花镇情感咨询公司:90%的人都会进入的挽回误区你中招了吗？

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其实不是。

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 zaizheigeshilizhong，youderengaobudong：weihebenlaibzaoyigaibianxianzhuangle，tigaozijideyouhuolile，huanshimeinengwanliuqudechenggongni?

 feichangjiandan。shijishang，yixieshuobailede“fujianyouhuoli”，zhishishigenjubiaocengshangdezhuangshihegenggai，jiuxiangranglingyifanghehaoruchu。henyoukeneng，zaiyixiejiaowangshijianjiaoduandelianrendeshenshangshihelide，keshi，zhenduijiaowangshijianjiaozhang，naizhizaoyiquqishengzidereneryan，neiyangdefangfagongxiaowei0。

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错误观念：有对策就一定成功

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 shijishang，wanliushilaoshihejiaolianyuanchushideyixieduice、zhanlvezheixie，shiyigewuzhi。zenmelijieni?rutongyijiezhiqianyizhizaijiangde，wanliuzheiyijianshier，zuizhongyaodeyaosushikanninengbunengzhaodaotaduinidejuede。erzheizhongduicehezhanlve，ganghaobianshixiezhunilaizaicijiqilingyifangjuededezhuanyonggongju，huoshifangfa。

 neiyangdefangfa，zaimouxierendeshenshangchenggongle，neimatajiukeyiwanliulingyifang;jiaruzaimouxierendeshenshangshibai，neimejiubixubianhuaduicezaiqinfen。

 jianchibuxie、yongbufangqicaikeyilirunzuidahuawanliudetongguolv，huanjuhuashuo，jinyouyongleqiadangdefangfa，ranglingyifangkeyixunzhaoaizhenidenagejuede，caikeyizuodao1+1>2deshijixiaoguo。

错误观念：挽留就需要说明一切

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 yeyouyizhongzhuangkuang，bianshizaiwanliukaizhandaoyibannaizhi3/4deqingkuangxia，zuoweibeigaofangdenizaiyebuhuifangfarenshouxialaile，taizaodepululezishendewanliuyaoqiu，neiyangdegerenxingweiyehuiranglingyifang“taodiao”de。

 youyu，zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，lingyifangbixuzaicichuangjianyigegennidexiangchumoshi，yejiushibixuzaicijieshouni。“zaicijieshou”xiangbi“kanzhongyigerenzaizhuidao”，nantaiduole。erqie，jiarunidewanliuyaoqiutaizaopulu，huiranglingyifangganjuenishidaizhujudazhenduixingcaihuitiejintade。zheiyangyilai，yiqiandewanliugongzuozhongheqinfen，yejiutulaole。