doushuoyixingxiangxi,danweihehuichuxiantongxingxiangxini?
yi、weishenmetongxingyehuixianghuxiyin?
1、“and”tixiangdezuoyong
suhua“nannvdapeiganhuobulei”,xianzaiyouhenduotongxinglianjiaoyou,nantongxinglian,nvtongxingliandouchengweilepubian。neimeweishenmenanxingtongxinglianhuixiyinnanxingtongxinglianni?“yixingxiangxi”zaidaziranzhongxianeryijian,danruidiankexuejiajinrideyixiangyanjiu,jiekaile“tongxingxiangxi”demidi。yezhidaoleweishenmeyouneimeduotongxinglianbadecunzai。kexuejiafaxian,rendetiweizhongcunzailiangzhongmingwei“and”he“est”deheermeng,zhengshitamenhuanqilerenleiduiqingyudekewang,zheixiangfaxianhaijieshiledanaofanyingshinantongxingliandeguanjianyaosu。renleikeyi“wen”chuheshixingbanlv,nantongxinglianduicigengjiamingan。meigerendouyouzijidutedeshengliqiwei———tixiang,danzheizhongqiweitongchangbuyibeizijiwendao,zhiyoubierencainengshenqieganshou,tebieshiyixing。jushuo,napoluncongzhanchangshanghuijiazhiqian,jiuxiexinjiqiziyuesefen,yaoqiutazaiqihuilaizhiqianbuyaoxizao,yuanyinzaiyunapoluntebiexihuanyuesefenweixizaoqiansanfayouxiangdedongti。meiguoyougejiaojiweierdenanzi,qimaobuyang,qiguaideshi,youbushaonvxinghenyuanyihetaqinjin,juyiweiyutajiaoqinghenshendenvzishuo,yutaqinreshixiangwendaotashenshangsanfachudexiangmitangbandexiangwei,zheizhongqiweilingrenxinkuangshenyi。
1.1、hewei“and”
weiheandyourucixiyinli,nandaozhendecunzaimouzhongshenqiwuzhinengrangrenchanshengmeilimajinri,zaizuixinchubande《guojiakexueyuanxuebao》shang,laiziruidiankaluolinsikadaxueyiyuandeyanjiuxiaozu,zaisidegeermodeyanjiushizhongtilianchuliangzhonggaotongyanshengwu,ji“andheest”。yanjiuxiaozufuzerensaweikezhichu,rendetiweizhizhongqueshicunzaixiyinairendewuzhi,tahuizhijieyinqirenleidanaodefanying,chanshengxingchongdong。andshigaowanjisudebianzhong,tacongnanxinghanyezhongpaichu;estzeyucijisuyouguan,zhuyaocunzaiyunvxingniaoyezhong。yanjiuhaifaxian,cunzaiyunanxinghanshuizhongdehuaxuewuzhiand,duinantongxinglianhenvyixinglianzhedouhuichanshengxiangtongdeciji,danduiyixingliannanziquebuqirenhezuoyong。zhuanjiarenwei,“zheixiangfaxianjieshiledanaofanyingshinantongxingliandeguanjianyaosu”。xuanzepeioushi,renmenyikaoyuxingbiexiangguandeqiweifenzilaijihuonaobuqingyuquyu。zaididengdongwuzhong,liangxingxinghuodongyuxingxuanzedexinxizhuyaoyikaoqiweilaichuandi,xuduoburudongwuzaifaqingqizhongdouhuisanfamouzhongteshuqiwei,yixiyinyixingtonglei。zaixuanzepeioushi,daduoshudongwuyikaoyuxingbiexiangguandeqiweifenzilaijihuonaobufuzejiaopeidequyu,zheileifenzibeichengweiwaijisu。suoyicunzaizheimeduotongxinglianjiaoyouyeshizhengchangde。nanxingtongxinglianpubiancunzaiyebushimeiyouliyoude。
2、heermengyekenengshixianghuxiyindeguanjian
