教教大家怎样讨人喜欢

 woxiang，meigerendouyuanyichengweidajiaqinjindeduixiang，douxiang taorenxihuan ，douyuanyiwulunzaishenmechanghedounenghedajiadachengyipian。neimezaishenghuozhong，womenzenyangcainengtaorenxihuanni？younaxieshixuyaowomenzhuyideni？

一、怎样讨人喜欢

1、不要以自我为中心。

 xianzaidenianqingrendaduoshijialidedumiao，jialiyouliugerenchongzhenirangzheni，rangniganjuezijijiushixiaohuangdi、xiaogongzhu。danshiyidanjinruxuexiao、shehui，qianwanyaobazheizhongxiangfawangji。meigerendoushipingdengde，bingbucunzaisheijiugaorenyideng，sheijiugairangzheshei。yaocongsixiangshangbazijifangdi。jizhu，nibingbushitaiyang。

2、学会倾听。

 buyaozongyiweizijidongdezuiduo、jianshimianzuiguang。xuzhi“tianwaiyoutian、renwaiyouren”。meiyourenhuixihuanyitiandaowanqiangzhefabiaozijideyanlun、culudaduanbierenshuohuaderen，neiyangshimeiyouxiuyangdebiaoxian。guanzhuzijidezuiba，zhiyaogongxiannideerduo，renzhenqingtingbierendeshuohua，nihuifaxian，yuanyihenitanxinderenbianduole。

3、多对别人微笑。

 duiyingmianzoulaidetongxue、tongshibaoyiwenhaodeweixiao；yourenbuxiaoxindafanlenideshuibei，mianduitadebuzhisuocuo，jitayige“meiguanxi，buyaojin”deweixiao；yourenzaibeihouzhongshangni，nizaijiandaotadeshihou，buyaohengmeilengdui，zhiyaoyigetandangdeweixiao，gaosuta“qingzheziqing”jiuzugoule。weixiao，youshihoushengguoqianyanwanyu。

4、不要在背后说坏话。

 suishuo“sheirenbeihouwurenshuo”，danwomenyebuneng“sheirenbeihoubushuoren”。shijieshangyongyuanmeiyoubutoufengdeqiang，bierenzonghuizhidaode，daoneishiliangrenxiangjian，gaiyouduoshaoqifen、gangajiujieqizhong。jishizheirencengjingzaibeihoudihuiguoni，niyezhidangshiyifushangluoxialeyilihuichen，danzoutayifuziranjiuganjingle。bukeyazibibao，neiyangdehua，niyuxiaorenyouyouheyi？dabule，kanbuguanderen，hetabaochijulijiuxingle。

5、不要八卦别人的隐私。

 bulunshichuanbozheyehao，haoqidatingzheyehao，taolunbierendeyinsishiyizhongfeichangbudaodedexingwei。gengyoushenzhenabierendesiyindakaiwanxiao。yaozhidao，meigerendouyoubuyuweiwairendaodemimi，nijintiantaolunbierende，gujihoutianjiugailundaobierentaolunnidele。yueshuzijidehaoqixin，jishiduitarendezunzhong，yeshiweizijishulilianghaodexingxiang。

6、不要吝惜你的帮助。

 tongshipengzheyidaluowenjian，meifajinwu，nikeyishangqianbangtakaimen；tongxuefankazhaobujianle，nikeyijiejita，huozhegancuidashuangfende，qingtayiqijiucan；nikaicheshangxiaban，yudaoshunludepengyou，zaitayicheng……shiqingsuibuda，danbierennengganshoudaonidereqingheshanliang，wuxingzhongjiuweinijialefen。

7、不要太过小气。

 pengyouzhijianjingchanghuiyoujuhuishenmede，buyaozaixiangshouyuledeshihouxinanlide，yipengdaofukuandeshihoujiuxiaoshicunzaiganle。dachedeshihouzhudongzuodaofujiashang，ruguohelejiu，qianwanbiezhuangzuihuozhuangshui。yiciliangciyexuhuidedaoliangjie，cishuduole，bierenyejiukanchulenideyongyi，dangranjiubuhuizaiheniwanerle。dangran，wobushizaitichanghuihuo。buyongnimeicidouchongdangqiandai，danyebunengconglaibufuzhang。

yishangjiushixiaobianduizenyangtaorenhuanxidewentitichudefangfa，shunbianzaijiaoyixiadajiashuotaorenxihuandehua，xiwangdajiaxihuan。

二、讨人喜欢的话

 1、qingrenjie，duinidesiniantaizhong，yaduanledianhuaxian，shaohuaileshoujika，taojinleqianbaodai，chiguanglean mianyao，ai！keshiwohaishisinianni。

2、jiniyiwanmi，limianjiadianyan，zuihoujiarutang，jianmianshitiande，fenkaishixiande，zuihoucaizhiyiqieshixingfude！

3、yanduobishi，renduodechangheshaoshuohua。

 4、hongchenzhongwomenxiangyu，fengyuzhongwomenqianshou，langtaozhongwomenbingjianqianxing，mingmingzhizhongshangtianziyouanpai，rangwomenshandaizheifenqing。roumadeqinghua

5、kaijishiweiledengni，guanjishiweileduoni，tingjishiweilewangjini，haomaguoqishiweileyongyuanwangji！

6、wodemengxiang ，jiushi，henizaiyiqi！wodetiantang，jiuzai，younidedifang！