doushuotongxingxiangchi,danweishenmehuichuxiantongxingxiangxini?
yi、weihenantongyehuihuxiangxiyinzhu?
1、“and”tixiangdegongxiao
laohua“nannvdapeiganhuobulei”,rujinyouxuduotongxinglianjiaoyou,nantongxinglian,nvtongxingliandoubianchengleguangfan。neimaweihenanxingtongxinglianhuixiyinzhunanxingtongxinglianni?“tongxingxiangchi”zaiziranjiezhongbuyaneryu,dandeguoshengwuxuejiaqianbujiudezheixiangkexueyanjiu,jiekaile“tongxingxiangxi”demidi。yezhidaoweiheyouneimaduotongxinglianbadecunyou。shengwuxuejiafajue,rendeganshouzhongcunyouerzhongmingjiao“and”he“est”dexiongxingheermeng,gengshitamengouqilerenmenduideqipan,cixiangfajuehaibiaominglerendedanaofanyingshinantongxingliandezhongyaoyinsu。renmennenggou“wen”chushihexinghuoban,nantongxinglianduiyugengweibijiaomingan。meigerendouyouzishenyuzhongbutongdeshenglixueweidao———tixiang,danzheileiweidaoyibanburongyibeizishenxiudao,zhinengtarennenggouzhenqietihui,feichangshiyixingpengyou。tingshuo,napoluncongjingjichangshanghuijialeyiqian,jiuxiexinjilaopoyuesefen,guidingtazaiqihuijiayiqianbubixianzao,yuanguqujueyunapolunfeichangxiaiyuesefenweixianzaoqianshifanghuaxiangdeyuti。yingguoyouyigejiaojiweierdexiaohuo,xiangmaopingping,lingrenfeijiedeshi,youxuduonvshihenxiangyaohetaqinmijiechu,juyimingyutajiaoqinghenshendenvrenshuo,yutapapashixiangxiudaotashoushangshifangchudexiangmitangyiyangdexiangqi,zheileiweidaorangrenshenqingqishuang。
1.1、shenmeshi“and”
weishenmeandyouzheibanyouhuoli,nandaoshuoqueshicunyoumouleiqimiaohuaxuewuzhinenglingrenzaochengfengcaimaqianbujiu,zaizuixinxiaoxichubanfaxingde《guojiagongchengyuanxuebao》shang,laiyuanyudeguokaluolinsikagaoxiaoyiyuanmenzhendekexueyanjiugongzuozu,zaisidegeermodediaoyanshizhongtilianerzhonggaotonghuahewu,ji“andheest”。kexueyanjiugongzuozuzerenrensaweikeqiangdiao,rendeganshoudangzhongdequecunyouxiyinzhulianrendehuaxuewuzhi,tahuilijizaochengrenmenrendedanaodefanying,zaochengxingxingfen。andshigaowanjisudebianyi,tacongnanshihanshuizhongpaichulai;estzeyucixingjisuxiangguan,guanjiancunyouyunvshiniaolizhong。kexueyanjiuhaifajue,cunyouyunanshihanyezhongdehuahewuand,duinantongxinglianhenvyixinglianzhedoushizaochengtongyangdecijixing,danduiyixinglianxiaohuoquebuleyiqiegongxiao。zhuanjiazhichu,“cixiangfajuebiaominglerendedanaofanyingshinantongxingliandezhongyaoyinsu”。tiaoxuanzhixiqinshushi,dajiajiezhuyuxingbieyouguandeweidaofenzijiegoulaijihuatoubudiqu。zaididengdongwuzhong,liangxingxingzhutihuodongyuxingtiaoxuandexinxineirongzhuyaoyikaoweidaolaichuansong,henduoburudongwuzaifaqingqizhongdoushishifangmouleiteshuqiwei,yixiyinnvshengleisi。zaitiaoxuanzhixiqinshushi,dabufenxiaodongwujiezhuyuxingbieyouguandeweidaofenzijiegoulaijihuatoubuchengdanpeizhongdediqu,zheizhongfenzijiegoubeichengzuowaijisu。yincicunyouneimeduotongxinglianjiaoyoudoushiyiqiezhengchangde。nanxingtongxinglianpubianxianxiangyebingbushimeiliyoude。
2、xiongxingheermengyejianghuishihuxiangxiyinzhudezhongyao
