shuangzizuoxinggegulingjingguaidepiqi,shierdajingxiaoguairangrenkeqiyoukexiao,shierfachuyinlingbandexiaorongshenshenxiyinnidezhuyili,shierbanzhelianzhuangshenchen。daodinayigecaishizhenzhengdetani?shuangzizuoxinggeruhe?shuangzizuoxinggetexingyouyounaxieni,xiaobianjinijieda!
shuangzizuoxinggeruhe,yibanrenrenweishuangzizuoshishuangmianren,juyoushuangzhongxingge。zheishiyinweiyibanrenzaiguancharendeshihou,jiuquebianhuaguanchajiaodudenenglisuozhi。yige「jianrenshuorenhua,jianguishuoguihua」deshuangzizuo,bijuyouxiangdangqiangdeyuyanjiqiaojigoutongnengli,tatongshilejierenhegui,quebunengyincilunduantashijirenqiegui,huokerenkegui,shenzhishuotaburenbuguide。tazhiduicunzaiyuyuzhouzhijiandeshiwu,bichangrenduoyifenyinhaoqierdelaidelijieli。yinci,yaolejieshuangzizuo,nidehaoqixinyulijielidoubunengtaicha。
一、在利落中有许多难以分割的层次
shuangzizuoxinggetexingshichayanguanse,shishuangzizuorendekanjiabenling。jiashangtadekoucai,tazongshihenkuaibiannengyouxiaozhangwozhubierendexinsi,bingshuofuduifang。
shuangzizuorendemeiyanhetadeshoujiaoyiyangliluo,danzaililuozhongyoudaizhexuduonanyifengedecengci;gangzhongdairou,xierbuluan。shiqihuayuguanlibumenbukeduodederencai。erqietadezhixingnengliyiqiang,zhishijiaobuxinrenbieren,ningkeduzijieshoutiaozhan。biewuhuitashineizhongxihuanlangongzaishenderen,tazhishixinranjieshouyingdedebiaobangbale。
shuangzizuoderenaiming,danyoubuyuanlangdexuming,taxihuanzijichengweibierenxinmuzhongde「shilipai」renshi。taxihuanzuoqishilaiyoushengyouse,suibubiyidingyaobiaoxinliyi,queyejuebunengbujianchizijidedutefengge。tahengaoxingyuanqinjinlinzhidaotashiyigeheshande、yuanyihezuode,quebuhuiweilerenherenweiquziji,shizijikanqilaisuqi、xiangyuan。
二、求生意志与求胜心,使他得了金牌
gongkaichanghehuozhuodixiadedouzheng,shuangzizuodoubuganjuxiafeng。zhiyaoyoubiyao,mingzhengandou,talaizhebuju。keshi,taburenweizhengdoushigaojirenleisuodangwei,wanyibeichejindijirenleidefenzhengzhong,tayejuebuhuixiucaibeibingqi;qiushengyizhiyuqiushengxin,shishuangzizuodelebushaojinpai。ernibixuzunzhongtaneixiejinpaidelaibuyi。
shuangzizuoderenbuxiyicantongdejingyanlaiqudebaoguidejiaoxun。huaqianmaijiaoxun,yeshichangyoudeshi。ruguotazaishuofunideshihou,banchutadeqinshenjingyan,ernirengmianluyisehuobuxundeshenqing,tabizaijielunfengsongniyijuhua:「niyitinglaorenyan,chikuizaiyanqian。daoshihouzenmekedoubuzhidao,erqiesiyouyugue!」tabuxiangganshenideshi。danniyidanyizhaoshangtasuku,taquanni,niyiting,tabianhuiyanlidiweixiayigekepadeyuyan。zhunbuzhun?neiyaokanniyouduobutinghuacaizhidao。
三、好玩、好动、好奇,讲求共通性
shuangzizuoderen,caiqingyangyi,bingjuyouqiangdudeganranli。yinweitamenshanyuzaiyouxideqifenzhong,qinjinni,wajienidewuzhuang,yindaonikaifazijiqianzangdekuailedenengli。
haowan、haodong、haoqi,shishuangzizuoxiangyimeitiaodongbuxiudehuoyan,shiqiangshiruo,queyongbuximie。tamenjingliwangsheng,duigongzuorenzhen,duipengyoujiangqingyi,duishiyeyexinbobo。danshitadeqingren,quechangbeitanongdejingpilijie,tadejiarenyechangyintadeqingxugaodejifeigoutiao!weishenmeni?shuangzizuowufarenshouyichengbubiandeguanxi,gudingdeshiwushitashuailaodejikuai,yeshitasuoaideduixiangshuailaodejikuai。
seshuaiaichi,zheishizhende。duishuangzizuolaishuo,jingshenjiushise。yejiushizhongguorensuoshuode“qi”。yizhilizuoyouleyigerendechengbai,tayaoqiuziji,yeyaoqiubieren。buguo,bingbushihensiban;youshihoutaduizijihuisongyidian,duibierenyanyidian。
“qiongzebian,bianzetong,tongzeda。”zheishikonglaofuzishuode。queyezhengqiaoshishuangzizuodechushiguan。tamenxihuan「huidongnaojin」deren。
四、放开心情人生如戏
quzhe、liqidefenweizhong,shuangzizuoderenxiudaoaiqingdezongjile。takaishituiqiao,lianxiang,fanfupanduan。tadounongni,nideyangchu,buhuihenkuaigaosunizhenzhengdeyisi。nidejindeqitadeliaobo,youchendezhuqi。zhidaotabiaoming“laiba,gongjiwo”,nicaikeyizhenzhengxingdong。danbiekaixin,tabuhuizheimeqingyibeigongxian,jishimanxiangbeinigongxian,tayeyaonipeita“wan”shangyiduan。nihenkenengjuedetazaizhemoni,burufangkaixinxiong,nigaoqingchurenshengruxi,jiubuhuineimeyuantale。
shuangzizuoshizuiyouqudeqingren。aiqingdeyouxi,tabaiwanbuyan,bingqiehuayangcengchubuqiong,niruobunengyutayiqixiangshouzheigeleixingdeaiqingqiwei,buruchenzaodatuitangguba。
hunyin?zheizhongbeifalvbaozhang(yekeyishuoshufu)deqingganguanxi,duishuangzizuodereneryan,shizaifawei。dantabushineizhongcongxiaojiubaodushenzhuyideren,zhibuguoyidanlilehunjiuhennanzaihunbale。
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