花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？TA断联的真相，真不是你想的那样

 rutongyijiezhiqianshuode：huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？“wanliuzhongzuizhongyaodeyibu，bianshiyaokeyigenjugerenxingweijiandaonantishizhi。”fenshouzheiyijianshieryeshiyiyang，taduanjuegennidelianluo，jinjinbiaocengdeyizhonggerenxingweifangfa，erqishizhihenyoukenengshi“ziwoshexian”zaocheng defenshou。

zenmelijieni?jugeshililaibiaoming：

 ahebfenshouhou，bzailijingleyizhouyihou，jiaruheimingdanleadelianxidianhua，duanjueleliangrendequanbulaiwang。zaiyisideqingganzixunshipouxilezhuangkuangyihou，fajuebbingbingbushiyouyujuerancaijiaruheimingdanlianxidianhuade，yinci，jiutiyiagenjuqitafangshi，duozuoganshouxingdezhengqueyindao。yigeyueyihou，aqudechenggongwanliulelingyifang。

 zaishangmiandeshilizhong，bwangwanghuigenlingyifangfenshou，youjudadejilv，shiyouyuziwoshexian。jianyieryan，bianshizishenhaipayingduizheiyiduanqinggan，haipayingduiadewanliu，yinci caihuigenjufenshoudefangfaziwoshexian。

 huanjuhuashuo，zaizheileizhuangkuangzhong，bdexinlihuodongmiaoxieshi：haipaniquwanliuwo，wanyitawanliuwodeqingkuangxiawohensuibiandijiutongyileni?wanyizuizhongwozaicihenizaiyiqile，nihuanshigenzhiqianyiyanggaizenmeban?neibibushanggancuijiuxianjiaruheimingdanzaishuoba。

 zheijiushiyizhong“bieryuanzhi”defangyuliqingkuang，tongsuhuaeryan，neiyangqingkuangxiaderen，bianshidouhaimeixuehuifangxia。huanjuhuashuo，taduiniyeyoujudade“juede”beicanliulechulai。

 so，jiarulingyifangshizaineiyangdeyizhongqingkuangxiagennifenshoude，neima，nizhuyaobixuquzuodeshierjiufeichangjiandanle：ganshouxingzhengqueyindao。

 zaishilizhong，zheileifangfayeshiyisideqingganzixunshicaiyongdeguanjianfangfa。genjuchixudegouqitaduinide“haodejuede”，zaizaijiashangzishentahaihuaiyoudezheixiecanliude“xingfudeganjue”，shengdongjixi，dangranhuichuxianfeichangfeichanghaodechengguo，zuihouyaoshijianchidaodi，wanliuqudechenggongyeshibiranmeiyouwentide。

分手仅仅一种宣泄

yeyouyizhongzhuangkuang，yeshizaifenshouzhuangkuangzhongchuxianjilvshifendeyizhongfangshi：xuanxie。liruxiabianzheiyishili：

 ahebjingchangyouyuyixieshenghuosuoshichanshengyixiexiaomoca，shijianzhangleyihou，zheizhongmocadechanshengpinlvyulaiyugao，zhengchaodeshuipingyeyulaiyuehua。zhizhiyouyitian，liangrenyouyurichangshenghuonantidachaoyijiayihou，ashuaimenlikai，bingzaineishihoujiujiaruheimingdanlebdequanbulianxidianhua。huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？liangrenwanquanfenshouqiemeiyoupengmiandeqingkuangbuduanlesantian。yihou，blaizhaoxunqingganzixunshichushixiezhu。zaijiaoshidetiyihejutizhidaoxia，yongbushangerzhizhoudeshijian，jiuwanliulelingyifang。

zaizheigeshilidangzhong，adefenshou，bizengjiashuipingshangfuhexing“xuanxieshifenshou”detedian。

如何来了解呢?

 feichangjiandan。liangrenzhangqixingdouchuzaiyigejingchangmocahezhengchaodeqingkuangzhong，bingqie，neiyangdeqingkuangyulaiyuehua，qushiyeyulaiyukuoda。zaizheigeqingkuangzhong，ade“shuaimenerqu”he“jianjuejiaruheimingdan”，dounenggoulejieweizheicizhengchaodechixu。

 huoxu，zaialaikan，zishenzaoyimeiyouqitafangfanenggouzaiquehuashengjizheici“zhanshi”le，keshi，zishendexintaiyoudouhaimeixuanxiewan，zenmebanni?neimejiushunlichengzhangde，genjutichufenshou、jiaruheimingdan、xiaotuizheixieyixiliefangfa，laizaicirangzishendefumianqingxuhegongjinenglixuanxiechuqu。

 keshi，xuduorendaowanliushibingmeiyouyongxinpouxiguozhuangkuang，zheiyejiuzaocheng henduorenhuichuxianfengkuangyaoxianghelingyifangzaiciqudelianxi，erqiegenjugezhonggeyangbuyiyangrenmaiguanxifangshiqiangzhiyaolingyifangjiahuizishenlianxidianhuadegerenxingwei。zheileigerenxingweiyihou，juedaduoshuquanshiwanquanfenshou，wanliubuchenggong。

为何?

 dangtayaoxianggenjuzheileifangfalaifaxieqingxudeqingkuangxia，nipianyaoyaobuduanquposhilingyifang，chixujitazengjiaxindefumianqingxu。shijianyizhang，tahuifajueneiyangyagenmeifawanquanbaqingxuxuanxiewan，zuihou，yezongshimeiliujiyudefangqini。