zaihaozixiaodongwushangdegongxiaozaoyibeikejijierentong。kexueyanjiufajue,xiongxingheermengxinhaohuichuantouxiaodongwubikongzhong1gejiao“libiqi”degouzaodaodarendedanaoxiashiqiudiqu,jinerxiyinnvshenggeren,weihaidongwudejiaopeigerenxingwei。danshishentizhongdexiongxingheermenggongxiaosulaishiweishengwuxingyedeyiyihuatitaolun,xuduoshengwuxuejiaduitazairenmenzhutihuodongzhongshibushishiyantongyangrenwujiaosechicaiyixintai。shentijinguanyeshixiongxingheermengjieshouqi,zuoluoyuxiaqiunaochuitiqianduankaifa,jubeigouqixingyishidezuoyong,danmeiyoushenjingxitonglianjiedaorendedanao,kexuejiayincitichuzhiyirenmenduixiongxingheermengdaodihuifouqifanying。saweikedengzaoqikaizhandezheixiangkexueyanjiufajue,xiongxingheermengduiyixingpengyoudenaodianbo、xinlv、mailv、xiqidengshenglixuezhuangkuangkezaochengqitedeshijixiaoguo,jinerzaochengxingxiyinzhu。nvshixiudaoandhuonanshixiudaoestshi,rendedanaozhongcaozongxingshenghuodexiashiqiudiqujiuhuihuoyuexingqilai。huanjuhuashuo,xiongxingheermengdequenenggenjurendedanaofanyingweihaishentidexiongxingheermeng。erandheestzainanrennvrenshentizeshiyanshuangxiangrenwujiaose:bujinyongweidaoxiyinnvsheng,bujinyouduiyixingpengyouzaocheng“xingyu”。kexueyanjiugongzuorenyuancheng,xiongxingheermengnengbeishentizhongdelibiqijuechadao,danshizheileixinxineirongyaoxianjingguofanzafangshizhuanhuachengganqingshujuxinhaohounenggouchuansongdaozhongshushenjingxitong,shizhongshuxitongganqingguankongdiqudexuerongliangtisheng,chongfangdianzengjia,jinerdiaozhengshentibenshendeganqinggerenxingwei。dajiayincihuiduiyixingpengyouzaochengchimiyiyangdehaogandu,chenzuizailianrenlejiedeganshouzhong。tongxinglianbayingdanghuicunyouhenduoneiyangdeweidao。
3、nantongxinglianhanchouweijiandexiyinzhu
nantongxinglianhuiyinweihanchouweierhuxiangxiyinzhu。dui“tongxingxiangchi”deyuangukaizhanbiaoshuhou,zuixinxiaoxidekexueyanjiushenhuakuozhandaonantongcengmian。zheici,saweikedengzhaolaile12mingnvshi,12mingyixingliannanshi,jiqi12mingshuangxingliannanshi,duizhei3zulingyibankaizhanguanchashiyan。kexueyanjiugongzuorenyuangezirangtamenwenweiliangfenxideand、estfenzijiegou,jiqibiedeweidao,baohanxunyicaoyou、xuesongyou、dingzixiangfenhedingchun。suihouyongpet(zhengdianzifashedianduankuaixianxiang)jishuxingguanchatamendetoubuzhutihuodong。kexueyanjiushujuxianshi,dangmeizheizhongwubiaozhiweidaozhanxianshi,kexueyanjiulingyibandounengqingxidibianbiechuqu,duiyu,saweikebingburenweizheizhongkexueyanjiulingyibanrendedanaozhongdefanyingcunyouyiqieqingxingxing:“cijixingzaochengdefangshibingbuyiweizherenzhinenglixingjiejue。”texingpingdingjiancehehecigongzhensaomiaoyixianshixinxi,yibanweidaocijixingdeshiquanbujiancelingyibanrendedanaozhongchengdanweijuedeyibufen,erandcijixingdeshinvshihenantongxingliancanjiazherendedanaozhongchengdanxingshenghuodeyibufen,estduinanyixinglianyeyiyangzheiban。saweikeshenhuaqiangdiao,shejidaoshencengcidexingyouhuolishi,renmendebitouhuizuochufenbian。ruguoxiudaoand,shuangxingliannanrenheyixingliannvxingtoubuxingyishidiqudexueyehuitisheng,erduiyixingliannanshengquemeiyoushijixiaoguo。fanguolai,esthuishiyixingliannanshengtoubuxiangduiqujiaoyouxijiazhong,erduishuangxingliannanrenheyixingliannvxingshixiao。“heyixingliannanzizuchanshengbizhaodeshi,shuangxingliannanshiyuyixingliannvshiyiyangdouduiandqifanying,xiashiqiudouzhanxianzhutihuodongdezhuangkuang。”saweikegongzuozuxiedao。