来谈谈恋爱的技巧

 rijuqinghefeichaidewotanlianaizhong，chaitianshuoguoyijuhua：“mingmingrucipinmingnulihuozhe，queyouzhongzhengzaiduoluodeganjue，huozhezheijianshizhendehaochili。”keshishijieshanghaiyouhaoduoyouqudeshiqingdengzhewomenqufaxianaijiuyaodashengshuochulai，xiamianjianghuifenxiangtanlianaidejiqiaolaiyiqikankanba！

 qingyufeichaidewotanlianailirangwoyinxiangliwuchudedaolijiushicongxindihaipazijibuzhidebeiai，womendulaiduwang。ranerjiushiyinweidulaiduwangcairangwomenyiweizijibuzhidebeiai。youyitiannibuzhidaoshishenmeshihounihuiqucheshanglu。youyitiannibuzhidaoshishenmeshihou，nihuiqucheshanglu。youyitiannibuzhidaoshishenmeshihounihuiyudaota。nihuibeiaiyinweinijinshengdiyicizhenzhengbuzaigudan。nihuixuanzebuhuigudanxiaqu。xiamiandetanlianaidejiqiaoxiwangkeyibangdaonimen：

一、学会适度撒娇

 tanlianaidejiqiao：renmenchangshuosajiaonvhaierming，danqiantishicongmingbingqieshiqukeyirenxingsajiao，yidingyaodongdeshidu。ruguosajiaoguotou，naniebuhaodu，yimeidixiangshounanshengdechongai，shijianjiulenanshenghuibiandehenlei，ganqingyehuibengkui。

 qinghefeichaidewotanlianailimianqiaruqifendebawohaoneigedu，jinengdedaoduifangtiliang，yenengshidangdebiaodazijidefennu。wenroubingqiexuehuisajiao，zheiyidianhaishihenyoubiyaode。

二、同样秒回消息显示尊重。

 aiyaodashengshuochulairuguoyigenanhaizizongshihuimiaohuinidexiaoxi，shishikekeguanxinnideshenghuo，jingchangdouhuizhudongzhaoniliaotian，jiusuanshiyouyidameiyidadepeizhenishuohua，neitadexinliyidingshiyounide。

 tanlianaidejiqiao：nizuoweinvshengtongyangyeyinggaidiyishijianhuifuxiaoxi，jinguantazaiaini，dagaiyebuyuanyidangbeitai，sheiyebuxiwangzijibeisuijiaosuidaoerbubeizaihu。

 yinweimeiyousheihuiyinweixiandehenwuliaozongshizhaobierenliaotian，yaozhidaozaizheigeaiqingsuichukejiandeniandai，nengzuodaozhudongjianchizhaoyigerenshuohua，shiyijiantebieburongyideshiqing。

三、给对方神秘感

 tanlianaidejiqiao：zaixihuanderenmianqianbaoliuzuiwanmeideyangzishiyijianbixuquweichideshiqing，jiuxiangshitanlianaiyongyuanbuyaotaikuai，ganqingherenshiyiyangde，yongyuanyaobaoliushenmigan。

 buyaoyikaishijiubasuoyoupudaoduifangshenshang，yizhiyuzaihoulaidexiangchuguochengzhonghaoganmanmanxiajiang，shuangfanghuxiangmaiyuanbici：“nizenmebianle”。

 ganqingherenshiyiyangdeyuepinyueyouweidao。kenengtaxihuanshangnishiyinweinidewaimao，keshitashebudelikainiqueshiyinweinidexingge，nideweirenchushi。

四、爱自己，他才更爱你

 youyijuhuashuo，wokeyiainidaobaifenzhijiushijiu，zuihouyifendezunyanwoyaoliujiziji。suoyiyaoxuehuihaohaoaizijizhaoguhaozijibuyaorangzijisuisuibianbianbeiliqisuoshang。

 buguanzenyangniyaoquaiyigeren，shouxianyaoxuehuiaizijinapashizaizhuiqiuyigeren，napaneigerenbuxihuanni，yeyidingbuyaobazijibaizaibiduifangdideweizhi，yebuyaozaibuduidengdeguanxizhongxunzhaoniuqudeai。

五、经济独立

 xuduonanshengzailianailidouhuishuo：“woyangnia”，danyouyoutaiduodenanshengrongyishiyan。suoyirenmendouhuidaqushuo：“neixietingxinlenanrendewoyangniadenvren，zuihoudouesile”。

 suoyinvhaizimenzaitanlianaihaishijiehundouyaobaochizijidejingjiduli，zheizhongjingjidulibingbushilaiziyuduiduifangdebuxinrenershiniduizishenrengedeyizhongziwozunzhong。

 jingjidulibushiweileshuo，lianggerennenggouzaifenshouzhengchaodeshihounenggouyoudiqi，ershiweilezaixuanzebanlvdeshihou,bubeiyixiedongxisuomihuo,yeweilezaixuanzedeshihou，buyongguofenqujijiaojinqianeryingxiangganqing。

六、热恋期也有自己的社交圈

 daduoshurenyoulenanpengyouzhihou，pengyoushaolexingqushaoleaihaomeile，yiqiedouyitaweizhongxin，shiquleziwokeshiruguonatianliantayeshiqule，neinijiushenmedoumeile。

 lianaishishenghuozhongdeshechipinbushibixupin，chulelianaizhiwaiwomenhaiyinggaiyouzijideshenghuo，henduoguanxinnidepengyou，qinrenyijizijidexingquaihao。

 dangnikaishiyoulezijideshenghuohemubiao，buzaihuiyinweitadeyijuhuayingxiangyizhengtiandexinqinghegongzuo，buzaihuibashoujixingyingbulililetajiubunenghuo，yehuimingbaiaiqinghenzhongyao，danshishenghuobuzhiyouaiqing。

七、换位思考，理解对方

 nikewanglangmanyushijitahenduodeanshigaosutayinggairuhequyueni，nikewangbeibaorong，yushizongshifadadaxiaoxiaodepiqixiwangtalaihongnikaixin。

keshiniyezhidaonidesuoyouqiwangnengfoubeidadao，beibaorongwanquanqujueyutaganyuanbeiniqifu。

 suoyi，woxiwangninenggoushaozhemotayixie，bijingtadongdenideshaonvxintanenggouhongnikaixin，yijingjibaiquanguo95%denanshengle，hetashuoyishengxiexieba。xiexietadepeibanxiexietadelijiebaorong。

 aiyaodashengshuochulai，qishirenrendoushuoxiangaihenrongyixiangchuquehennan，qishishuozaiduodedaoliyebuguoshizhishangtanbing，zhenzhengdexiangchuzhidaozhiyoushenzaiqizhongdelianggerencainengdongde。

buguanzenmeyangdouyidingyaojizhuyidian，haohaozhenxiniaideneigeren，shijianjiulebuyaorangganqingbiandeshengshu。