花镇情感是真是假？挽回时遭遇冷暴力？

 zaitanlianaihuohunyinzhizhong，huazhenqingganshizhenshijia?shuangfangchuliganqingdefangfadabuyiyang。dangfenqizaochengdeqingkuangxia，nvshengxihuanyongzhengchaohuozhetiguoqudefangshilaifaxieganqing，changshiweicianshizhenanhaizixianzhiqian。

 keshijishangfeichangshaonanhaizihuiyinererjinvpengyouzhiqian，naizhijuedelingyifangtaiguofenle，jineryingyongjiatinglengbaolidefangfalaijiejuenvpengyoudemanbujiangli。zaijiatinglengbaolidebuduanlengdongxia，nvhaidinghuijuedebiequbuji，yinwufarenshouermingquetichutichufenshou，rangnanhaizilaiwanliuzishen。

 nvhaiquebuzhidaozheiyijudonghuizhinanhaizineixinhuigengweinanshou，juedeniyagenmeixiangguoyaohetahaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，yixinjiuxuyaoyongtichufenshoulaiweixietadixiatouchengrencuowu，yincibianjienanidetichufenshouyaoqiu。

 zheileilengbaolifenshouqudechenggongzhihou，ninengfajuebuguanzairuhewanhuiqianrenyetulao，tarutongbingchuanyiyanglengdan。neima，zheizuobingchuanqueshimeifaxiaoronglemeiyou?niqueshijiuwanliuyaoyaowuqilemeiyou?daoyebuyiding，yaoxiangwanliuqudechenggong，nixuyaozuodeyouyixiajigefangmian：

1.寻找缘故，清除芥蒂

 meiyouyigerenhuimomingqimiaodiyingyongjiatinglengbaoli，jiatinglengbaolidechanshengbidingshilijinglezhangqiderenshou，zuihouhenzhiruguerzaocheng de。yaoxiangyuqiannanyouxiufulianluo，nidangyihuiyidajiaxiangchushizishendeshenshangcunzaidebuzu，bingxiangtarencuo。

 rencuobingbushijiuzuibianneimayishuo，neiyanghuikanqilainihenfuyanleshi，niwubiyouhuadaonizainalijianshiershangchajuezijiyoucuo，neishihoubuyinggaineiyangtaiguo。yaoshiqiannanyoumeiyouhenyanfan，yibandouburongyijinichuzaigangadechujing，qingchujiedidetahuixiangyaozaiciyunixianliao。

2.找寻共同语言

 fuchouzhelianmeng4yihou，niyingxunzhaodajiadegongtongyuyan，jijiyuqiannanyoubaochilianluo，danbuyongtaiguojinmi，zaiwanliuzaoqiyitiannengliaoshangshilaijuzaoyifeichanghaole。

 errangdajiaxianliaodepinciduoqilai、shijianzhangqilaidezhongyaojiuqujueyuzheiyigongtongyuyanshisha，niwubishunshuituizhou，xuantazuixihuandedongxilailiao。

 liru，ruoqiannanyouxiaiwanyouxi，niyenenggoushizhequdatachangwandeyouxi，bingqiujiaota，shitapeiniguoguan。ruciyilaiqiannanyoubianhuizaochengyizhongzihaogan，juedezishenbeixuyaole，juedeniyehuichuxianqiujiaotadediqu。

3.深更半夜会话，坦言后悔莫及

 yelitongchangshirenzuimingan，yeshizuifeichangrongyihuiyishadeqingkuangxia。zaishengengbanyeshihouninengzhuangzuozishenhezuijiu，jiezuigaozhiqiannanyouzishenyouduohouhuimoji，sangshitajiniduomedebugaoxing。

 ciwai，niyeyaorenkeguoquzishendemanbujiangli，meiyoudakaixinfeiyutagoutongjiaoliushinicuole，nimeiyingdangsuiyititichufenshou，buyinggaibanadajiadeqinggandangerxi。