zailaoshudongwushangdezuoyongyijingbeikexuejierenke。yanjiufaxian,heermengxunhaohuitouguodongwubiqiangzhongyigejiao“libiqi”dejiegoudidadanaoxiashiqiuquyu,congerxiyinyixinggeti,yingxiangdongwudejiaopeixingwei。buguorentizhongdeheermengzuoyongxianglaishishengwulingyudezhengyihuati,bushaokexuejiaduitazairenleihuodongzhongshifoubanyanxiangtongjiaosechihuaiyitaidu。rentisuiranyeyouheermengjieshouqi,weiyuxiaqiunaoqianduan,juyouhuanqixingyishidegongneng,danmeiyoushenjinglianjiedaodanao,shengwuxuejiayinerzhiyirenleiduiheermengjiujinghuibuhuiqifanying。saweikedengrenzaoqianjinxingdeyixiangyanjiufaxian,heermengduiyixingdenaobo、xueya、maibo、huxidengshenglixianxiangkechanshengqimiaodexiaoguo,congerchanshengxingxiyin。nvxingwendaoandhuonanxingwendaoestshi,danaozhongkongzhixingxingweidexiashiqiuquyujiuhuihuoyueqilai。yejiushishuo,heermengqueshinengtongguodanaofanyingyingxiangrentideheermengfenmi。erandheestzainannvtineizebanyanzheshuangzhongjiaose:yifangmianyongqiweixiyinyixing,yifangmianyouduiyixingchansheng“xingqu”。yanjiurenyuancheng,heermengnengbeirentizhongdelibiqijuechadao,buguozheizhongxinxiyaoxianjingfuzatujingzhuanhuanchengqingganxinhaohoucainengchuandidaoshenjingxitong,shizhongshushenjingxitongqinggandiaokongquyudexueliuliangzengjia,fangdianzengduo,congerdiaojierentizishendeqingganxingwei。renmenyinerhuiduiyixingchanshengmilianbandehaogan,chenzuiyuairenshuxidetiweizhong。tongxinglianbayinggaihuicunzaidaliangzheiyangdeqiwei。
3、nantongxinglianhanweijiandexiyin
nantongxinglianhuiyinhanweierxianghuxiyin。dui“yixingxiangxi”deyuanyinjinxingjieshihou,zuixindeyanjiujinyibutuozhandaotongxingfangmian。zheiyici,saweikedengrenqinglaile12mingnvxing,12mingyixingliannanxing,yiji12mingtongxingliannanxing,duizhei3zuduixiangjinxingguanchashiyan。yanjiurenyuanfenbierangtamenwenweiliangdeand、estfenzi,yijiqitaqiwei,baokuoxunyicaoyou、xuesongyou、dingzixiangfenhedingchun。ranhouyongpet(zhengdianzifasheduancengchengxiang)jishuguanchatamendenaobuhuodong。yanjiujieguoxianshi,dangmeiyizhongwubiaoshiqiweichengxianshi,yanjiuduixiangdounengqingchudifenbianchulai,duici,saweikebingburenweizheixieyanjiuduixiangdanaozhongdefanyingcunzairenheyouyishixing:“cijichanshengdemoshibingbuyiweizherenzhixingchuli。”xingnengjiandingceshihecigongzhensaomiaoxianshi,putongqiweicijideshisuoyouceshiduixiangdanaozhongfuzexiujuedebufen,erandcijideshinvxinghenantongxingliancanyuzhedanaozhongfuzexingxingweidebufen,estduinanyixinglianyetongyangruci。saweikejinyibuzhichu,shejishencengdexingxiyinlishi,renleidebizihuizuochupanduan。yidanwendaoand,tongxingliannanrenheyixingliannvrennaobuxingyishiquyudexueliuhuizengjia,erduiyixingliannanrenquemeiyouxiaoguo。xiangfan,esthuishiyixingliannanrennaobuxiangyingquyuhuodongjiaju,erduitongxingliannanrenheyixingliannvrenwuxiao。