你连优势都没有，还怎么挽回？花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？

 yibanlaijiang，zaifenshouhou，taduinihuanshiyouyibufenxintaide，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？huanjuhuashuo，dajiaxianghujianhuanshigenjuzheizhongxintaiyouyidinglianjiede。neima，dajiazhuyaoqukaolvdaode，bianshizenyangyunyongzheizhongxintaixiagongfu，laichuangjianzishenzaiwanliuzhongdeyoudian。

大家先看来一个实例：

 ahebzaiwanhun2nianbanhou，lihundiaojiele。bzuoweilaopohemama，wanliudechongdongjiushifenmingxian，yinci，jiuxiguanxingdeyaoxiangyueachuquhaohaoditanyitan，qidainenghuanjieguanlian，suihouzaihun。keshini，adexintaijiujiaoweiguoduan，jibugoutongjiaoliu，yebujianmian，jiuneimeyizhidiaozhu。zaizaijiashangadebabamamayezaicuiazaizhaoyigexinshougouchengjiazhong，bjiushifennanshou，ganjuexiaohaidehaizifuyangquandoupanjiale，zaidaizhuzishendexiaohaiquhetarenguorizi，shizishenchedibukeyijienade。yinci，bjiuzhaodaoqingganzixunshiqidainenggenjujishuzhuanyedewanliushijicaozuolaizaihun。

 zaishangmiandeshilizhong，bjiuguishuyuneileiwanliuchongdongfeichangmingxian，keshijibenshangmeishenmeyoudianderen。zheileizhuangkuang，zaiwangridewanliushilizhong，yeshishifenpubiande。

so，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，bnenggouzuodezuihaoshidetiaoxuan，bianshixuehaoqubianhuanzhenshishenfen。

如何来了解呢?

 feichangjiandan。zaijutidewanliushijicaozuozhong，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？bbuyinggaiyongyigeqizidezhenshishenfenqutiejina，zhongjiu，liangrenjirantiaoxuanlilehun，neihaowuyiwenshizaiziworentongshangchuxianlefeichangdadenanti，caihuizaocheng neiyangdejieguo。yinci ，zheileiqingkuangxia，bzuihaoshiyingyongyigehaizimamadezhenshishenfenqutiejinlingyifang，caihuigengweichenggong。

 ciwai，youyuliangrenfenlideshijianmeiyouduozhangshijian，yinci ，adeneixinhaicanliuzhexuduozhenduibdexintai。yidankeyiyongbianhuanzhenshishenfendefangfa，rangliangrenzhujianchupeng，zaigenjuchupengqujiejueliangrenxianghujianzheixiedouhaimeixiaotuidexintai，dangranhuiqudechenggongwanliu。

重新构建优良关联

 shangbianjiangdeneileizhuangkuang，shiliangrenfenlichulaishijianjiaoweiduan，liangrendecanliuxintaihaijiaoweishenhoudezhuangkuangxia，yunyongbianhuanzhenshishenfendefangfaqutiejinhuichuxianjiaoweifeichanghaodeshijixiaoguo。

keshi，jiaruliangrenfenlichulaishijianjiaoweizhang，yougairuni?

 yibanlaijiang，jiaruliangrendefenlichulaishijianjiaoweizhang，zuixiannenggouhaowuyiwendeyidianshi：tazhenduinidecanliuxintaizaoyijichuxiaohaodaijinle，jiaruchangshizaiyongtiejin+yunyongxintaidefangfa，xianeryijianbushixingdetongde。

zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，womenyaozuodediyidian，bianshixianquchulidajialiangrenzhongjiancunyoudewuhui。

为何那么做呢?

 zuixian，zaitaduinidexintaizaoyijichuxiaoqianwandeqingkuangxia，yongchuliwuhuineiyangdefangfaqutiejinlingyifang，nenggouzaicijiqiyibufenlingyifangduidajiaxianghuwangridezhuiyi。wulunzheiyifenzhuiyishihaoshihuai，zongeryanzhi，yidanzhuiyibeijiqi。zuishaodajiaxianghujianyongyouyigekelianjiedefangshi。zheishiyigeshifenguanjiandewaizhiliucheng。