zaiqizhongyouxialieshiqiuhoucedezhutihuodongzuimingxian,erzheixiezaixiaodongwuzhongzhenghaoshi“hexingshenghuozuiyouguanlian”dediqu。duiyuxunyicaodengyibanxiangqi,3zushiyanzhedefanyingmeiyoubuyiyang。diaochabaogaoqiangdiao,“zheizhongfajuexianshixinxi,xiangbitongchangdeweidao,renmenderendedanaozhenduizheierzhongtongchangpingdingdexiongxingheermengfanyingbuyiyang,zheiyexianshixinxichuxingquxianghexiashiqiushenjingxibaozhongjiancunyouguanxi。”danshishuangxingliannvshidefanyingbingmeiyouchuxianzaidiaochabaogaozhong,duiyusaweikebiaoda,shuangxingliannvshidekexueyanjiutongjishuju“bijiaofuza”,xianjieduanhaishenzhongjiejue。
4、nantonggengxiainantongdeweier、
tongxinglianjiaoyouzhong,yixingliannanrennvrendougengxiainvtongxingliandeweidao。meiguofeicheng“moneiyoujihuaxueganguanguanlizhongxin”dechaersi·weisuocijiboshiyanjiushengzaizheiyifajuedejibenshangshenhuacaice:jiranweidaonenggoutuidongtongxingxiangchi,neimashentichuntianrandeweidaoshifouyehuijuecedajiadexingquxiang。lezhengshigainiantou,chaersi·weisuocijiboshiyanjiushengjigoule24mingnanrennvrenyixinglianbaomingcanjialezheixianglishi9tiandeshiyan。zaizheili9tianzhizhong,meizijibixuyongwuqiweifeizaohexiangbokaizhanquanfangweiqingxi,lingwaifangzhifuyongsuantou、ziranfenhekalijiangzheizhongweidaononghoudeshipinlei。lijing9tianxiaodushajunyihou,meiweizaiyewoxiajiayikuaierxiaodushajunyaomian。jiameitianyihou,zheizhongyaomianbeifangdaopingzhongcunchu,lingyigejiaolai82mingnanrennvrenshuangxinglianheyixingliangoucheng1geweidaobianbiegongzuozu,gongzuozuzuyuanjiangyijubixudeguifancongganshoupingzhongtiaoxuanzishenjuedezuiyouyouhuolideweidao。yixingliannanrennvrendaduoshuweiyixingliannanshideweidaosuoxiyinzhu。tongxinglianzheduojianshuangxingliandeganshouxiyinzhu,dangbanantongxinglianyunvtongxingliandeweidaofangdaoyikuaierjiaoweishi,yixingliannanrennvrengengxiainvtongxingliandeweidao,fanguolainantongxinglianzegengxiainantongxingliandeweidao。weisuocijiboshiyanjiushengshuo,zheiyifajuezhengshi,nantongxingliangengxiainantongxingliandeganshou,ernvtongxinglianheyixingliannvshiduiganshoudefanyingbujinxiangtong。huanjuhuashuo,dajiaduiweidaodeaihaohezenghenbudanyuweidaodelaiyuanyuxiangguan,bingqieyeyubenrendexingquxiangxiangguan。
mouxieshengwuxuejiajuede,saweikedengdekexueyanjiugezizaishentixiongxingheermengherenmenxingtedian2gexingyehuodelezhongdajinzhan。xindekexueyanjiushuoming,shuangxingliandenanrenheyixingliandenvxingduinanshiweidaofenzijiegoudefanyingshitongyangde,taxianshixinxilexingquxiangbianhaozairendedanaozhongdezheizhongjianghuifangfa,jianghuidaibiaorenmenxingzhutihuodongdehenduotediandouyuanyuweijue。danyeshishengwuxuejiamingquetichu,duiyujieguoshangshenzhongkandai,youyushuangxingliannanshengduixiongxingwaijisubijiaomingandeyuangu,jianghuibingfeibitouxiantianxingduixiongxingwaijisuyoufanying,zhishiyunanshengweichixingxingweisuozaochengdehoutianxingjieguo。
情感问题免费分析
获导师一对一咨询
移动端官网
扫一扫
解锁更多情感秘籍
现在预约
shoucizixun,mianfeilingqu1ciqingganfenxi
*chengnuoziliaojinyongyuqingganfenxi,yangebaomi
© 2016 huazhen,inc. all rights reserved. huazhenyonghuxieyi
粤公网安备 44010402002416号
zixunrexian: 020-32519581 guangzhouquegeshuzijiankangguanliyouxiangongsi