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yi、shaonvzuowaiyubeizhuangjianhuizenmezuo
1、选择逃避
zhuiqiushiquanshimeideshaonvzuonansheng,huoxutamenhuiyongshehuidaodedetiaotiaokuangkuangxiandingzijidexingwei。jishitamenyaoqiuzijideaiqingzhuanyi、zhongcheng。danzaimianduizijidechuguishi,neimedangshaonvzuowaiyubeizhuangjianhuizenmezuo?kenengyezhiyouxianru“yizicuomanpanjieluosuo”dewunai。duiyijingfanxiacuowudeshaonvnanxinxu,zaiyebuganzaiyongtiaosanjiansideguimaoyaoqiuquxiandingnvyou,shenzhihuibiaoxianchuailibulidetaidu。zuodaoxiangshiziwoyuanliangdezhuangtai,jiushihuixuanzetaobi
2、给自己找借口
shaonvzuowaiyubeizhuangjianhuizenmezuo?jizijizhaojiekoushitamenbixuyaozuode,yizhengrenjunzizijudeshaonvzuoyidanwaiyudeshiqingbailu,tashouxianhuiqianfangbaijidijizijizhaojiekou,zongshibuganchengrenzijidecuowu,yizhizaizhaojiekou,jiuhenrongyibazijibidaobeidongdiwei。jiexialaijiushikanpeiouheqingrennabianbijiaoqiangshi,duiyushaonvzuozheigebenshenjiubijiaoruoshiderenlaishuo,taxihuanfuyongdaoqianghandeyibian,yeshineixinxiwangdedaobaohudeyigefanying,suoyizheichanglajuzhanqiangshideneifangjiurongyiying。zhaojiekoushitamenweiyidechulu
3、内疚的行为
haishihuiyouneijiudexingwei,shaonvzuoyizhiyilaidouzhuiqiuwanmei,burongxuzijishenshangchuxianrenheyidiandebuwanmei,yexuliantamenzijiyewanwanxiangbudao,zijihuiyouchuguideyitian,yushineixinmanhuaineijiu,pingriailibulideshaonvzenmejiuturanbiandeaisongliwuni?neijiudexingweiyijingchumaileshaonvchuguideshishile。
suirantazaipingshidezuoshishangtazongshizuodetebiederenzhen,dangshihaimeiyouzhiyumeitianjianchawanduanxin、liaotianjilubingshanchuwanlecaihuijiadeneizhongchengdu。dangnifaxiantadeduanxindoushikongde,liaotianjiluyeshikongdeshihou,nijiuyinggaizhidaozheizhongmingxiandeyingxiongqiduanxingweizuyishuomingtadedongjishishenme?yishangjiushiaguanyushaonvzuowaiyubeizhuangjianhuizenmezuodeneirong。
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