“heyixingliannanzizuxingchengduibideshi,tongxingliannanxingyuyixingliannvxingtongyangdouduiandqifanying,xiashiqiudouchengxianhuodongdexianxiang。”saweikexiaozuxiedao。qizhongyouyixiashiqiuhoubudehuodongzuiqianglie,erzheibufenzaidongwuzhongqiahaoshi“hexingxingweizuiyouguanxi”dequyu。zhiyuxunyicaodengputongxiangwei,3zushiyanzhedefanyingmeiyoubutong。yanjiubaogaozhichu,“zheixiefaxianxianshi,xiangjiaoyuyibandeqiwei,womendedanaoduiyuzheiliangzhongyibanrendingdeheermengfanyingbutong,zheiyexianshichuxingquxianghexiashiqiushenjingyuanzhijiancunzaiguanlian。”buguotongxingliannvxingdefanyingbingmeiyouchuxianzaiyanjiubaogaozhong,duicisaweikebiaoshi,tongxingliannvxingdeyanjiushuju“feichangfuza”,muqianhaixujinshenchuli。
4、nantonggengxihuannantongdeweidao、
tongxinglianjiaoyouzhong,yixingliannannvdougengxihuannvtongxingliandeqiwei。meiguofeicheng“moneihuaxueganguanzhongxin”dechaersi·weisuocijiboshizaizheigefaxiandejichushangjinyibucaixiang:jiranqiweikeyicujinyixingxiangxi,neimerentitianrandeqiweishibushiyehuijuedingrenmendexingquxiang。lezhengminggaixiangfa,chaersi·weisuocijiboshizuzhile24mingnannvyixingliancanjialeyixiangweiqi9tiandeshiyan。zaizhei9tiandangzhong,meiyigerendouyaoyongwuweixiangzaohexiangbojinxingquanmianchongxi,tongshibimianshiyongdasuan、ziranhekalizheileiqiweinongzhongdeshipin。jingguo9tianxiaoduzhihou,meirenzaiyexiajiayikuaixiaodumianqiu。jiayitianzhihou,zheixiemianqiubeifangzaipingzhongchucun,lingwaizhaolai82mingnannvtongxinglianheyixinglianzuchengyigeqiweijianbiexiaozu,xiaozuchengyuanjianggenjuyidingdebiaozhuncongtiweipingzhongxuanzezijirenweizuiyouxiyinlideqiwei。yixingliannannvdadouweiyixingliannanxingdeqiweisuoxiyin。tongxinglianzheduoweitongxingliandetiweixiyin,dangbanantongxinglianyunvtongxingliandeqiweifangzaiyiqibijiaoshi,yixingliannannvgengxihuannvtongxingliandeqiwei,xiangfannantongxinglianzegengxihuannantongxingliandeqiwei。weisuocijiboshishuo,zheigefaxianzhengming,nantongxingliangengxihuannantongxingliandetiwei,ernvtongxinglianheyixingliannvxingduitiweidefanyinggebuxiangtong。yejiushishuo,renmenduiqiweidexihaohezengebujinyuqiweidelaiyuanyouguan,erqieyeyugerendexingqingxiangyouguan。
yixiekexuejiarenwei,saweikedengrendeyanjiufenbiezairentiheermengherenleixingtezhenglianggelingyuqudelezhongdatupo。xindeyanjiubiaoming,tongxingliandenanrenheyixingliandenvrenduinanxingqiweifenzidefanyingshixiangtongde,taxianshilexingqingxiangbianmazaidanaozhongdeyizhongkenengfangshi,kenengyiweizherenleixinghuodongdexuduotezhengdouyuanzixiujue。danyeyoukexuejiatichu,duicijieguoshangxujinshenduidai,yinweitongxingliannanrenduixiongxingwaijisumingandeyuanyin,kenengbingbushibizitianshengduixiongxingwaijisuyoufanying,ershiyunanrenbaochixingguanxisuodaozhidehoutianjieguo。
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