyouxiaogoutong,neiwentiyeyizhicunzai,naizhiyuelaiyuejilie。
danruoshidajiayoushangliangle,nijiangzijineixintihuigentashuole,yezhanzaitadejiaoduqukaolvnanti,neimetashifouyehuichangshizhezhanzainiguandian,lailijienideqingxu,neimenimenzhijiandegeheyixiazijiujianqinglexuduo。
4、重建信任
zenmewanhuiwuganqingdehunyinwomendoushuo,nvshihenaijiaozhen,shijishangzheishiyinweinvshitebiemingan,guanchalihejiyinenglidouhaibucuo。yincichangchanghuirangnanrenchuguideshiernanyishihuai,meimeikandaoyouguandechangjingshi,neitongkudejiyidounengbeihuanqi,yincibuduandiquceshi、tichuwenti,laiquerenzijizaiduifangxinlizhongliang。

laogongchuguiyihoujinguantiaoxuanhuiguijiazhong,danlaopoduinanrenbuxinrenduifang,changchanghuihuaiyizheicaiyineibiande,zaochengnanrenjiuguodefeichangtongchu。yinerzhongjianxinrenzheiyibushifeichangzhongyaode,neijutiyaozenmezuoni?
ninengyunanrenyuefasanzhang,weitazhidingyixieguizhang,birushuoxiabanleyaozaodianhuilai,youjishiwanyidianhuijialebuyaowangleshangbao。
yucitongshi,yexuyaozhidingyixiechufa,yidanfaxiantazaicichugui,jiurangtamenlihunjingshenchuhushenmede。youzheixieguanshu,dangtazaidumianduiyouhuoshi,zijiyehuizaixinzhongdianliangyixia。
aiqingxuyaoyunying,zhikaoyigerendenulishibuzuyixiubuliangrenguanxide,yincizaiqizhonggengweiguanjiandeshiniyaorangtamencanyujinlai,yiqiquxiufuhunyin。
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